<![CDATA[10KQ Podcast]]>https://aspenministry.org/Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Sun, 14 Jun 2026 10:20:44 GMTThu, 04 Sep 2025 18:07:39 GMT60Val O'BrienWelcome to the 10,000 Questions podcast. A podcast for students where we answer your hardest questions about God, faith and life. Hosted by Val O’Brien, the director of the 10,000 Questions project and personal friend, and general fan of young people. Listen to hear conversations that are full of genuine curiosity, intellectual honesty, and a sincere desire to know what is true and make sense of the world. Everyone has questions, what are yours?episodicVal O'Brienvalobrien@aspenministry.orgno<![CDATA[Shame, Identity & Forgiveness — Real Questions from Real Students | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 15]]>Welcome to this student Q&A episode on the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O'Brien is joined by Jordan Francis — counselor, youth ministry leader, and founder of Reframe — to tackle some of the rawest, most honest questions students are asking about shame, identity, grief, forgiveness, and faith.

In this episode, we cover:
- How do you not feel ashamed or embarrassed for the things you've done or that have happened to you?
- Why can't people ever see the good in me?
- How do you let bad things make you and not break you?
- Why can't I forgive my mom for all the bad things she's done to me?
- How do I spread the gospel when my life is a mess?
- Is it okay to be an atheist and go to church?

📌 If you've ever felt like your past defines you, like no one sees your worth, or like your life is too messy to follow Jesus — this episode is for you.

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: https://ask10KQ.org

Check out Jordan's work: https://www.reframeyouth.com/

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#ChristianPodcast #StudentFaith #10KQ #Identity #Forgiveness #GriefAndFaith #JesusAndMentalHealth

]]>8a00c867-a619-4d25-880d-338f036bbb96Tue, 19 May 2026 13:24:52 GMT<p>Welcome to this student Q&amp;A episode on the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O'Brien is joined by Jordan Francis — counselor, youth ministry leader, and founder of Reframe — to tackle some of the rawest, most honest questions students are asking about shame, identity, grief, forgiveness, and faith.<br /><br />In this episode, we cover:<br />- How do you not feel ashamed or embarrassed for the things you've done or that have happened to you?<br />- Why can't people ever see the good in me?<br />- How do you let bad things make you and not break you?<br />- Why can't I forgive my mom for all the bad things she's done to me?<br />- How do I spread the gospel when my life is a mess?<br />- Is it okay to be an atheist and go to church?<br /><br />📌 If you've ever felt like your past defines you, like no one sees your worth, or like your life is too messy to follow Jesus — this episode is for you.<br /><br />Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">https://ask10KQ.org</a><br /><br />Check out Jordan's work: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.reframeyouth.com/" target="_blank">https://www.reframeyouth.com/</a><br /><br />Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.<br />Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.<br /><br />Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.<br /><br />#ChristianPodcast #StudentFaith #10KQ #Identity #Forgiveness #GriefAndFaith #JesusAndMentalHealth</p>no00:59:38115Shame, Identity & Forgiveness — Real Questions from Real Students | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 15full<![CDATA[Feeling Far from God? Here's How to Grow Closer | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 14]]>Welcome to this Q&A episode on the 10,000 Questions Podcast—a podcast for students where we answer your hardest questions about God, faith, and life. Host Val O'Bryan is joined by Chad Huffman, high school teacher, coach, department head, and Christianity & Culture instructor with over 13 years in education.

How do you grow closer to God and what does that actually look like in real life? Whether you've been following Jesus for years or you're just beginning to explore faith, this episode is for you. We recorded it for anyone ready to take one more step toward knowing God.

In this episode, we cover:
- What to do when you feel far from God in your faith
- Whether spiritual distance is something you caused—or something worth paying attention to
- How relationship habits (prayer, Scripture, community) shape your walk with God
- The difference between building healthy spiritual habits and falling into legalism
- How the people and patterns in your life affect your closeness to God
- What it looks like to grow at different stages of following Jesus
- Why students' hardest faith questions deserve honest answers—not just the "party line"
- How a Christianity & Culture class brings real-world topics into faith conversations

📌 If you've ever wondered why God feels distant, or what you're actually supposed to do about it—this episode is for you.

Learn more: https://ask10KQ.org

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#ChristianPodcast #StudentFaith #10KQ #GrowingCloserToGod #FaithQuestions #ChristianStudents #HighSchoolFaith #KnowingGod

]]>8d1318f2-ceac-400a-9ec3-07939889b1aeTue, 28 Apr 2026 19:48:59 GMT<p>Welcome to this Q&amp;A episode on the 10,000 Questions Podcast—a podcast for students where we answer your hardest questions about God, faith, and life. Host Val O'Bryan is joined by Chad Huffman, high school teacher, coach, department head, and Christianity &amp; Culture instructor with over 13 years in education.<br /><br />How do you grow closer to God and what does that actually look like in real life? Whether you've been following Jesus for years or you're just beginning to explore faith, this episode is for you. We recorded it for anyone ready to take one more step toward knowing God.<br /><br />In this episode, we cover:<br />- What to do when you feel far from God in your faith<br />- Whether spiritual distance is something you caused—or something worth paying attention to<br />- How relationship habits (prayer, Scripture, community) shape your walk with God<br />- The difference between building healthy spiritual habits and falling into legalism<br />- How the people and patterns in your life affect your closeness to God<br />- What it looks like to grow at different stages of following Jesus<br />- Why students' hardest faith questions deserve honest answers—not just the "party line"<br />- How a Christianity &amp; Culture class brings real-world topics into faith conversations<br /><br />📌 If you've ever wondered why God feels distant, or what you're actually supposed to do about it—this episode is for you.<br /><br />Learn more: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">https://ask10KQ.org</a><br /><br />Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.<br />Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.<br />Share with a friend who needs encouragement.<br /><br />#ChristianPodcast #StudentFaith #10KQ #GrowingCloserToGod #FaithQuestions #ChristianStudents #HighSchoolFaith #KnowingGod</p>no00:52:40Feeling Far from God? Here's How to Grow Closer | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 14full<![CDATA[Jesus: Who He Is, What He Was Like, and Why It Matters | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 13]]>Welcome to this student Q&A episode on Jesus on the 10,000 Questions Podcast—a podcast for students where we answer your hardest questions about God, faith, and life.

Val O’Brien is joined by Dr. Mikel Del Rosario (Moody Bible Institute) to explore one of the biggest questions ever asked: Who is Jesus? From history to theology to personal faith, this conversation dives deep into the person of Jesus from every angle.

In this episode, we cover:
Who is Jesus? (historically, theologically, and personally)
What do non-Christian historians say about Jesus?
What was Jesus’s life like before his ministry?
Did Jesus know he was the Messiah as a child?
What did Jesus actually look like?
How was Jesus fully human and fully God at the same time?
Was Jesus “talking back” to God in the Garden of Gethsemane?
Does Jesus regret dying for our sins?
Did Jesus teleport after the resurrection?
Why does it matter what you believe about Jesus?

This episode tackles real questions with intellectual honesty and points to the deeper truth at the center of Christianity.

📌 If you’ve ever wondered whether Jesus was just a historical figure—or something more—this episode is for you.

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: https://ask10KQ.org

Check out Dr. Del Rosario’s work: https://apologeticssky.com

]]>d33cf7a2-287a-4e20-b938-3133227206a0Tue, 24 Mar 2026 12:00:00 GMT<p>Welcome to this student Q&amp;A episode on Jesus on the 10,000 Questions Podcast—a podcast for students where we answer your hardest questions about God, faith, and life.<br /><br />Val O’Brien is joined by Dr. Mikel Del Rosario (Moody Bible Institute) to explore one of the biggest questions ever asked: Who is Jesus? From history to theology to personal faith, this conversation dives deep into the person of Jesus from every angle.<br /><br />In this episode, we cover:<br />Who is Jesus? (historically, theologically, and personally)<br />What do non-Christian historians say about Jesus?<br />What was Jesus’s life like before his ministry?<br />Did Jesus know he was the Messiah as a child?<br />What did Jesus actually look like?<br />How was Jesus fully human and fully God at the same time?<br />Was Jesus “talking back” to God in the Garden of Gethsemane?<br />Does Jesus regret dying for our sins?<br />Did Jesus teleport after the resurrection?<br />Why does it matter what you believe about Jesus?<br /><br />This episode tackles real questions with intellectual honesty and points to the deeper truth at the center of Christianity.<br /><br />📌 If you’ve ever wondered whether Jesus was just a historical figure—or something more—this episode is for you.<br /><br />Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">https://ask10KQ.org</a><br /><br />Check out Dr. Del Rosario’s work: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://apologeticssky.com" target="_blank">https://apologeticssky.com</a></p>no00:40:23113Jesus: Who He Is, What He Was Like, and Why It Matters | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 13full<![CDATA[Sexuality Q&A (Part 2): Culture vs Purity vs Biblical Narrative | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 12]]>Welcome to Part 2 of our student Q&A series on sexuality on the 10,000 Questions Podcast—a podcast for students where we answer your hardest questions about God, faith, and life.

Val O’Brien is joined again by Ian and Jordan from Authentic Intimacy to answer real student questions and unpack a framework that changes everything:

In this episode, we cover:
- Who taught you about sex? (Why everyone has a “sexuality narrative”)
- The three narratives: the cultural narrative, the purity narrative, and the biblical narrative
- Why “purity culture” can miss the reason behind God’s design
- Why does it matter if someone wants to be transgender? (How to respond with compassion + truth)
- Weird modesty rules (what the Bible actually emphasizes)
- Why do some Christians hate or mistreat LGBTQ people? (and why that’s incompatible with Jesus)
- Why not live together before marriage? (statistics + covenant commitment)

📌 Important: If you haven’t listened to Part 1, start there first. Part 2 builds on the biblical framework laid in the first episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjKap33ogo

Resources & Links:

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]]>487a79f5-37c0-4b98-b1d0-6869d048ec34Tue, 03 Mar 2026 20:24:40 GMT<p>Welcome to Part 2 of our student Q&amp;A series on sexuality on the 10,000 Questions Podcast—a podcast for students where we answer your hardest questions about God, faith, and life.<br /><br />Val O’Brien is joined again by Ian and Jordan from Authentic Intimacy to answer real student questions and unpack a framework that changes everything:<br /><br />In this episode, we cover:<br />- Who taught you about sex? (Why everyone has a “sexuality narrative”)<br />- The three narratives: the cultural narrative, the purity narrative, and the biblical narrative<br />- Why “purity culture” can miss the reason behind God’s design<br />- Why does it matter if someone wants to be transgender? (How to respond with compassion + truth)<br />- Weird modesty rules (what the Bible actually emphasizes)<br />- Why do some Christians hate or mistreat LGBTQ people? (and why that’s incompatible with Jesus)<br />- Why not live together before marriage? (statistics + covenant commitment)<br /><br />📌 Important: If you haven’t listened to Part 1, start there first. Part 2 builds on the biblical framework laid in the first episode: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjKap33ogo" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRjKap33ogo</a><br /><br />Resources &amp; Links:<br /><br />Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">https://ask10KQ.org</a><br /><br />Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.<br />Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.<br />Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p>no00:34:29112Sexuality Q&A (Part 2): Culture vs Purity vs Biblical Narrative | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 12full<![CDATA[Sexuality Q&A (Part 1): Sex, Porn, Masturbation & God’s Design | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 11]]>Sex. Porn. Masturbation. Waiting. Shame. Healing.

In Part 1 of this student Q&A episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O’Brien is joined by Ian Shy and Jordyn Gent from Authentic Intimacy to talk about what the Bible actually teaches about sexuality and to answer the real, raw questions students are asking.

Before jumping into the Q&A, this episode sets a foundation: sex isn’t just a rule list or a random urge—God designed sexuality with a purpose that runs from Genesis to Revelation. From there, we get honest about pornography, shame cycles, desire, boundaries, and what to do when your story doesn’t match the “ideal.”

In this episode, we cover:

- The Bible’s big-picture story of sex: what it’s for and why it matters

- What’s the point of waiting until marriage?

- If I’ve had sex before… will God forgive me?

- What if I felt forced but never said anything?

- Why am I so addicted to porn? (and what might be underneath the behavior)

- Is masturbation okay? (how to think biblically in a “gray area”)

If you feel stuck, ashamed, confused, or tired—don’t quit. You’re not alone. Jesus isn’t afraid of these questions, and you don’t have to be either.

Resources & Links:

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]]>415be793-b407-458b-b3a3-b11f2d2af3cbTue, 17 Feb 2026 21:53:57 GMT<p>Sex. Porn. Masturbation. Waiting. Shame. Healing.</p><p></p><p>In Part 1 of this student Q&amp;A episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O’Brien is joined by Ian Shy and Jordyn Gent from Authentic Intimacy to talk about what the Bible actually teaches about sexuality and to answer the real, raw questions students are asking.</p><p></p><p>Before jumping into the Q&amp;A, this episode sets a foundation: sex isn’t just a rule list or a random urge—God designed sexuality with a purpose that runs from Genesis to Revelation. From there, we get honest about pornography, shame cycles, desire, boundaries, and what to do when your story doesn’t match the “ideal.”</p><p></p><p>In this episode, we cover:</p><p>- The Bible’s big-picture story of sex: what it’s for and why it matters</p><p>- What’s the point of waiting until marriage?</p><p>- If I’ve had sex before… will God forgive me?</p><p>- What if I felt forced but never said anything?</p><p>- Why am I so addicted to porn? (and what might be underneath the behavior)</p><p>- Is masturbation okay? (how to think biblically in a “gray area”)</p><p></p><p>If you feel stuck, ashamed, confused, or tired—don’t quit. You’re not alone. Jesus isn’t afraid of these questions, and you don’t have to be either.</p><p></p><p>Resources &amp; Links:</p><p>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">https://ask10KQ.org</a></p><p></p><p>Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.</p><p>Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.</p><p>Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p>no00:39:21111Sexuality Q&A (Part 1): Sex, Porn, Masturbation & God’s Design | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 11full<![CDATA[Saved, Heaven, and Eternity: What Happens When We Die? | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 9]]>Does it all go black when we die? Is life just a test to see if we’re “good enough” for heaven? And how do you actually know you’re saved?

In this student-driven Q&A episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O’Brien sits down with Kyle Hoffsmith and Mike McGarry (Youth Theologian) to tackle some of the biggest, most anxiety-inducing questions students ask about salvation, eternity, heaven, sin, and what happens after death.

Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
04:57 - “Does it just turn black and I’m stuck in eternity?”
08:26 - “Is life just a test to see if we’re good enough to make it to heaven?”
11:31 - “How do I know I’m truly saved?”
18:56 - “Can I be punished for something I didn’t know was a sin?”
25:08 - “What if I believe in two religions?”
37:06 - Outro

If these questions stress you out—you’re not alone. Don’t quit. Lean in. Your questions matter, and Christianity offers compelling hope for what comes next.

Resources & Links:
Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/
Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

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]]>ee023e47-7718-440e-813c-18b694ce3ebaTue, 20 Jan 2026 22:29:58 GMT<p>Does it all go black when we die? Is life just a test to see if we’re “good enough” for heaven? And how do you actually know you’re saved?<br /><br />In this student-driven Q&amp;A episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O’Brien sits down with Kyle Hoffsmith and Mike McGarry (Youth Theologian) to tackle some of the biggest, most anxiety-inducing questions students ask about salvation, eternity, heaven, sin, and what happens after death.<br /><br />Chapters:<br />00:00 - Intro<br />04:57 - “Does it just turn black and I’m stuck in eternity?”<br />08:26 - “Is life just a test to see if we’re good enough to make it to heaven?”<br />11:31 - “How do I know I’m truly saved?”<br />18:56 - “Can I be punished for something I didn’t know was a sin?”<br />25:08 - “What if I believe in two religions?”<br />37:06 - Outro<br /><br />If these questions stress you out—you’re not alone. Don’t quit. Lean in. Your questions matter, and Christianity offers compelling hope for what comes next.<br /><br />Resources &amp; Links:<br />Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a><br />Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a><br /><br />Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.<br />Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.<br />Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p>no00:37:5719Saved, Heaven, and Eternity: What Happens When We Die? | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 9full<![CDATA[Where Was God When I Was Suffering? | Interview with Jordyn Gent | 10KQ Podcast Ep.8]]>What do you do when your faith collides with deep pain?

In this powerful and honest episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O’Brien sits down with author and speaker Jordan Amari to talk about trauma, mental health, doubt, and the hard questions that surface when suffering feels unbearable.

Jordan shares her journey as a survivor of sexual abuse, depression, and suicidal ideation—and how God met her not with easy answers, but with presence, healing, and hope. Together, they wrestle with questions students ask all the time:

- Where was God when I was hurting?

- Why doesn’t God stop suffering?

- Can faith survive trauma and doubt?

- How do you heal when the pain feels too deep?

This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, angry, numb, or unsure what to believe anymore—and for those who want to understand how faith and healing can coexist.

If you or someone you love is struggling, you are not alone—and there is hope on the other side of the questions.

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

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Comment your question for our next Q&A.

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]]>92aeab3b-9136-41bc-9230-6e8e2595ddecTue, 06 Jan 2026 19:52:02 GMT<p>What do you do when your faith collides with deep pain?</p><p>In this powerful and honest episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val O’Brien sits down with author and speaker Jordan Amari to talk about trauma, mental health, doubt, and the hard questions that surface when suffering feels unbearable.</p><p></p><p>Jordan shares her journey as a survivor of sexual abuse, depression, and suicidal ideation—and how God met her not with easy answers, but with presence, healing, and hope. Together, they wrestle with questions students ask all the time:</p><p>- Where was God when I was hurting?</p><p>- Why doesn’t God stop suffering?</p><p>- Can faith survive trauma and doubt?</p><p>- How do you heal when the pain feels too deep?</p><p></p><p>This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, angry, numb, or unsure what to believe anymore—and for those who want to understand how faith and healing can coexist.</p><p></p><p>If you or someone you love is struggling, you are not alone—and there is hope on the other side of the questions.</p><p></p><p>Resources &amp; Links:</p><p>Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a></p><p>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a></p><p></p><p>Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.</p><p>Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.</p><p>Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p>no00:33:1518Where Was God When I Was Suffering? | Interview with Jordyn Gent | 10KQ Podcast Ep.8full<![CDATA[Is the Bible Reliable or Just Old? Your Questions Answered | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 7]]>What do you do when you’re told the Bible is important…but you’re not actually sure you trust it (or even like reading it)?

In this Q&A episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val sits down with Shawn Maybe and Johnny Fielding to tackle your real questions about the Bible, where it came from, why there are so many versions, and what to do when it just feels…boring.

We talk about:

📖 Who decided what books are in the Bible?

🧩 If the Bible is “God-breathed,” why did humans pick the books?

🔁 Why are there so many different translations (ESV, NIV, NLT, etc.) and can we trust them?

😴 Is it bad if the Bible feels boring sometimes?

🚩 Where should I start reading if I’ve barely read the Bible before?

⚔️ How do we deal with the weird / dark / violent parts of the Old Testament?

❤️ How the Bible is both deep enough to study for a lifetime and simple enough to start today.

6 Practical Questions to ask yourself while your reading the Bible (Johnny Fielding)

What stands out to you? (Seems interesting, Peculiar, Odd, or Striking)

Whats confusing? (What are you striggling to understand, having a hard time accepting as true, what seems contradictory)

What do I learn about God? (How can I know God better through this passage)

What did I learn about People? (Is there an example of somebody showing me a good way to follow God. Or maybe something I shouldn't be doing. Or revealing some of our hearts of how we act as humans as we relate to God

What is the Main Point. (Narrow what you read down into a sentence or two. What is the Key Idea?)

How can I apply this to my life? (Look at the main point (Q5) and ask yourself, what would it look like for me to live out that main point?)

]]>4e353d0c-9ec2-41ad-8ee3-e24797460422Tue, 02 Dec 2025 21:52:15 GMT<p>What do you do when you’re told the Bible is important…but you’re not actually sure you trust it (or even like reading it)?</p><p>In this Q&amp;A episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast, Val sits down with Shawn Maybe and Johnny Fielding to tackle your real questions about the Bible, where it came from, why there are so many versions, and what to do when it just feels…boring.</p><p>We talk about:</p><p>📖 Who decided what books are in the Bible?</p><p>🧩 If the Bible is “God-breathed,” why did humans pick the books?</p><p>🔁 Why are there so many different translations (ESV, NIV, NLT, etc.) and can we trust them?</p><p>😴 Is it bad if the Bible feels boring sometimes?</p><p>🚩 Where should I start reading if I’ve barely read the Bible before?</p><p>⚔️ How do we deal with the weird / dark / violent parts of the Old Testament?</p><p>❤️ How the Bible is both deep enough to study for a lifetime and simple enough to start today.</p><p>6 Practical Questions to ask yourself while your reading the Bible (Johnny Fielding)</p><p>What stands out to you? (Seems interesting, Peculiar, Odd, or Striking)</p><p>Whats confusing? (What are you striggling to understand, having a hard time accepting as true, what seems contradictory)</p><p>What do I learn about God? (How can I know God better through this passage)</p><p>What did I learn about People? (Is there an example of somebody showing me a good way to follow God. Or maybe something I shouldn't be doing. Or revealing some of our hearts of how we act as humans as we relate to God</p><p>What is the Main Point. (Narrow what you read down into a sentence or two. What is the Key Idea?)</p><p>How can I apply this to my life? (Look at the main point (Q5) and ask yourself, what would it look like for me to live out that main point?)</p>no00:37:5817Is the Bible Reliable or Just Old? Your Questions Answered | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 7full<![CDATA[When Addiction Lives at Home: How Do You Survive It? | Interview with Sean Mabee | 10KQ Podcast Ep.6]]>When addiction lives in your home, everyone feels it. In this candid conversation, host Val O’Brien sits down with longtime friend Sean to unpack what it was like growing up with a sibling battling addiction—and how God met him in the middle of fear, resentment, and uncertainty.

They talk practical steps for students living with an addicted parent/sibling, why secrecy keeps families stuck, and the slow, real hope of recovery.

What you’ll hear:

- How to talk about what’s happening at home (and who to tell)

- Healthy boundaries vs. “help” that unintentionally harms

- Dealing with anger, resentment, and the “hero/fixer” identity

- Prayer when you can’t control the outcome

- A rare story of long-term sobriety—and what changed

- Encouragement for students who feel unseen

Chapters:

00:00 – Intro

01:21 – Meet Sean

03:10 – Growing Up at Home

05:35 – When Addiction Began

08:49 – Family Impact

11:06 – Resentment & Pressure

13:35 – Wrestling with Faith

17:12 – Why Secrets Hurt

19:24 – Her Turning Point

21:50 – What God Taught Me

26:32 – Advice for Students

30:41 – If You Feel Powerless

34:37 – Closing Prayer

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.

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]]>5254f7e5-ab77-4690-9f77-a2946fe3479bTue, 25 Nov 2025 16:08:31 GMT<p>When addiction lives in your home, everyone feels it. In this candid conversation, host Val O’Brien sits down with longtime friend Sean to unpack what it was like growing up with a sibling battling addiction—and how God met him in the middle of fear, resentment, and uncertainty.<br /></p><p>They talk practical steps for students living with an addicted parent/sibling, why secrecy keeps families stuck, and the slow, real hope of recovery.<br /></p><p>What you’ll hear:</p><p>- How to talk about what’s happening at home (and who to tell)</p><p>- Healthy boundaries vs. “help” that unintentionally harms</p><p>- Dealing with anger, resentment, and the “hero/fixer” identity</p><p>- Prayer when you can’t control the outcome</p><p>- A rare story of long-term sobriety—and what changed</p><p>- Encouragement for students who feel unseen<br /></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 – Intro</p><p>01:21 – Meet Sean</p><p>03:10 – Growing Up at Home</p><p>05:35 – When Addiction Began</p><p>08:49 – Family Impact</p><p>11:06 – Resentment &amp; Pressure</p><p>13:35 – Wrestling with Faith</p><p>17:12 – Why Secrets Hurt</p><p>19:24 – Her Turning Point</p><p>21:50 – What God Taught Me</p><p>26:32 – Advice for Students</p><p>30:41 – If You Feel Powerless</p><p>34:37 – Closing Prayer<br /><br /></p><p>Resources &amp; Links:</p><p>Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a></p><p>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a><br /><br /></p><p>Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.</p><p>Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.</p><p>Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p>no00:37:0116When Addiction Lives at Home: How Do You Survive It? | Interview with Sean Mabee | 10KQ Podcast Ep.6full<![CDATA[Your Questions about Anxiety, Loneliness, Gender & More | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 5]]>Questions about anxiety, loneliness, bottled-up stuff, gender questions, and why change feels impossible in this episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast. Counselor Jonathan Holmes (Fieldstone Counseling) sits down with Val to make it make sense. Expect biblical clarity, practical tools, and a ton of hope.

What you’ll learn:

- How to start talking about what you’ve bottled up without spiraling

- Practical steps for loneliness & depression (and why small goals matter)

- “Is being anxious a sin?” — the Bible’s actual answer

- Why we struggle with our God-given gender (and how Scripture offers freedom vs. cultural boxes)

- Why change is so hard and how Romans 8 reframes the power to change

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

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]]>6d53c65e-db13-4752-a6d7-7ba86bdfb747Tue, 11 Nov 2025 20:02:16 GMT<p>Questions about anxiety, loneliness, bottled-up stuff, gender questions, and why change feels impossible in this episode of the 10,000 Questions Podcast. Counselor Jonathan Holmes (Fieldstone Counseling) sits down with Val to make it make sense. Expect biblical clarity, practical tools, and a ton of hope.<br /></p><p>What you’ll learn:</p><p>- How to start talking about what you’ve bottled up without spiraling</p><p>- Practical steps for loneliness &amp; depression (and why small goals matter)</p><p>- “Is being anxious a sin?” — the Bible’s actual answer</p><p>- Why we struggle with our God-given gender (and how Scripture offers freedom vs. cultural boxes)</p><p>- Why change is so hard and how Romans 8 reframes the power to change<br /></p><p>Resources &amp; Links:</p><p>Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a></p><p>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a><br /></p><p>Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.</p><p>Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.</p><p>Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p>no00:28:0515Your Questions about Anxiety, Loneliness, Gender & More | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 5full<![CDATA[Faith, Science & Aliens?! Your Questions Answered | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 4]]>What happens when science and faith seem to disagree? 🌌

In this Q&A episode, Val O’Brien sits down again with Rhiannon Erskine—a former NASA scientist turned professor—to tackle students’ wildest questions about the universe, creation, and God.

💭 Topics we cover:

“If science disagrees with the Bible, why should I believe it?”

How do Christians interpret Genesis 1 and the age of the Earth?

Did God start the Big Bang?

Could there be other dimensions or aliens?

Would Jesus save aliens too?

How can faith and science actually work together?

If you’ve ever felt like your science textbook and your Bible are in conflict, this episode will help you see how both can point to the same Creator.

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

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]]>283e4ddd-17c2-40b7-8398-ead44ba189fdTue, 28 Oct 2025 21:39:48 GMT<p>What happens when science and faith seem to disagree? 🌌</p><p>In this Q&amp;A episode, Val O’Brien sits down again with Rhiannon Erskine—a former NASA scientist turned professor—to tackle students’ wildest questions about the universe, creation, and God.<br /></p><p>💭 Topics we cover:</p><p>“If science disagrees with the Bible, why should I believe it?”</p><p>How do Christians interpret Genesis 1 and the age of the Earth?</p><p>Did God start the Big Bang?</p><p>Could there be other dimensions or aliens?</p><p>Would Jesus save aliens too? </p><p>How can faith and science actually work together?</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like your science textbook and your Bible are in conflict, this episode will help you see how both can point to the same Creator.<br /></p><p>Resources &amp; Links:</p><p>Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a></p><p>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a></p><p>Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.</p><p>Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.</p><p>Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p>no00:38:2914Faith, Science & Aliens?! Your Questions Answered | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 4full<![CDATA[Make It Make Sense Questions about Faith | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 3]]>Some questions about faith just don’t seem to make sense — like baseball’s weird rules. ⚾

In this “Make It Make Sense” episode, Val O’Brien, Kyle Hoffsmith, and Mike McGarry take on the hardest-to-explain parts of Christianity and help them click.

💭 Together they wrestle with questions like:

Why are lying and murder both considered sin?

Why did Jesus have to rise from the dead?

Is believing in the Trinity believing in three gods?

If the universe is so big, why is there only life on Earth?

Why is it so hard to stay with Jesus when others say it’s easy?

If you’ve ever said, “Wait… that doesn’t add up,” this one’s for you.

📍 Hosted by: Val O’Brien

🎙️ Guests: Kyle Hoffsmith (https://www.instagram.com/kyle_hoffsmith/?hl=en) & Mike McGarry (https://www.instagram.com/youththeologian)

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

Mentioned Book - More than a Carpenter (https://a.co/d/eiBayzm)

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Chapters:

Introduction - 00:00

Q1: Why are lying and murder both considered sin? - 07:14

Q2: Why did Jesus have to rise from the dead? - 11:40

Q3: Is believing in the Trinity believing in three gods? - 17:11

Q4: If the universe is so big, why is there only life on Earth? - 25:38

Q5: Why is it so hard to stay with Jesus when others say it’s easy? - 29:33

Closing - 35:21

]]>9b244928-af86-47be-a223-00f9264fb832Tue, 14 Oct 2025 14:40:45 GMT<p>Some questions about faith just don’t seem to make sense — like baseball’s weird rules. ⚾<br /></p><p>In this “Make It Make Sense” episode, Val O’Brien, Kyle Hoffsmith, and Mike McGarry take on the hardest-to-explain parts of Christianity and help them click.<br /></p><p>💭 Together they wrestle with questions like:</p><p>Why are lying and murder both considered sin?</p><p>Why did Jesus have to rise from the dead?</p><p>Is believing in the Trinity believing in three gods?</p><p>If the universe is so big, why is there only life on Earth?</p><p>Why is it so hard to stay with Jesus when others say it’s easy?<br /></p><p>If you’ve ever said, “Wait… that doesn’t add up,” this one’s for you.<br /></p><p>📍 Hosted by: Val O’Brien</p><p>🎙️ Guests: Kyle Hoffsmith (<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/kyle_hoffsmith/?hl=en" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/kyle_hoffsmith/?hl=en</a>) &amp; Mike McGarry (<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/youththeologian" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/youththeologian</a>)<br /></p><p>Resources &amp; Links:</p><p>Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a></p><p>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a></p><p>Mentioned Book - More than a Carpenter (<a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://a.co/d/eiBayzm" target="_blank">https://a.co/d/eiBayzm</a>)<br /></p><p>Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life.</p><p>Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A.</p><p>Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.<br /></p><p>Chapters:</p><p>Introduction - 00:00</p><p>Q1: Why are lying and murder both considered sin? - 07:14</p><p>Q2: Why did Jesus have to rise from the dead? - 11:40</p><p>Q3: Is believing in the Trinity believing in three gods? - 17:11</p><p>Q4: If the universe is so big, why is there only life on Earth? - 25:38</p><p>Q5: Why is it so hard to stay with Jesus when others say it’s easy? - 29:33</p><p>Closing - 35:21</p>no00:36:3313Make It Make Sense Questions about Faith | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 3full<![CDATA[How a NASA Scientist Interacts with Faith | Interview with Rhiannon Erskine | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 2]]>10,000 Questions is a podcast for students asking real questions about God, faith, and life.

Today, host Val O’Brien sits down with Rhiannon Erskine, a NASA scientist turned professor (Wheaton College) and mom, to explore how science and Christianity actually work together. We talk astronomy, meteoroids, having an asteroid named after her, why the “science vs. religion” conflict is mostly modern and mostly American, and how studying the universe can deepen your faith.

If you love space, big ideas, or you’re wondering whether a Christian can thrive in the sciences, this is your episode.

What you’ll learn:

- Why many great scientists in history were people of faith

- How real labs include human assumptions (science isn’t purely “neutral”)

- The Hubble Deep Field and why awe can lead to worship

- What it’s like to be a Christian at NASA and in academia

- Practical advice for Christian and non-Christian students considering STEM

Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/

Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

]]>71315065-5860-4692-a28b-da339e9e2228Tue, 30 Sep 2025 19:32:51 GMT<p>10,000 Questions is a podcast for students asking real questions about God, faith, and life.<br /></p><p>Today, host Val O’Brien sits down with Rhiannon Erskine, a NASA scientist turned professor (Wheaton College) and mom, to explore how science and Christianity actually work together. We talk astronomy, meteoroids, having an asteroid named after her, why the “science vs. religion” conflict is mostly modern and mostly American, and how studying the universe can deepen your faith.<br /></p><p>If you love space, big ideas, or you’re wondering whether a Christian can thrive in the sciences, this is your episode.<br /></p><p>What you’ll learn:</p><p>- Why many great scientists in history were people of faith</p><p>- How real labs include human assumptions (science isn’t purely “neutral”)</p><p>- The Hubble Deep Field and why awe can lead to worship</p><p>- What it’s like to be a Christian at NASA and in academia</p><p>- Practical advice for Christian and non-Christian students considering STEM<br /></p><p>Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a></p><p>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a></p>no00:31:3612How a NASA Scientist Interacts with Faith | Interview with Rhiannon Erskine | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 2full<![CDATA[Your Questions about Abuse, Addiction, Self-Harm, Grief & More | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 1]]>Welcome to the 10,000 Questions podcast—a show for students asking real questions about God, faith, and life. Today we’re jumping straight into the deep end with counselor Jonathan Holmes, Executive Director of Fieldstone Counseling. Together with host Val O’Brien, we tackle your toughest Qs: helping a friend who’s being abused, living with a parent’s addiction, navigating self-harm thoughts (especially when parents “don’t believe in mental health”), repairing relationships you’ve hurt, and walking through grief and loss.

This conversation is honest, practical, and hopeful—with next steps you can take today and a clear reminder that you’re not alone and God is near.

What you’ll learn:

  • How to support a friend experiencing abuse (and why bringing in a trusted adult matters)
  • Why addiction can feel like “voluntary slavery”—and where freedom is found
  • What to do with self-harm thoughts and how to ask for help safely
  • A simple framework to repair relationships after you’ve caused hurt
  • How to start processing grief with honesty before God
  • Next steps, resources & where to find help

Resources & Links:

  • Fieldstone Counseling (in-person & remote): https://fieldstonecounseling.org/
  • Follow Jonathan Holmes: https://www.instagram.com/akjonathanholmes/?hl=en
  • Learn more about Aspen Ministry: https://aspenministry.org/
  • Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: ask10KQ.org

    If you’re thinking about self-harm or suicide, talk to someone now:

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) — call or text 988
  • Tell a trusted adult, school counselor, or youth leader today

    Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life. Comment your question for our next Q&A. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.

]]>4de085b0-cefd-4763-856f-cd44fca431a8Tue, 16 Sep 2025 13:29:11 GMT<p>Welcome to the 10,000 Questions podcast—a show for students asking real questions about God, faith, and life. Today we’re jumping straight into the deep end with counselor Jonathan Holmes, Executive Director of Fieldstone Counseling. Together with host Val O’Brien, we tackle your toughest Qs: helping a friend who’s being abused, living with a parent’s addiction, navigating self-harm thoughts (especially when parents “don’t believe in mental health”), repairing relationships you’ve hurt, and walking through grief and loss. <br /><br />This conversation is honest, practical, and hopeful—with next steps you can take today and a clear reminder that you’re not alone and God is near. <br /><br />What you’ll learn: </p><ul><li>How to support a friend experiencing abuse (and why bringing in a trusted adult matters) </li></ul><ul><li>Why addiction can feel like “voluntary slavery”—and where freedom is found </li></ul><ul><li>What to do with self-harm thoughts and how to ask for help safely</li></ul><ul><li>A simple framework to repair relationships after you’ve caused hurt </li></ul><ul><li>How to start processing grief with honesty before God</li></ul><ul><li>Next steps, resources &amp; where to find help </li></ul><p></p><p>Resources &amp; Links: </p><ul><li>Fieldstone Counseling (in-person &amp; remote): <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://fieldstonecounseling.org/" target="_blank">https://fieldstonecounseling.org/</a> </li><li>Follow Jonathan Holmes: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.instagram.com/akjonathanholmes/?hl=en" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/akjonathanholmes/?hl=en</a> </li><li>Learn more about Aspen Ministry: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aspenministry.org/" target="_blank">https://aspenministry.org/</a> </li><li>Learn more about the 10,000 Questions project: <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://ask10KQ.org" target="_blank">ask10KQ.org</a> <p>If you’re thinking about self-harm or suicide, talk to someone now: </p></li><li>988 Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) — call or text 988 </li><li>Tell a trusted adult, school counselor, or youth leader today <p>Subscribe for more student-driven conversations about faith and real life. Comment your question for our next Q&amp;A. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.</p></li></ul>no00:29:1211Your Questions about Abuse, Addiction, Self-Harm, Grief & More | 10KQ Podcast Ep. 1full