Your Bold Marriage

The Biggest Lies About Sex in Marriage (& How They're Quietly Destroying Intimacy)

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 02 Jun 2026 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Chris & Jamie expose the common misconceptions that distort God’s beautiful design, revealing how unhealthy teachings, both secular and Christian, have undermined intimacy and joy between spouses.

If you're wondering why sex often feels like a duty or why your partner's pleasure might seem secondary, this episode has the answers you haven't heard before.Think sex is just for procreation or a man's need that a woman must fulfill? Think again. Jamie and Chris dismantle these damaging myths with biblical clarity, scientific insights, and raw honesty. You'll discover how God's design for mutual pleasure, trust, and intimacy enhances your marriage rather than erodes it.

They explore how a healthy sex life should not be a selfish act, obligation, or boring, but a vibrant expression of love, respect, and partnership—created to strengthen your bond. Beyond the theology, you'll break down the harmful cultural teachings that have shaped your expectations—whether it's the lie that women don't want or enjoy sex, or that a man’s needs always come first.

This episode is your call to re-shape the sex life in your marriage. Reclaim the conversation about pleasure, boundaries, and fulfillment. Perfect for couples seeking to deepen their intimacy—this is the vital, honest conversation you need. Don't accept the lies—discover God's truth and ignite a vibrant, joyful sex life that honors Him and transforms your marriage.

Jamie and Chris are passionate followers of Christ, committed to restoring biblical marriage principles. They bring a candid, compassionate voice, blending scripture with real-world insights to guide couples toward healing and fulfillment in God's design.Take a bold step today—renew your understanding of God’s gift of sex and start experiencing the intimacy God desires for your marriage.

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Ask a Therapist: Real Answers to Real Marriage Questions

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 26 May 2026 12:00:00 GMT

In those episode, we turn our attention to Frequently Asked Questions from couples in real marriage counseling sessions. Jamie, a licensed mental health counselor with over a decade of experience in trauma and couples therapy, will answer key questions from both an online audience as well as some real-life examples she receives in therapy sessions.

Join us for a raw and insightful conversation, as Chris fires the questions and Jamie shares powerful real-world examples and expert tips on when it’s really too late to save a relationship, and when hope still remains. You’ll discover how trauma, unresolved bitterness, and more, influence ongoing fights, and how understanding the deeper issues beneath recurring conflicts can set you on a path toward reconciliation. We break down the core signs that indicate it’s time to seek help — like excessive conflict, resentment, and safety concerns — and why some issues need individual work before couples therapy can truly heal.

Jamie also shares her perspective on falling back in love, how to rekindle affection in long-term relationships, and what a truly healthy marriage looks like in today’s world. This episode is essential listening for anyone feeling stuck, doubtful, or exhausted in their relationship. Whether you’re just wanting to get better, starting to question if your love can survive, or you’re already at your wit’s end, what you’ll learn here can transform your approach to marriage and healing. Remember: even the most broken relationships can be restored when both partners commit to doing the inner work. If you value growth, resilience, and the real truths behind lasting connection, tune in now. Your path to a healthier, happier marriage begins with understanding what’s truly going on beneath the surface.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

How Better Communication Can Save Your Marriage

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 19 May 2026 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we uncover the surprising truths about communication that can save your marriage. From busting harmful stereotypes like the “nagging wife” or the “silent husband” to understanding how small, unresolved issues erode trust over time, you’ll learn practical ways to transform frustration into connection.

Chris & Jamie cite the statistic that 63% of couples who claim their spouse is a good listener report thriving marriages—and we dive into how you can be one of them. We break down the specific communication styles that either build intimacy or create wedges—covering everything from how your childhood influences your habits, to the importance of tone, sarcasm, and intentional time together. You’ll hear about the power of quick conversations, avoiding logistics-only talk, and how to navigate difficult, emotional discussions without tearing each other down.

This episode is essential if you’re tired of feeling unheard, stuck in destructive patterns, or worried your marriage is unraveling. Whether you’re in a new relationship or decades in, understanding and intentionally improving how you connect will change everything. Because communication isn’t a personality trait—it’s a skill you can learn, master, and continually refine.

Tune in to hear actionable tips, real stories, and the mindset shifts that can turn everyday conversations into deep, lasting connection. Your marriage’s future depends on how well you talk—and listen. Perfect for couples ready to intentionally upgrade their marriage, and anyone who wants to discover the true secrets to meaningful, conflict-free communication.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

10 Reasons Every Couple Should Pray Together

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 12 May 2026 12:00:00 GMT

Unlock the profound power of praying together as a couple — a practice proven to strengthen your marriage, deepen intimacy, and even cut divorce rates dramatically. Whether your relationship is new or seasoned, discover how daily prayer can transform your connection with each other and with God, creating a bond that sustains through life's storms.

In this episode, we dive into top rock-solid reasons why couples who pray together daily experience greater spiritual unity, emotional closeness, and decision-making clarity. You’ll learn how praying as a team invites divine guidance into your most important moments, extends spiritual protection over your family, and cultivates humility that levels the playing field in your marriage. We break down how consistent prayer reduces conflict, builds trust, and fosters vulnerability essential for true intimacy—all supported by powerful statistics from reputable studies.

Are you undervaluing prayer’s role in your marriage? If you're ready to see a steadfast transformation in your marriage, this episode is essential listening. It’s time to make prayer a habit—your marriage’s spiritual armor and your path to lasting love.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

The Marriage Killer No One Talks About: Losing the Friendship

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 05 May 2026 12:00:00 GMT

Most couples overlook the secret to lifelong happiness: friendship. Discover how cultivating fun, trust, and genuine connection with your spouse can predict up to 70% of their marital satisfaction — and why losing that friendship might be the biggest risk to your marriage.

In this episode, we explore the profound role friendship plays in your relationship’s health and longevity. You'll learn that fun, shared hobbies, open communication, and intentional time together are not just nice-to-haves but essential ingredients for a thriving marriage. We break down the common pitfalls — such as resentment, routine, and neglecting individual passions — that erode friendship over time and reveal powerful, practical steps to rebuild and strengthen that bond.

We will get into insights on how to stay friends through life's changes, how to balance hobbies without resentment, and the importance of lighthearted conversations that keep your connection alive.

Whether your marriage is strong and you want to deepen it, or you're starting from scratch, this episode offers proven strategies to prioritize friendship for a happier, more fulfilled life together.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

How to Create a BOLD Marriage

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 14 Apr 2026 12:00:00 GMT

This episode of Your Bold Marriage explores what it means to have a BOLD marriage, emphasizing building, overcoming, learning, and dreaming together. The hosts share insights, biblical foundations, and practical steps to create a marriage that makes a meaningful impact.

Chris & Jamie will explore in detail: 1) Building together with God's wisdom, 2) Overcoming challenges as a couple, 3) Learning and growing together, and 4) Dreaming with purpose and divine guidance

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

Ridding Your Marriage of the Comparison Trap

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 28 Apr 2026 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Chris and Jamie dive into the topic of comparison, what it does to your marriage, how to set proper boundaries, and how to reposition it for good. We will cover the pitfalls of social media and where it can find cracks of insecurity in you as a person and spouse, and then the dangers that impact your marriage as a result.

We then get into how you can seek out inspiration instead of comparison, and use this to bring healthy change into your marriage.

We close the episode with critical action steps you can take with your spouse to avoid the trap of comparison.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

Should You Go To Bed Angry? Unresolved Conflict

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 21 Apr 2026 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Chris & Jamie discuss the complexities of conflict resolution in relationships, particularly focusing on the biblical perspective of anger and the importance of addressing unresolved issues. We hit head on the missed context of scripture about going to be angry, and how this misuse can bring on problems in your marriage.

They explore the common advice of not going to bed angry, challenging its practicality and implications. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal reflection on emotions, the dangers of unresolved conflict, and the importance of communication in a healthy relationship. They encourage listeners to engage in open discussions about their beliefs regarding conflict resolution and to seek guidance from scripture.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

Why You Need a Weekend Away...without the Kids

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 07 Apr 2026 12:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we will discuss the importance of couples taking getaways without their children. We emphasize how these trips can strengthen relationships, provide a much-needed break from parenting roles, reinforcing importance in your marriage, and ultimately benefit the entire family.

The conversation covers practical tips for planning getaways, overcoming common obstacles such as financial constraints, who watches the kids and general parental anxiety, and the significance of prioritizing time together as a couple. We will encourage listeners to have open discussions with their partners about the need for quality time and to take actionable steps towards making it happen.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

6 Signs You're Bitter Towards Your Spouse (& What to Do!)

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 31 Mar 2026 13:00:00 GMT

In this conversation, we discuss the signs of bitterness in marriage relationships, particularly focusing on feelings of resentment and emotional distance between partners. We will cover a checklist of 6 signs to analyze in your marriage which will help you evaluate if bitterness has taken root in your marriage. More importantly though, we share ways that you can recover and rebuild from this.

The overwhelming response from listeners highlights the commonality of these feelings and the importance of addressing them for healthier relationships.

Jamie's TikTok clip that prompted this episode can be found here: https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage/video/7506549960196820254?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7603044499183142413

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Your Marriage Needs More Than Just Your Faith

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 13:00:00 GMT

This episode explores the role of faith in marriage, emphasizing that while faith is important, it alone is not sufficient for a strong marriage. As Christ-followers, we know this is a bold statement to make, but we are prepared to defend it in this conversation. God intended us to be doers of His Word and not hearers only. And this couldn't be more true in marriage. We need to be prepared to have hard conversations, work through challenges, love each other unconditionally, make sacrifices for our spouse, and in doing this, we are honoring our faith by putting it into action.

The discussion highlights the need for practical actions and emotional investments alongside faith to nurture a healthy relationship.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

18 Ways to Guarantee an Awful Marriage

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Chris & Jamie discuss 18 ways to have an awful marriage, using humor and satire to highlight common pitfalls couples face. While poking fun, they in turn emphasize the importance of selflessness, communication, and spiritual unity, while also addressing the dangers of societal stereotypes and personal habits that can erode marital happiness.

The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships, attack any wrong mindsets, and take proactive steps towards improvement.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Don't Let Hard Times in Your Marriage Divide You

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 13:00:00 GMT

This episode delves into the challenges couples face in marriage brought on by hard times. We explore how these moments can either strengthen or weaken a relationship. We will make a strong case for why every marriage not only will go through difficulties, but needs to go through these tough times to emerge stronger.

We will unpack the inevitability of difficult times, such as loss of loved ones, job issues, and health challenges, and emphasize the importance of communication, vulnerability, and support. They also highlight the role of faith and prayer in navigating these challenges together.

With some simple reframing of these difficult situations, and the proper communication plan with your partner, we're confident you can come out the other side of your struggle stronger than before.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com
Book Link | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@boldmarriage
YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@BoldMarriage
Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/boldmarriage
Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/aboldmarriage

Welcome to YOUR Bold Marriage

Chris & Jamie Johnson — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 13:00:00 GMT

In this first episode, Chris and Jamie Johnson introduce themselves, share their story, and explain why they felt called to start a marriage podcast. Married for 14 years with three young children, they talk candidly about their backgrounds—as parents and spouses, but also in their careers. Jamie will bring her added expertise into this podcast as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and trauma therapist. More importantly, how their experiences have shaped both their marriage and their desire to help others. At the heart of the episode is a simple but powerful conviction: marriage doesn’t have to be something you merely survive. It can be life-giving, joyful, and deeply fulfilling.

The Johnsons explore why so many marriages today feel unhappy or strained, pointing to cultural narratives, media portrayals, personal upbringing, and widespread misconceptions about what marriage is “supposed” to be like. They discuss sobering statistics around divorce and marital dissatisfaction, while also offering hope and a different vision—one rooted in practical action, mutual effort, and (for them) faith.

Listeners will be encouraged to examine their own beliefs about marriage, where those beliefs came from, and how unchallenged assumptions can quietly shape expectations and outcomes. The episode closes with a clear invitation: there is always hope for growth, healing, and a better marriage when both partners are willing to do the work together.

Check out these links for more helpful marriage tips and to stay connected to Bold Marriage:

Website | www.aboldmarriage.com

A Little Book for a Bold Marriage | https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJT2SSVB