<![CDATA[For Better. For Worse. For Real]]>Ryan & Janiah are high school sweethearts together for 16 years, married for 10, and Mom & Dad to 3 kiddos. They talk about all things marriage ( good, bad, and everything in between) and what it REALLY means when you say "for better or for worse".

]]>https://riverside.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Thu, 28 May 2026 15:24:19 GMTThu, 01 Jan 2026 20:11:14 GMT60Ryan Farmer & Janiah Farmer<p>Ryan &amp; Janiah are high school sweethearts together for 16 years, married for 10, and Mom &amp; Dad to 3 kiddos. They talk about all things marriage ( good, bad, and everything in between) and what it REALLY means when you say "for better or for worse".</p>episodicRyan Farmer & Janiah Farmeraskthefarmerspod@gmail.comno<![CDATA[S1E10: Season of Love]]>In this heartfelt season finale, the couple reflects on their journey, growth, and the lessons learned through their podcast about marriage. They share personal stories, insights on communication, intimacy, and how their relationship has evolved over time.

]]>8f9ccb73-6994-4df2-8924-d5ee498c8ff2Fri, 06 Mar 2026 02:00:05 GMT<p>In this heartfelt season finale, the couple reflects on their journey, growth, and the lessons learned through their podcast about marriage. They share personal stories, insights on communication, intimacy, and how their relationship has evolved over time.</p><p></p>no01:04:16110S1E10: Season of Lovefull<![CDATA[S1E9: Parenting with Purpose]]>In this episode, the hosts engage in a heartfelt discussion about their experiences and challenges in parenting. They reflect on their individual emotional journeys, the importance of communication, and their aspirations for their children. The conversation covers core values they wish to instill, teamwork in parenting, and the significance of creating a safe emotional environment for their kids. They also explore the unique needs of each child, conflict resolution strategies, and the balance between discipline and nurturing. The episode concludes with a poignant reflection on the legacy of love they hope to leave for their children.

]]>5fb65781-520b-4800-937d-1f49108e8a83Fri, 27 Feb 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, the hosts engage in a heartfelt discussion about their experiences and challenges in parenting. They reflect on their individual emotional journeys, the importance of communication, and their aspirations for their children. The conversation covers core values they wish to instill, teamwork in parenting, and the significance of creating a safe emotional environment for their kids. They also explore the unique needs of each child, conflict resolution strategies, and the balance between discipline and nurturing. The episode concludes with a poignant reflection on the legacy of love they hope to leave for their children.</p><p></p>no00:40:1619S1E9: Parenting with Purposefull<![CDATA[S1E8: Petty or Justified/Red Flag or Deal Breaker]]>In this episode, the hosts engage in two fun games: 'Petty or Justified' and 'Red Flags or Dealbreakers.' They explore various scenarios related to food, communication, and relationship dynamics, providing humorous insights and personal anecdotes. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding each other's habits and the nuances of communication in relationships, ultimately leading to discussions about what constitutes a red flag or dealbreaker in a partnership.

]]>3fe7d814-9258-40a9-a248-1f1f97a706f7Fri, 20 Feb 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, the hosts engage in two fun games: 'Petty or Justified' and 'Red Flags or Dealbreakers.' They explore various scenarios related to food, communication, and relationship dynamics, providing humorous insights and personal anecdotes. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding each other's habits and the nuances of communication in relationships, ultimately leading to discussions about what constitutes a red flag or dealbreaker in a partnership.</p><p></p>yes00:35:5418S1E8: Petty or Justified/Red Flag or Deal Breakerfull<![CDATA[S1:E7 Too Hot To Handle]]>In this episode, Janiah and Ryan dive into various hot take relationship questions, exploring topics such as boundaries with exes, friendships with the opposite gender, and the complexities of cheating. They discuss the nature of monogamy and whether it is a social construct or a natural state, as well as their views on open marriages. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, mutual respect, and the influence of friend groups on romantic relationships. In this engaging conversation, Ryan and Janiah delve into various aspects of relationships, including boundaries, intimacy, honesty, and the complexities of unconditional love. They explore the impact of physical appearance as we age, the natural occurrence of attraction beyond marriage, and the implications of divorce on children. The discussion also touches on loyalty in relationships, particularly in the context of serious crimes, and the significance of sleeping arrangements in a partnership. Their candid dialogue offers insights into the dynamics of love and commitment.

]]>800df8cb-6e59-4afb-8f66-12d2a467fec6Fri, 13 Feb 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Janiah and Ryan dive into various hot take relationship questions, exploring topics such as boundaries with exes, friendships with the opposite gender, and the complexities of cheating. They discuss the nature of monogamy and whether it is a social construct or a natural state, as well as their views on open marriages. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, mutual respect, and the influence of friend groups on romantic relationships. In this engaging conversation, Ryan and Janiah delve into various aspects of relationships, including boundaries, intimacy, honesty, and the complexities of unconditional love. They explore the impact of physical appearance as we age, the natural occurrence of attraction beyond marriage, and the implications of divorce on children. The discussion also touches on loyalty in relationships, particularly in the context of serious crimes, and the significance of sleeping arrangements in a partnership. Their candid dialogue offers insights into the dynamics of love and commitment.</p><p></p>yes00:37:3317S1:E7 Too Hot To Handlefull<![CDATA[S1E6: Let's Communicate]]>In this episode, Ryan and Janiah discuss the importance of communication in relationships, sharing their experiences and tools that have helped them improve their connection. They explore the use of the Paired app, the significance of creating a safe space for dialogue, and the role of couples therapy in maintaining a healthy relationship. The conversation also touches on conflict resolution, active listening, and the value of future planning together.

]]>63984274-e6c9-43d2-9314-c4ada258053fFri, 06 Feb 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Ryan and Janiah discuss the importance of communication in relationships, sharing their experiences and tools that have helped them improve their connection. They explore the use of the Paired app, the significance of creating a safe space for dialogue, and the role of couples therapy in maintaining a healthy relationship. The conversation also touches on conflict resolution, active listening, and the value of future planning together.</p><p></p>yes00:42:0516S1E6: Let's Communicatefull<![CDATA[S1E5: Emotional Intimacy]]>In this episode, Ryan and Janiah explore the theme of emotional intimacy in relationships. They reflect on their weekly check-in, discussing the closeness they've experienced recently and the activities that can further strengthen their bond. The couple delves into the factors that could lead to disconnection, the importance of communication, and the role of therapy in enhancing their relationship. They share their dreams and aspirations for the future, emphasizing the significance of creating lasting memories together. Throughout the conversation, they highlight the importance of recognizing warning signs in their relationship and the steps they take to maintain a strong emotional connection.

]]>df9fe5a5-04c5-4267-a243-db7ca72d8257Fri, 30 Jan 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Ryan and Janiah explore the theme of emotional intimacy in relationships. They reflect on their weekly check-in, discussing the closeness they've experienced recently and the activities that can further strengthen their bond. The couple delves into the factors that could lead to disconnection, the importance of communication, and the role of therapy in enhancing their relationship. They share their dreams and aspirations for the future, emphasizing the significance of creating lasting memories together. Throughout the conversation, they highlight the importance of recognizing warning signs in their relationship and the steps they take to maintain a strong emotional connection.</p><p></p>yes00:31:4815S1E5: Emotional Intimacyfull<![CDATA[S1E4: Uncomfortable Truths]]>In this episode, Ryan and Janiah engage in a candid discussion about their personal experiences and challenges in their marriage. They explore the importance of communication, the uncomfortable truths that often go unspoken in relationships, and the dynamics of sacrifice and support. The couple also delves into the complexities of interracial relationships, the balance between love and compatibility, and how marriage can impact personal growth. Their conversation is both insightful and relatable, offering listeners a glimpse into their journey together.

]]>e9c5ca11-a66d-446d-ad96-281e402ef396Fri, 23 Jan 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, Ryan and Janiah engage in a candid discussion about their personal experiences and challenges in their marriage. They explore the importance of communication, the uncomfortable truths that often go unspoken in relationships, and the dynamics of sacrifice and support. The couple also delves into the complexities of interracial relationships, the balance between love and compatibility, and how marriage can impact personal growth. Their conversation is both insightful and relatable, offering listeners a glimpse into their journey together.</p><p></p>yes00:23:3814S1E4: Uncomfortable Truthsfull<![CDATA[S1E3: 21 Questions & Love Languages]]>In this engaging conversation, Ryan and Janiah explore the intricacies of love languages and how they shape their relationship. They reflect on their initial impressions of each other, revealing how their perceptions have evolved over time. Ryan shares how he was drawn to Janiah's genuine nature and laughter, while Janiah discusses the importance of feeling accepted for who she is, free from societal pressures. They delve into their primary love languages—Ryan's preference for physical touch and quality time, and Janiah's inclination towards words of affirmation and acts of service. The couple emphasizes the significance of understanding and adapting to each other's love languages to foster a deeper connection.

As they navigate through their experiences, they highlight the challenges of communicating love in different ways and the growth that comes from learning to speak each other's languages fluently. Their candid discussion not only sheds light on their personal journey but also invites listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the ways they express and receive love. The conversation culminates in a heartfelt reminder of the importance of emotional maturity and open communication in maintaining a healthy relationship.

]]>b5077ab0-6edb-4e6c-bb6d-e6efa04c4dc1Fri, 16 Jan 2026 01:47:06 GMT<p>In this engaging conversation, Ryan and Janiah explore the intricacies of love languages and how they shape their relationship. They reflect on their initial impressions of each other, revealing how their perceptions have evolved over time. Ryan shares how he was drawn to Janiah's genuine nature and laughter, while Janiah discusses the importance of feeling accepted for who she is, free from societal pressures. They delve into their primary love languages—Ryan's preference for physical touch and quality time, and Janiah's inclination towards words of affirmation and acts of service. The couple emphasizes the significance of understanding and adapting to each other's love languages to foster a deeper connection.</p><p></p><p>As they navigate through their experiences, they highlight the challenges of communicating love in different ways and the growth that comes from learning to speak each other's languages fluently. Their candid discussion not only sheds light on their personal journey but also invites listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the ways they express and receive love. The conversation culminates in a heartfelt reminder of the importance of emotional maturity and open communication in maintaining a healthy relationship.</p><p></p>yes00:20:1513S1E3: 21 Questions & Love Languagesfull<![CDATA[S1E2: Relationship Myths]]>In this conversation, Ryan and Janiah explore the complexities of disagreements and differences in relationships. They discuss the importance of communication, understanding conflict dynamics, and the necessity of empathy in resolving issues. The couple shares their insights on navigating conflicts, the significance of setting rules for a happy marriage, and the ongoing journey of relationship growth. Through their candid dialogue, they emphasize that love alone is not enough; it requires effort, understanding, and a willingness to learn from each other.

]]>7804daa6-f139-4fcb-ac43-a2bc56de4a2aFri, 09 Jan 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this conversation, Ryan and Janiah explore the complexities of disagreements and differences in relationships. They discuss the importance of communication, understanding conflict dynamics, and the necessity of empathy in resolving issues. The couple shares their insights on navigating conflicts, the significance of setting rules for a happy marriage, and the ongoing journey of relationship growth. Through their candid dialogue, they emphasize that love alone is not enough; it requires effort, understanding, and a willingness to learn from each other.</p>yes00:20:3912S1E2: Relationship Mythsfull<![CDATA[S1E1: Humble Beginnings]]>In this engaging conversation, Janiah and Ryan share their journey from high school sweethearts to married parents, discussing the challenges and triumphs they faced along the way. They reflect on their early relationship, the importance of communication, and the intentionality required to maintain a loving marriage. The couple also opens up about their experiences with infertility and the joy of parenthood, offering insights and advice for other couples navigating similar paths.

]]>13ab5134-f47b-4208-bdbf-0b14a96d2960Fri, 02 Jan 2026 02:00:00 GMT<p>In this engaging conversation, Janiah and Ryan share their journey from high school sweethearts to married parents, discussing the challenges and triumphs they faced along the way. They reflect on their early relationship, the importance of communication, and the intentionality required to maintain a loving marriage. The couple also opens up about their experiences with infertility and the joy of parenthood, offering insights and advice for other couples navigating similar paths.</p>no00:20:4811S1E1: Humble Beginningsfull<![CDATA[Season 1 Trailer]]>Episode 1 streaming January 1, 2026 at 9pm EST. New episodes every Thursday at 9pm EST.

]]>1510610d-702e-4adb-8e9f-c6422d66c160Thu, 01 Jan 2026 20:13:58 GMT<p>Episode 1 streaming January 1, 2026 at 9pm EST. New episodes every Thursday at 9pm EST.</p>no00:02:19Season 1 Trailertrailer