<![CDATA[JUS Relationships]]>Welcome everyone to Jus Relationship

I am Terrence Payton known to many as TP. I will be coming to you each week with different topics on Relationships, you ask what kind of relationship, every type, cousins, mother and son, father and daughter, marriages, best friends, just the fellas and just the ladies and relationships in leadership. I will cover the ins and outs of relationships, how to have better relationships, how abandonment and rejection issues affect your relationship. Tune in to Jus Relationship on YouTube, and where you get your podcast with yours truly Terrence Payton know to many as TP, Holla

]]>https://riverside.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Thu, 28 May 2026 04:35:02 GMTTue, 27 Jan 2026 20:09:14 GMT60terrence payton<p>Welcome everyone to Jus Relationship</p><p>I am Terrence Payton known to many as TP. I will be coming to you each week with different topics on Relationships, you ask what kind of relationship, every type, cousins, mother and son, father and daughter, marriages, best friends, just the fellas and just the ladies and relationships in leadership. I will cover the ins and outs of relationships, how to have better relationships, how abandonment and rejection issues affect your relationship. Tune in to Jus Relationship on YouTube, and where you get your podcast with yours truly Terrence Payton know to many as TP, Holla</p>episodicterrence paytonkappapayton1@att.netno<![CDATA[Questions and Answers on Rejection full Episode]]>The podcast episode delves into the themes of recognizing the real self vs. the performative self and healing from the lasting impact of rejection. It provides insights on dealing with lack of support, healing from past rejection, rebuilding confidence, and understanding rejection as redirection or avoidance. The episode also explores the importance of authenticity, trusting God with identity and insecurity, and the impact of defense mechanisms on dealing with rejection.

Takeaways

  • Recognizing the real self vs. the performative self
  • Healing from rejection and its lasting impact

Chapters

  • 00:00 Introduction and Question Overview
  • 05:16 Rebuilding Confidence After Rejection
  • 10:29 Understanding Rejection as Redirection or Avoidance
  • 16:41 Trusting God with Identity and Insecurity (Part 2)
]]>92e82d95-bf7f-4018-b040-27ccfcbc28cbMon, 18 May 2026 18:19:35 GMT<p>The podcast episode delves into the themes of recognizing the real self vs. the performative self and healing from the lasting impact of rejection. It provides insights on dealing with lack of support, healing from past rejection, rebuilding confidence, and understanding rejection as redirection or avoidance. The episode also explores the importance of authenticity, trusting God with identity and insecurity, and the impact of defense mechanisms on dealing with rejection.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Recognizing the real self vs. the performative self</li><li>Healing from rejection and its lasting impact</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction and Question Overview</li><li>05:16 Rebuilding Confidence After Rejection</li><li>10:29 Understanding Rejection as Redirection or Avoidance</li><li>16:41 Trusting God with Identity and Insecurity (Part 2)</li></ul>no00:36:29Questions and Answers on Rejection full Episodefull<![CDATA[Questions and answers on rejection]]>The conversation delves into the process of discovering one's identity through obedience, honesty, and surrender. It emphasizes the importance of personal preferences and the reasons behind them, as well as the role of intentionality in the journey of self-discovery.

Takeaways

  • Identity is discovered, not learned
  • Start with obedience, honesty, and surrendering
  • Discovering personal preferences and reasons behind them
  • Intentionality in discovering identity

Chapters

  • 00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Intentionality
]]>74c828d6-6c16-4b92-bfa5-f65da407d86eMon, 18 May 2026 18:02:44 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the process of discovering one's identity through obedience, honesty, and surrender. It emphasizes the importance of personal preferences and the reasons behind them, as well as the role of intentionality in the journey of self-discovery.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Identity is discovered, not learned</li><li>Start with obedience, honesty, and surrendering</li><li>Discovering personal preferences and reasons behind them</li><li>Intentionality in discovering identity</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Intentionality</li></ul>no00:01:09Questions and answers on rejectionfull<![CDATA[Understanding Rejection and Abandonment]]>The conversation delves into the profound impact of rejection and abandonment on relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological effects, long-term impacts, parental rejection, and practical ways to overcome these issues. It emphasizes the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, seeking support, and understanding past hurts in the healing process.

Takeaways

  • Rejection and abandonment have deep emotional and psychological effects
  • Healing from rejection and abandonment involves self-care, setting boundaries, seeking support, and understanding past hurts

Chapters

  • 00:00 Understanding Rejection in Relationships
  • 05:47 Defining Abandonment and Its Impact
  • 17:57 Breaking the Cycle of Rejection and Abandonment
  • 23:52 Practicing Secure Behaviors
]]>ffb55869-59a3-43d5-9f94-f458e49991a6Thu, 23 Apr 2026 22:49:57 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the profound impact of rejection and abandonment on relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological effects, long-term impacts, parental rejection, and practical ways to overcome these issues. It emphasizes the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, seeking support, and understanding past hurts in the healing process.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Rejection and abandonment have deep emotional and psychological effects</li><li>Healing from rejection and abandonment involves self-care, setting boundaries, seeking support, and understanding past hurts</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Understanding Rejection in Relationships</li><li>05:47 Defining Abandonment and Its Impact</li><li>17:57 Breaking the Cycle of Rejection and Abandonment</li><li>23:52 Practicing Secure Behaviors</li></ul>no00:27:45Understanding Rejection and Abandonmentfull<![CDATA[A Parents role]]>The impact of parental relationships on emotional security, healthy communication models, and self-worth. The influence of early relationships on attachment styles and the dynamics of different types of relationships.

Takeaways

  • Emotional security
  • Healthy communication models

Chapters

  • 00:00 The Impact of Parental Relationships on Emotional Security and Communication Models
]]>8e1fb811-88bc-48a4-a8ce-5e813f0df98eTue, 21 Apr 2026 18:03:50 GMT<p>The impact of parental relationships on emotional security, healthy communication models, and self-worth. The influence of early relationships on attachment styles and the dynamics of different types of relationships.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Emotional security</li><li>Healthy communication models</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 The Impact of Parental Relationships on Emotional Security and Communication Models</li></ul>no00:03:23A Parents rolefull<![CDATA[Conversations with Women Part 3]]>The conversation delves into the importance of building each other up, embracing uniqueness, and differences. It also explores the impact of competition and jealousy on female relationships, the media portrayal of female friendship, the foundations of relationships, forgiveness, mutual respect, boundaries, and the reflection on relationships. The key takeaways include embracing uniqueness and differences, and the understanding that forgiveness and mutual respect are foundational to all relationships.

Takeaways

  • Embracing uniqueness and differences
  • Forgiveness and mutual respect are foundational to all relationships

Chapters

  • 00:00 Building Each Other Up
  • 06:08 Media Portrayal of Female Friendship
  • 12:00 Foundations of Relationships
  • 22:35 Reflection on Relationships
]]>d2598fd0-187d-4a7f-9b97-0aa66c0a3bfaFri, 17 Apr 2026 20:47:22 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the importance of building each other up, embracing uniqueness, and differences. It also explores the impact of competition and jealousy on female relationships, the media portrayal of female friendship, the foundations of relationships, forgiveness, mutual respect, boundaries, and the reflection on relationships. The key takeaways include embracing uniqueness and differences, and the understanding that forgiveness and mutual respect are foundational to all relationships.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Embracing uniqueness and differences</li><li>Forgiveness and mutual respect are foundational to all relationships</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Building Each Other Up</li><li>06:08 Media Portrayal of Female Friendship</li><li>12:00 Foundations of Relationships</li><li>22:35 Reflection on Relationships</li></ul>no00:25:15Conversations with Women Part 3full<![CDATA[Part two of Women relationships]]>The conversation explores the importance of personal growth and being a positive example in relationships. Terrence Payton emphasizes the need to be the change one wants to see in all relationships.

Takeaways

  • Personal growth
  • Being a positive example

Chapters

  • 00:00 Personal Growth and Development
]]>7fcbd8d0-feec-4cbe-b711-e070eb3f2aaaTue, 07 Apr 2026 21:26:17 GMT<p>The conversation explores the importance of personal growth and being a positive example in relationships. Terrence Payton emphasizes the need to be the change one wants to see in all relationships.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Personal growth</li><li>Being a positive example</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Personal Growth and Development</li></ul>no00:25:4115Part two of Women relationshipsfull<![CDATA[Conversations with ladies about Relationships]]>The conversation delves into the dynamics of women's relationships, highlighting the importance of vulnerability, trust, and deep conversations. It also explores the impact of parents' relationships on individuals and their subsequent relationships, emphasizing the desire to avoid negative patterns or emulate positive ones.

Takeaways

  • Women's relationships with one another are influenced by vulnerability, trust, and the ability to have deep conversations.
  • The influence of parents' relationships on individuals can impact their own relationships, leading to a desire to avoid negative patterns or emulate positive ones.

Chapters

  • 00:00 Influence of Parents' Relationships on Spousal Relationships
]]>8060cf97-38ca-4def-a430-93f44cb556bdThu, 26 Mar 2026 16:44:35 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the dynamics of women's relationships, highlighting the importance of vulnerability, trust, and deep conversations. It also explores the impact of parents' relationships on individuals and their subsequent relationships, emphasizing the desire to avoid negative patterns or emulate positive ones.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Women's relationships with one another are influenced by vulnerability, trust, and the ability to have deep conversations.</li><li>The influence of parents' relationships on individuals can impact their own relationships, leading to a desire to avoid negative patterns or emulate positive ones.</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Influence of Parents' Relationships on Spousal Relationships</li></ul>no00:29:11Conversations with ladies about Relationshipsfull<![CDATA[Terrence and Trevor PT1]]>A journey of reconnection and rediscovery unfolds as a married couple recounts their relationship's evolution from friendship to love. Divine signs, unexpected feelings, and moments of realization shape their path, leading to a confirmation of their connection. The conversation covers the journey of a blended family, the decision to have more children, and the unexpected arrival of a seventh child. It also delves into the challenges of change and the importance of relationships.

Takeaways

  • Friendship can evolve into a deep and meaningful romantic relationship.
  • Divine signs and unexpected feelings can lead to a realization of true love. Blended families require patience and understanding
  • Decisions about family planning can have unexpected outcomes

Chapters

  • 00:00 Unpacking Relationships
  • 05:26 Reconnection
  • 13:32 Realization and Uncertainty
  • 19:03 Two Years Without Sex
  • 24:19 The Pregnancy Confirmation
  • 30:03 The Perfect Child
]]>b5bf2e34-dbf7-4e09-9c9e-134fcb551ed6Wed, 18 Mar 2026 19:45:06 GMT<p>A journey of reconnection and rediscovery unfolds as a married couple recounts their relationship's evolution from friendship to love. Divine signs, unexpected feelings, and moments of realization shape their path, leading to a confirmation of their connection. The conversation covers the journey of a blended family, the decision to have more children, and the unexpected arrival of a seventh child. It also delves into the challenges of change and the importance of relationships.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Friendship can evolve into a deep and meaningful romantic relationship.</li><li>Divine signs and unexpected feelings can lead to a realization of true love. Blended families require patience and understanding</li><li>Decisions about family planning can have unexpected outcomes</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Unpacking Relationships</li><li>05:26 Reconnection</li><li>13:32 Realization and Uncertainty</li><li>19:03 Two Years Without Sex</li><li>24:19 The Pregnancy Confirmation</li><li>30:03 The Perfect Child</li></ul>no00:32:40Terrence and Trevor PT1full<![CDATA[Terrence and Trevor Pt 2]]>The conversation delves into the impact of parental relationships, particularly divorce, on children and their subsequent relationships. It explores the themes of trust, honesty, betrayal, and the influence of parental communication on children's relationships. The discussion highlights the lasting effects of parental divorce and the importance of parental influence on trust and communication in relationships.

Takeaways

  • The impact of parental relationships, particularly divorce, on children is profound and can influence trust, honesty, and communication in their future relationships.
  • Parental communication and honesty play a crucial role in shaping children's understanding of trust and relationships, impacting their future interactions.

Chapters

  • 00:00 The Impact of Parental Relationships
  • 09:08 Effect on Relationships with Parents
  • 15:34 Siblings and Absence
  • 20:41 Trust Issues and Relationships
]]>7c865c15-5bbb-4186-a3fb-6aea61b01e28Wed, 18 Mar 2026 19:29:50 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the impact of parental relationships, particularly divorce, on children and their subsequent relationships. It explores the themes of trust, honesty, betrayal, and the influence of parental communication on children's relationships. The discussion highlights the lasting effects of parental divorce and the importance of parental influence on trust and communication in relationships.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>The impact of parental relationships, particularly divorce, on children is profound and can influence trust, honesty, and communication in their future relationships.</li><li>Parental communication and honesty play a crucial role in shaping children's understanding of trust and relationships, impacting their future interactions.</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 The Impact of Parental Relationships</li><li>09:08 Effect on Relationships with Parents</li><li>15:34 Siblings and Absence</li><li>20:41 Trust Issues and Relationships</li></ul>no00:28:26Terrence and Trevor Pt 2full<![CDATA[Relationship First]]>A podcast where talk about Relationships, Where we will unpack the ties that bind and have conversations that define our connections

]]>0e7bbea7-0345-459e-9adb-240f8a285addWed, 11 Feb 2026 18:49:07 GMT<p>A podcast where talk about Relationships, Where we will unpack the ties that bind and have conversations that define our connections</p>no00:20:27102Relationship Firstfull<![CDATA[First Relationships]]>The conversation delves into the definition of relationships, the impact of childhood relationships on adulthood, navigating hurt and healing, characteristics of a good relationship, quality time, conflict resolution, and the importance of forgiveness in maintaining healthy relationships.

Takeaways

  • Relationships are formed through various connections and associations, impacting individuals from childhood to adulthood.
  • Forgiveness is essential for maintaining healthy relationships and is a personal journey of healing.

Chapters

  • 00:00 Defining Relationships
  • 11:17 Navigating Hurt and Healing in Relationships
  • 23:39 Quality Time and Conflict Resolution
]]>8c9550ea-a6e2-4357-9530-fcc7b09bdb54Fri, 06 Feb 2026 21:40:24 GMT<p>The conversation delves into the definition of relationships, the impact of childhood relationships on adulthood, navigating hurt and healing, characteristics of a good relationship, quality time, conflict resolution, and the importance of forgiveness in maintaining healthy relationships.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Relationships are formed through various connections and associations, impacting individuals from childhood to adulthood.</li><li>Forgiveness is essential for maintaining healthy relationships and is a personal journey of healing.</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 Defining Relationships</li><li>11:17 Navigating Hurt and Healing in Relationships</li><li>23:39 Quality Time and Conflict Resolution</li></ul>no00:35:11First Relationshipsfull