<![CDATA[The Conscious Divorce]]>reclaimandreboot.meRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Sun, 19 Apr 2026 15:02:47 GMTTue, 07 Oct 2025 07:45:38 GMT60Justin MilradThe Conscious Divorce Podcast is where real, compassionate, and transformative conversations about divorce take place. Hosted by Justin Milrad and brought to you by Reclaim &amp; Reboot, this show is designed to guide you through every stage of the divorce journey; whether you’re questioning the decision, navigating the process, or rebuilding life afterward. Each episode features heartfelt stories from guests who’ve experienced divorce firsthand, expert insights from therapists, coaches, financial advisors, and wellness specialists, and practical tools to help you build resilience, co-parent effectively, and create a clear vision for your future. With a focus on hope and empowerment, this podcast shifts the narrative around divorce from one of loss to one of reclamation, reminding you that you’re not alone and that moving forward with strength and intention is absolutely possible. Tune in weekly to reclaim your power and reboot your life.episodicJustin Milradjustinmilrad@gmail.comno<![CDATA[Do this before filing your divorce]]>Discover the “preparation gap” in divorce. Learn to organize, document, and prepare emotionally to secure your future. Start now for peace tomorrow.

  • 02:27 The Preparation Gap
  • 05:11 Why Preparation Matters
  • 06:22 Strategic Thinking in Divorce
  • 08:15 Research on Divorce Outcomes
  • 11:14 Ari's Story
  • 14:05 Practical Steps for Preparation
  • 17:10 Importance of a Divorce Coach
  • 19:26 David's Story
  • 23:12 Mindset Reset
  • 24:46 Actionable Steps and Conclusion
]]>b04b24a6-1cd2-4ad8-9f4a-f4c9b3bdd4a4Fri, 17 Apr 2026 10:30:00 GMT<p>Discover the “preparation gap” in divorce. Learn to organize, document, and prepare emotionally to secure your future. Start now for peace tomorrow.</p><p></p><ul><li>02:27 The Preparation Gap</li><li>05:11 Why Preparation Matters</li><li>06:22 Strategic Thinking in Divorce</li><li>08:15 Research on Divorce Outcomes</li><li>11:14 Ari's Story</li><li>14:05 Practical Steps for Preparation</li><li>17:10 Importance of a Divorce Coach</li><li>19:26 David's Story</li><li>23:12 Mindset Reset</li><li>24:46 Actionable Steps and Conclusion</li></ul>no00:40:41Do this before filing your divorcefull<![CDATA[Is Divorce after 50 worth it? (The Gray Divorce Explained)]]>Let’s explore the transformative realities of gray divorce, revealing why ending a long-term marriage can be the start of a powerful new chapter. If you're navigating or contemplating a divorce after 50, this is essential listening. I unpack the rise in gray divorce rates and explain how second and third marriages carry higher risks of dissolution. Discover how the stakes differ, from financial upheaval to identity shifts, and learn about overlooked opportunities like strategic gifting to secure your legacy. I share strategies for approaching gray divorce consciously, managing complex assets, and nurturing relationships with adult children. This episode empowers you with practical guidance to navigate the complexities with intention and confidence, proving that the most exciting chapters often lie just ahead.


  • Introduction and Disclaimer: 0:00
  • Imagining Life Post-Divorce: 0:56
  • Understanding Gray Divorce: 1:32
  • Divorce Rate Insights: 2:23
  • Gray Divorce Statistics: 4:02
  • Second Marriage Risks: 5:08
  • Financial Stakes in Gray Divorce: 7:31
  • Identity and Social Network Challenges: 8:42
  • Financial Realities and Strategies: 10:31
  • Impact on Adult Children: 15:54
  • Health and Emotional Well-being: 25:35
  • Conscious Approach to Gray Divorce: 28:06
  • Reframing Gray Divorce: 31:53
  • Conclusion and Call to Action: 33:30


]]>01e4844b-e5ac-45e9-a014-17d6091f891aFri, 10 Apr 2026 09:30:00 GMT<p>Let’s explore the transformative realities of gray divorce, revealing why ending a long-term marriage can be the start of a powerful new chapter. If you're navigating or contemplating a divorce after 50, this is essential listening. I unpack the rise in gray divorce rates and explain how second and third marriages carry higher risks of dissolution. Discover how the stakes differ, from financial upheaval to identity shifts, and learn about overlooked opportunities like strategic gifting to secure your legacy. I share strategies for approaching gray divorce consciously, managing complex assets, and nurturing relationships with adult children. This episode empowers you with practical guidance to navigate the complexities with intention and confidence, proving that the most exciting chapters often lie just ahead.</p><p><br /></p><ul><li>Introduction and Disclaimer: 0:00</li><li>Imagining Life Post-Divorce: 0:56</li><li>Understanding Gray Divorce: 1:32</li><li>Divorce Rate Insights: 2:23</li><li>Gray Divorce Statistics: 4:02</li><li>Second Marriage Risks: 5:08</li><li>Financial Stakes in Gray Divorce: 7:31</li><li>Identity and Social Network Challenges: 8:42</li><li>Financial Realities and Strategies: 10:31</li><li>Impact on Adult Children: 15:54</li><li>Health and Emotional Well-being: 25:35</li><li>Conscious Approach to Gray Divorce: 28:06</li><li>Reframing Gray Divorce: 31:53</li><li>Conclusion and Call to Action: 33:30</li></ul><p><br /></p>no00:34:59Is Divorce after 50 worth it? (The Gray Divorce Explained)full<![CDATA[Dating After Divorce: How to Know If You’re Truly Ready]]>Let’s break down one of the most common and misunderstood questions: “When should I start dating again?” The answer isn’t about time, it’s about clarity, self-awareness, and emotional readiness.

If you’ve ever felt the urge to download a dating app but weren’t sure why, this episode will help you understand what’s really driving that decision and how to avoid repeating the same relationship patterns.

  • 02:59 The Neuroscience of Grief and Dating
  • 04:24 Emotional Foundations in Post-Divorce Dating
  • 05:35 The Impact of Grief on Decision-Making
  • 07:18 Calm vs. Healed: Dating Readiness
  • 08:19 Legal and Emotional Aspects of Dating While Separated
  • 10:10 Attachment Styles and Post-Divorce Dating
  • 13:19 Pattern Gravity and Emotional Dynamics
  • 15:09 Repetition Compulsion in Relationships
  • 17:10 Using Past Relationships as Data
  • 20:01 Building a Non-Negotiables List
  • 24:34 Flexibles vs. Non-Negotiables in Dating
  • 27:01 Dating with Kids: Navigating Complexity
  • 29:13 Readiness and Dating Well After Divorce
]]>8e330b17-fe15-44f3-b1a2-22c31f5664ddFri, 03 Apr 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>Let’s break down one of the most common and misunderstood questions: <i>“When should I start dating again?”</i> The answer isn’t about time, it’s about clarity, self-awareness, and emotional readiness.</p><p></p><p>If you’ve ever felt the urge to download a dating app but weren’t sure why, this episode will help you understand what’s really driving that decision and how to avoid repeating the same relationship patterns.</p><p></p><ul><li>02:59 The Neuroscience of Grief and Dating</li><li>04:24 Emotional Foundations in Post-Divorce Dating</li><li>05:35 The Impact of Grief on Decision-Making</li><li>07:18 Calm vs. Healed: Dating Readiness</li><li>08:19 Legal and Emotional Aspects of Dating While Separated</li><li>10:10 Attachment Styles and Post-Divorce Dating</li><li>13:19 Pattern Gravity and Emotional Dynamics</li><li>15:09 Repetition Compulsion in Relationships</li><li>17:10 Using Past Relationships as Data</li><li>20:01 Building a Non-Negotiables List</li><li>24:34 Flexibles vs. Non-Negotiables in Dating</li><li>27:01 Dating with Kids: Navigating Complexity</li><li>29:13 Readiness and Dating Well After Divorce</li></ul>no00:33:25Dating After Divorce: How to Know If You’re Truly Readyfull<![CDATA[The Smarter Divorce Inside the Power of Mediation]]>The Smarter Divorce: Inside the Power of Mediation — Join Guest Caroline Melkonian, Certified Workplace and Family Mediator, together with Host Justin Milrad, MBA from Emory University, Certified Divorce Coach®, Financial Planner, author of You 2.0: Divorce; A Better Way Forward, and host of The Conscious Divorce Podcast. In this insightful episode of The Conscious Divorce, they explore how mediation can help couples navigate divorce with less conflict, clearer communication, and more collaborative solutions. Discover how mediation empowers families to make thoughtful decisions, protect relationships, and move forward with greater clarity and dignity.

]]>eb7186dc-8b3f-4109-9739-71c5c653405fTue, 24 Mar 2026 10:30:00 GMT<p>The Smarter Divorce: Inside the Power of Mediation — Join Guest Caroline Melkonian, Certified Workplace and Family Mediator, together with Host Justin Milrad, MBA from Emory University, Certified Divorce Coach®, Financial Planner, author of You 2.0: Divorce; A Better Way Forward, and host of The Conscious Divorce Podcast. In this insightful episode of The Conscious Divorce, they explore how mediation can help couples navigate divorce with less conflict, clearer communication, and more collaborative solutions. Discover how mediation empowers families to make thoughtful decisions, protect relationships, and move forward with greater clarity and dignity.</p>no00:50:45The Smarter Divorce Inside the Power of Mediationfull<![CDATA[Grief, Divorce… and the Moment That Brought Me Clarity]]>This episode explores how small acts of grace in post-divorce relationships can shape your children's sense of safety and trust. You'll learn about the science behind kindness between ex-partners and its impact on child development. I also offer practical steps for showing up in meaningful ways without compromising boundaries. If you're navigating a difficult co-parenting relationship, this episode will challenge you to rethink ego and forgiveness. It's a reminder that genuine care builds a healthier family story. As my mom would say, just be good to each other. What story are you creating for your kids?

  • The Role of My Ex-Wife - 1:12
  • Understanding Co-Parenting - 1:32
  • Podcast Introduction - 1:49
  • The Impact of Co-Parenting on Kids - 5:06
  • Lessons Learned - 5:53
  • Research Insights on Co-Parenting - 8:09
  • Practical Steps for Co-Parenting - 14:56
  • The Importance of Precedent - 18:11
  • Closing Thoughts - 20:13
]]>3d547bf6-f24a-4d3c-a326-3e8e1bcc3fbfSat, 21 Mar 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>This episode explores how small acts of grace in post-divorce relationships can shape your children's sense of safety and trust. You'll learn about the science behind kindness between ex-partners and its impact on child development. I also offer practical steps for showing up in meaningful ways without compromising boundaries. If you're navigating a difficult co-parenting relationship, this episode will challenge you to rethink ego and forgiveness. It's a reminder that genuine care builds a healthier family story. As my mom would say, just be good to each other. What story are you creating for your kids?</p><p></p><ul><li>The Role of My Ex-Wife - 1:12</li><li>Understanding Co-Parenting - 1:32</li><li>Podcast Introduction - 1:49</li><li>The Impact of Co-Parenting on Kids - 5:06</li><li>Lessons Learned - 5:53</li><li>Research Insights on Co-Parenting - 8:09</li><li>Practical Steps for Co-Parenting - 14:56</li><li>The Importance of Precedent - 18:11</li><li>Closing Thoughts - 20:13</li></ul>no00:23:46Grief, Divorce… and the Moment That Brought Me Clarityfull<![CDATA[How to split a Vitamix: A practical guide to property division during divorce]]>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, we tackle asset division in divorce. Discover the Vitamix Principle, where small, sentimental items can cause big conflicts. Learn to separate sentimental from market value and address this early.

We'll discuss everything from real estate to digital assets, with state-specific insights. I'll share practical solutions for non-divisible items and real-world stories, like resolving a Vitamix dispute with a mediator. Plus, get tips on financial discipline to avoid high attorney fees. Empower your negotiation and redesign your life post-divorce.


Chapters:

  • 05:58 The Big Buckets of Property
  • 08:35 Marital Property vs Separate Property
  • 12:44 Divorce Flashpoints (Common fighting or turning points during asset division negotiations)
  • 24:23 Effective Division Methods for assets
  • 30:36 How to stop bleeding money and Attorney Costs
  • 31:31 Replace vs Fight: The Decision Rule
  • 35:20 Bring Your Emotional Grounding
  • 35:42 Red Flags: When to Bring in a Professional
]]>a59fa4d4-8158-425a-85a1-04191a3e90bfFri, 06 Mar 2026 11:26:23 GMT<p>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, we tackle asset division in divorce. Discover the Vitamix Principle, where small, sentimental items can cause big conflicts. Learn to separate sentimental from market value and address this early.<br /></p><p>We'll discuss everything from real estate to digital assets, with state-specific insights. I'll share practical solutions for non-divisible items and real-world stories, like resolving a Vitamix dispute with a mediator. Plus, get tips on financial discipline to avoid high attorney fees. Empower your negotiation and redesign your life post-divorce.</p><p><br /></p><p>Chapters:</p><ul><li>05:58 The Big Buckets of Property</li><li>08:35 Marital Property vs Separate Property</li><li>12:44 Divorce Flashpoints (Common fighting or turning points during asset division negotiations)</li><li>24:23 Effective Division Methods for assets</li><li>30:36 How to stop bleeding money and Attorney Costs</li><li>31:31 Replace vs Fight: The Decision Rule</li><li>35:20 Bring Your Emotional Grounding</li><li>35:42 Red Flags: When to Bring in a Professional</li></ul>no00:41:43How to split a Vitamix: A practical guide to property division during divorcefull<![CDATA[The Million Dollar Race Horse]]>In this episode, I want to talk to you about something important: how we often push ourselves too hard, feeling exhausted and barely getting by. What if the key to transforming your life is to treat yourself like a valuable racehorse? I'll share insights into the hidden barriers that keep you stuck and offer a simple plan to help you rebuild and find your purpose again.

You'll learn how stress can drain your creativity and why negative self-talk can be more harmful than you think. I'll introduce you to the 'Racehorse Standard,' a 12-step approach to improve your body, mind, and relationships. Discover why sleep, exercise, and connecting with others are essential for your happiness and success.

  • The Million Dollar Race Horse - 1:30
  • The Story of Charismatic - 2:17
  • The Importance of Self-Care - 4:20
  • Seven Reasons You're Stuck - 8:23
  • The Race Horse Standard - 17:15
  • Category A: The Body - 18:00
  • Category B: The Mind - 25:12
  • Category C: The Herd - 32:36
  • Category D: The Track - 40:05
]]>7ae89c5a-499f-4b72-8280-80fb28f09ea6Thu, 26 Feb 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, I want to talk to you about something important: how we often push ourselves too hard, feeling exhausted and barely getting by. What if the key to transforming your life is to treat yourself like a valuable racehorse? I'll share insights into the hidden barriers that keep you stuck and offer a simple plan to help you rebuild and find your purpose again.<br /></p><p>You'll learn how stress can drain your creativity and why negative self-talk can be more harmful than you think. I'll introduce you to the 'Racehorse Standard,' a 12-step approach to improve your body, mind, and relationships. Discover why sleep, exercise, and connecting with others are essential for your happiness and success.</p><p></p><ul><li>The Million Dollar Race Horse - 1:30</li><li>The Story of Charismatic - 2:17</li><li>The Importance of Self-Care - 4:20</li><li>Seven Reasons You're Stuck - 8:23</li><li>The Race Horse Standard - 17:15</li><li>Category A: The Body - 18:00</li><li>Category B: The Mind - 25:12</li><li>Category C: The Herd - 32:36</li><li>Category D: The Track - 40:05</li></ul>no00:54:58The Million Dollar Race Horsefull<![CDATA[How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce]]>Today we're diving into one of the most crucial conversations you'll have during your divorce journey: talking to your kids. We'll explore the psychological impacts of divorce on children, provide age-appropriate scripts, and share strategies to minimize trauma and build emotional security. Join me as we navigate this challenging transition with empathy, resilience, and love.

  • 02:24 Talking to Your Kids About Divorce
  • 04:21 Segment One: Psychological Impact by Age
  • 10:33 Segment Two: Preparing for the Conversation
  • 13:54 Expert Insight from Dr. Elena Ramirez
  • 16:03 Segment Three: Age-Appropriate Strategies
  • 25:35 Segment Four: Mitigation and Healing Strategies
  • 33:01 Segment Five: Listener Q&A and Real Stories
]]>45b03bf6-d008-43ed-9357-7887346d7608Sun, 22 Feb 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>Today we're diving into one of the most crucial conversations you'll have during your divorce journey: talking to your kids. We'll explore the psychological impacts of divorce on children, provide age-appropriate scripts, and share strategies to minimize trauma and build emotional security. Join me as we navigate this challenging transition with empathy, resilience, and love.<br /></p><ul><li>02:24 Talking to Your Kids About Divorce</li><li>04:21 Segment One: Psychological Impact by Age</li><li>10:33 Segment Two: Preparing for the Conversation</li><li>13:54 Expert Insight from Dr. Elena Ramirez</li><li>16:03 Segment Three: Age-Appropriate Strategies</li><li>25:35 Segment Four: Mitigation and Healing Strategies</li><li>33:01 Segment Five: Listener Q&amp;A and Real Stories</li></ul>no00:41:24How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorcefull<![CDATA[Win The Future, Not The Divorce]]>Divorce can feel like a battle over custody, finances, and who was “right.” But in this episode, I challenge the idea that winning in court means winning in life. I break down research on high-conflict divorce, co-parenting outcomes, children’s long-term wellbeing, mental health during divorce, and the financial mistakes many people make during litigation.

If you’re going through divorce or navigating separation, I share a strategic framework to help you think beyond short-term victories and focus on emotional stability, financial security, and rebuilding your identity. The goal isn’t to win the divorce. It’s to win your future.

  • 01:50 The Illusion of Winning: What Does Victory Mean?
  • 02:46 Act One: The Illusion of Winning
  • 04:08 The Real Cost of High-Conflict Divorce
  • 05:02 The Legal Process vs. The Life Process
  • 06:18 Research Insights: Long-Term Effects of Conflict
  • 08:04 The Five-Year Filter: A Tool for Decision Making
  • 10:16 Act Two: The Architecture of Winning the Future
  • 10:35 Pillar One: Emotional and Mental Health
  • 11:59 Pillar Two: Co-Parenting and Children's Wellbeing
  • 13:30 Pillar Three: Financial Stability
  • 14:23 Pillar Four: Identity Reconstruction
  • 15:57 Pillar Five: Long-Term Peace and Resilience
  • 17:18 Act Three: Becoming You 2.0
  • 18:46 Real Stories of Transformation
  • 22:21 Conclusion: Winning Your Life, Not Just the Case
]]>b7a8e433-adc1-41d7-9580-0eb04ef274dfFri, 13 Feb 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>Divorce can feel like a battle over custody, finances, and who was “right.” But in this episode, I challenge the idea that winning in court means winning in life. I break down research on high-conflict divorce, co-parenting outcomes, children’s long-term wellbeing, mental health during divorce, and the financial mistakes many people make during litigation.</p><p></p><p>If you’re going through divorce or navigating separation, I share a strategic framework to help you think beyond short-term victories and focus on emotional stability, financial security, and rebuilding your identity. The goal isn’t to win the divorce. It’s to win your future.</p><p></p><ul><li>01:50 The Illusion of Winning: What Does Victory Mean?</li><li>02:46 Act One: The Illusion of Winning</li><li>04:08 The Real Cost of High-Conflict Divorce</li><li>05:02 The Legal Process vs. The Life Process</li><li>06:18 Research Insights: Long-Term Effects of Conflict</li><li>08:04 The Five-Year Filter: A Tool for Decision Making</li><li>10:16 Act Two: The Architecture of Winning the Future</li><li>10:35 Pillar One: Emotional and Mental Health</li><li>11:59 Pillar Two: Co-Parenting and Children's Wellbeing</li><li>13:30 Pillar Three: Financial Stability</li><li>14:23 Pillar Four: Identity Reconstruction</li><li>15:57 Pillar Five: Long-Term Peace and Resilience</li><li>17:18 Act Three: Becoming You 2.0</li><li>18:46 Real Stories of Transformation</li><li>22:21 Conclusion: Winning Your Life, Not Just the Case</li></ul>no00:25:31Win The Future, Not The Divorcefull<![CDATA[Why Valentine's day breaks some hearts and frees others]]>Most people don't realize Valentine’s Day is less a cause of relationship problems and more a mirror revealing what's already broken. If you’re navigating heartbreak, separation, or divorce this episode helps you decode what Valentine’s Day exposes about your relationship and your emotional state and how to turn it into an opportunity for growth.

00:00 Introduction: Valentine's Day and Relationship Breakdowns

  • 01:14 Episode Overview: Roses, Reality, and Ruptures
  • 02:03 Valentine's Day: The Super Bowl of Expectations
  • 04:56 Emotional Accelerator: Valentine's Day Reveals, Not Causes
  • 06:15 Emotional Audit: Questions to Ask Yourself
  • 08:03 Divorce Season: Why Breakups Spike
  • 08:59 Three Valentine's Day Experiences: Celebration, Disappointment, Aftermath
  • 11:56 Cognitive Dissonance and Deadline Effects
  • 15:02 Surviving Valentine's Day: Principles for Singles and Divorced
  • 19:35 Valentine's Day and Co-Parenting
  • 23:00 Reframe: Valentine's Day as a Mirror, Not a Measure
  • 24:58 Valentine's Day as a Data Point in Personal Growth
  • 27:55 Self-Leadership: How to Navigate Valentine's Day
  • 28:52 Conclusion: Reclaim and Reboot Divorce Coaching
]]>c4a7e03a-c10d-4d46-b337-09d19cec60c0Sat, 07 Feb 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>Most people don't realize Valentine’s Day is less a cause of relationship problems and more a mirror revealing what's already broken. If you’re navigating heartbreak, separation, or divorce this episode helps you decode what Valentine’s Day exposes about your relationship and your emotional state and how to turn it into an opportunity for growth.<br /><br />00:00 Introduction: Valentine's Day and Relationship Breakdowns</p><ul><li>01:14 Episode Overview: Roses, Reality, and Ruptures</li><li>02:03 Valentine's Day: The Super Bowl of Expectations</li><li>04:56 Emotional Accelerator: Valentine's Day Reveals, Not Causes</li><li>06:15 Emotional Audit: Questions to Ask Yourself</li><li>08:03 Divorce Season: Why Breakups Spike</li><li>08:59 Three Valentine's Day Experiences: Celebration, Disappointment, Aftermath</li><li>11:56 Cognitive Dissonance and Deadline Effects</li><li>15:02 Surviving Valentine's Day: Principles for Singles and Divorced</li><li>19:35 Valentine's Day and Co-Parenting</li><li>23:00 Reframe: Valentine's Day as a Mirror, Not a Measure</li><li>24:58 Valentine's Day as a Data Point in Personal Growth</li><li>27:55 Self-Leadership: How to Navigate Valentine's Day</li><li>28:52 Conclusion: Reclaim and Reboot Divorce Coaching</li></ul>no00:30:04Why Valentine's day breaks some hearts and frees othersfull<![CDATA[Rising Together: The Art of Co-Parenting After Divorce]]>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I dive deep into the challenges and strategies of protecting kids through divorce. As a parent, navigating co-parenting with a narcissist co-parent can be daunting, but it's crucial to focus on what's best for the children. I share insights on how to manage parental alienation and ensure your kids thrive despite the circumstances. Join me as I explore evidence-based strategies to create a nurturing environment for your children, even in the face of adversity.

Chapters:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 03:15 Protecting Kids Through Divorce
  • 06:45 Co-Parenting Strategies
  • 10:30 Dealing with a Narcissist Co-Parent
  • 14:00 Understanding Parental Alienation
  • 18:00 Conclusion
]]>c74895d7-b7a6-44a7-8acc-9fb125bc642aThu, 29 Jan 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I dive deep into the challenges and strategies of protecting kids through divorce. As a parent, navigating co-parenting with a narcissist co-parent can be daunting, but it's crucial to focus on what's best for the children. I share insights on how to manage parental alienation and ensure your kids thrive despite the circumstances. Join me as I explore evidence-based strategies to create a nurturing environment for your children, even in the face of adversity.<br /></p><p><b>Chapters:</b></p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction</li><li>03:15 Protecting Kids Through Divorce</li><li>06:45 Co-Parenting Strategies</li><li>10:30 Dealing with a Narcissist Co-Parent</li><li>14:00 Understanding Parental Alienation</li><li>18:00 Conclusion</li></ul>no00:33:19Rising Together: The Art of Co-Parenting After Divorcefull<![CDATA[What If Divorce Decisions Were Based on Math, Not Fear?]]>In this episode of The Conscious Divorce Podcast, I sit down with Connie Howard, founder of What If Wealth, to talk about how real financial modeling helps people make confident decisions during divorce and major life transitions.

We explore why “even” settlements aren’t always equal, the true cost of keeping the family home, how inflation quietly erodes spousal support, and why cash flow matters just as much as net worth. Most importantly, we talk about how seeing your numbers clearly can replace fear with confidence before mediation or settlement.

If you’re navigating divorce and asking yourself, “Am I going to be okay?” this conversation brings clarity.

  • 00:00 Introduction to Spousal Support and Inflation
  • 18:53 Preparing for Mediation
  • 01:17:59 The Human Side of Financial Decisions
  • 09:08:02 What If Wealth's Approach
  • 17:53:53 The Importance of Visualizing Financial Data
  • 30:48:08 Final Advice and Giveaway
]]>6833fcfc-d2c4-4f2c-b6e8-5422d1ca03b7Thu, 15 Jan 2026 09:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of <i>The Conscious Divorce Podcast</i>, I sit down with <b>Connie Howard</b>, founder of <b>What If Wealth</b>, to talk about how real financial modeling helps people make confident decisions during divorce and major life transitions.</p><p>We explore why “even” settlements aren’t always equal, the true cost of keeping the family home, how inflation quietly erodes spousal support, and why cash flow matters just as much as net worth. Most importantly, we talk about how seeing your numbers clearly can replace fear with confidence before mediation or settlement.</p><p>If you’re navigating divorce and asking yourself, <i>“Am I going to be okay?”</i> this conversation brings clarity.</p><p></p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Spousal Support and Inflation</li><li>18:53 Preparing for Mediation</li><li>01:17:59 The Human Side of Financial Decisions</li><li>09:08:02 What If Wealth's Approach</li><li>17:53:53 The Importance of Visualizing Financial Data</li><li>30:48:08 Final Advice and Giveaway</li></ul>no00:34:36What If Divorce Decisions Were Based on Math, Not Fear?full<![CDATA[The Role of Divorce Coaching]]>In this episode, I delve into the transformative journey of 'winning the future' beyond the confines of divorce battles. Through compelling stories and research, I emphasize the significance of focusing on long-term goals, emotional health, and effective co-parenting. I share strategies for rebuilding identity, achieving financial stability, and fostering peace post-divorce. This episode highlights the pivotal role of divorce coaching in making strategic decisions that align with one's future aspirations.

  • 00:00 Introduction to Winning the Future
  • 01:47 The Importance of Long-Term Goals
  • 06:47 Emotional Health and Co-Parenting
  • 13:04 Financial Stability and Identity Reconstruction
  • 16:02 Peace, Resilience, and Daily Choices
]]>56405fa7-af86-44f1-be44-8c5568006a3cWed, 14 Jan 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, I delve into the transformative journey of 'winning the future' beyond the confines of divorce battles. Through compelling stories and research, I emphasize the significance of focusing on long-term goals, emotional health, and effective co-parenting. I share strategies for rebuilding identity, achieving financial stability, and fostering peace post-divorce. This episode highlights the pivotal role of divorce coaching in making strategic decisions that align with one's future aspirations.</p><p></p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Winning the Future</li><li>01:47 The Importance of Long-Term Goals</li><li>06:47 Emotional Health and Co-Parenting</li><li>13:04 Financial Stability and Identity Reconstruction</li><li>16:02 Peace, Resilience, and Daily Choices</li></ul>no00:34:44The Role of Divorce Coachingfull<![CDATA[2026 Mediation Guide]]>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I delve into the transformative power of divorce mediation. If you're at a crossroads, contemplating divorce, or seeking a path that prioritizes your children's well-being and your financial future, this episode is for you. I share insights from my years in the mental health field, guiding you through the mediation process, its benefits over litigation, and how to prepare strategically. Discover how mediation can offer control, cost-effectiveness, and a cooperative approach to divorce. Join me as we explore how to navigate this challenging transition with clarity and confidence. Your future starts here. #DivorceMediation #ConsciousDivorce #FamilyWellbeing

  • 00:00 Introduction to Divorce Mediation
  • 01:49 The Benefits of Mediation Over Litigation
  • 04:00 Preparing for Mediation: Key Steps
  • 06:35 Understanding the Mediation Process
  • 09:52 Short-term, Medium-term, and Long-term Planning
  • 13:12 Financial Clarity and Legal Guidance
  • 15:52 Emotional Regulation and Support
  • 18:25 Crafting Creative Solutions in Mediation
  • 24:08 Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them
  • 26:18 When Mediation Isn't Appropriate
  • 28:45 Implementing Agreements in Real Life
  • 31:35 Conclusion and Next Steps

Takeaways

  1. Divorce mediation empowers individuals to negotiate terms themselves, regain control, and craft creative solutions that serve their unique circumstances.
  2. Strategic preparation, financial clarity, and a focus on long-term well-being are essential for successful divorce mediation.
]]>64f1d47e-eed2-4db3-94b2-a72f91ae1f8cTue, 13 Jan 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I delve into the transformative power of divorce mediation. If you're at a crossroads, contemplating divorce, or seeking a path that prioritizes your children's well-being and your financial future, this episode is for you. I share insights from my years in the mental health field, guiding you through the mediation process, its benefits over litigation, and how to prepare strategically. Discover how mediation can offer control, cost-effectiveness, and a cooperative approach to divorce. Join me as we explore how to navigate this challenging transition with clarity and confidence. Your future starts here. #DivorceMediation #ConsciousDivorce #FamilyWellbeing</p><p></p><ul><li>00:00 Introduction to Divorce Mediation</li><li>01:49 The Benefits of Mediation Over Litigation</li><li>04:00 Preparing for Mediation: Key Steps</li><li>06:35 Understanding the Mediation Process</li><li>09:52 Short-term, Medium-term, and Long-term Planning</li><li>13:12 Financial Clarity and Legal Guidance</li><li>15:52 Emotional Regulation and Support</li><li>18:25 Crafting Creative Solutions in Mediation</li><li>24:08 Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them</li><li>26:18 When Mediation Isn't Appropriate</li><li>28:45 Implementing Agreements in Real Life</li><li>31:35 Conclusion and Next Steps</li></ul><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ol><li>Divorce mediation empowers individuals to negotiate terms themselves, regain control, and craft creative solutions that serve their unique circumstances.</li><li>Strategic preparation, financial clarity, and a focus on long-term well-being are essential for successful divorce mediation.</li></ol>no00:35:022026 Mediation Guidefull<![CDATA[The Money Wake-Up Call]]>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I dive into the transformative journey of navigating divorce with intention and awareness. We explore how to approach this life transition not as an ending, but as a launch pad for the life you're meant to live. Join me as I discuss the financial wake-up call that everyone considering divorce should hear before taking action.

  • 01:53 The Importance of Financial Preparation
  • 03:46 What Goes Wrong in Divorce Preparation
  • 06:43 Practical Steps for Divorce Preparation
  • 11:32 Understanding Marital vs. Separate Property
  • 20:40 The Need for Two Budgets: During and After Divorce
  • 25:22 Budgeting vs. Financial Planning
  • 37:52 Updating Documents Post-Divorce

Throughout the episode, I am joined by Hirsh from Lifecycle Financial, who shares his expertise on the financial complexities of divorce. We cover everything from gathering essential documents to understanding the nuances of asset division. Whether you're considering divorce or already in the process, this episode is packed with insights to help you reclaim your financial power and clarity.

]]>b4800ae1-46d1-4be5-8e0b-07fcf1f51f4aWed, 07 Jan 2026 10:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I dive into the transformative journey of navigating divorce with intention and awareness. We explore how to approach this life transition not as an ending, but as a launch pad for the life you're meant to live. Join me as I discuss the financial wake-up call that everyone considering divorce should hear before taking action.<br /></p><ul><li>01:53 The Importance of Financial Preparation</li><li>03:46 What Goes Wrong in Divorce Preparation</li><li>06:43 Practical Steps for Divorce Preparation</li><li>11:32 Understanding Marital vs. Separate Property</li><li>20:40 The Need for Two Budgets: During and After Divorce</li><li>25:22 Budgeting vs. Financial Planning</li><li>37:52 Updating Documents Post-Divorce<br /></li></ul><p>Throughout the episode, I am joined by Hirsh from Lifecycle Financial, who shares his expertise on the financial complexities of divorce. We cover everything from gathering essential documents to understanding the nuances of asset division. Whether you're considering divorce or already in the process, this episode is packed with insights to help you reclaim your financial power and clarity.</p>no00:44:149The Money Wake-Up Callfull<![CDATA[How to Set Goals That Stick: Habits, Systems, and Real Behavior Change]]>Most New Year’s resolutions fail, not because you lack discipline, but because the system is broken.

In this episode, let's explore why traditional goal setting doesn’t work and shares a proven, science-backed approach to building habits that actually stick. You’ll learn how identity-based habits, emotional regulation, and simple systems can help you create sustainable change in your health, career, relationships, and personal life.

Whether you’re rebuilding after divorce or simply ready for a life reset, this episode offers a practical roadmap for creating long-term growth without relying on motivation or willpower.

]]>bde471ed-5f4a-48c2-bc7f-18c9f916942bThu, 18 Dec 2025 22:00:00 GMT<p>Most New Year’s resolutions fail, not because you lack discipline, but because the system is broken.<br /></p><p>In this episode, let's explore why traditional goal setting doesn’t work and shares a proven, science-backed approach to building habits that actually stick. You’ll learn how identity-based habits, emotional regulation, and simple systems can help you create sustainable change in your health, career, relationships, and personal life.</p><p>Whether you’re rebuilding after divorce or simply ready for a life reset, this episode offers a practical roadmap for creating long-term growth without relying on motivation or willpower.</p>no00:31:249How to Set Goals That Stick: Habits, Systems, and Real Behavior Changefull<![CDATA[Silent Nights, Loudest Feelings]]>Join Justin Milrad and Jill Kaufman as they delve into the emotional complexities of navigating the holiday season post-divorce. Discover actionable strategies to transform this challenging time into an opportunity for growth and connection. Whether you're facing your first holiday alone or seeking to redefine family traditions, this episode offers insights on self-work, co-parenting, and finding joy amidst change. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that encourages healing and thriving beyond survival.

  • 04:24 Emotional Challenges of Divorce
  • 10:04 Self-Work and Moving Forward
  • 12:30 Co-Parenting Strategies During Holidays
  • 26:27 Finding Joy and Perspective
  • 32:23 Thriving Through Divorce
]]>ed704fd1-fe1a-4de7-bc3c-3e4afc23a2deThu, 11 Dec 2025 16:58:03 GMT<p>Join Justin Milrad and Jill Kaufman as they delve into the emotional complexities of navigating the holiday season post-divorce. Discover actionable strategies to transform this challenging time into an opportunity for growth and connection. Whether you're facing your first holiday alone or seeking to redefine family traditions, this episode offers insights on self-work, co-parenting, and finding joy amidst change. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that encourages healing and thriving beyond survival.<br /></p><ul><li>04:24 Emotional Challenges of Divorce</li><li>10:04 Self-Work and Moving Forward</li><li>12:30 Co-Parenting Strategies During Holidays</li><li>26:27 Finding Joy and Perspective</li><li>32:23 Thriving Through Divorce</li></ul>no00:43:478Silent Nights, Loudest Feelingsfull<![CDATA[The Critical Divorce Mistake I Made, and How You Can Avoid It]]>When I went through my divorce, I made a painful mistake: I focused on lawyers, paperwork and logistics, and I told myself I would deal with the emotional fallout later. In this episode, I share why that choice cost me time, money and peace of mind, and why your first call in divorce should be to a divorce coach, not a lawyer. I talk about how a divorce coach helps you think clearly, avoid costly mistakes, protect your kids, navigate the financial landmines, and start the inner work that leads to You 2.0, a stronger and more authentic version of yourself. If you are thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, or trying to rebuild after, this conversation will help you slow down, get grounded, and make decisions that support your future, not just your feelings in the moment.

]]>0e31f3ec-2743-49e7-aef4-c1afa14b9e22Fri, 05 Dec 2025 11:32:48 GMT<p>When I went through my divorce, I made a painful mistake: I focused on lawyers, paperwork and logistics, and I told myself I would deal with the emotional fallout later. In this episode, I share why that choice cost me time, money and peace of mind, and why your first call in divorce should be to a divorce coach, not a lawyer. I talk about how a divorce coach helps you think clearly, avoid costly mistakes, protect your kids, navigate the financial landmines, and start the inner work that leads to You 2.0, a stronger and more authentic version of yourself. If you are thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, or trying to rebuild after, this conversation will help you slow down, get grounded, and make decisions that support your future, not just your feelings in the moment.</p>no00:39:127The Critical Divorce Mistake I Made, and How You Can Avoid Itfull<![CDATA[Coparenting during the holidays - with Jeanne Ward]]>The holidays can feel overwhelming after a separation or divorce, but they don’t have to be. In this episode, I sit down with co-parenting coach Jeanne Drake Ward to talk about how we can navigate holiday stress, communicate more effectively, support our kids, and create new traditions that actually bring joy.

We talk about:
✨ Managing emotions during the holidays
✨ Common co-parenting mistakes to avoid
✨ What to do when you don’t have your kids
✨ Gift-giving challenges when emotions or finances are tight
✨ Protecting your kids without overprotecting
✨ Why self-compassion matters more than ever

]]>c09fae38-1d77-4785-8e6c-4cc45e03d339Sat, 22 Nov 2025 10:54:51 GMT<p>The holidays can feel overwhelming after a separation or divorce, but they don’t have to be. In this episode, I sit down with co-parenting coach <b>Jeanne Drake Ward</b> to talk about how we can navigate holiday stress, communicate more effectively, support our kids, and create new traditions that actually bring joy.</p><p>We talk about:<br />✨ Managing emotions during the holidays<br />✨ Common co-parenting mistakes to avoid<br />✨ What to do when you don’t have your kids<br />✨ Gift-giving challenges when emotions or finances are tight<br />✨ Protecting your kids without overprotecting<br />✨ Why self-compassion matters more than ever</p>no00:30:00Coparenting during the holidays - with Jeanne Wardfull<![CDATA[Common Divorce Mistakes Men and Women do]]>In this episode, let's discuss the common mistakes people make during divorce, emphasizing that these errors are human rather than gendered.

]]>3a1eada2-ea44-4f84-a3f7-7c08bdd6ebe9Thu, 13 Nov 2025 20:00:00 GMT<p>In this episode, let's discuss the common mistakes people make during divorce, emphasizing that these errors are human rather than gendered.</p>no00:20:005Common Divorce Mistakes Men and Women dofull<![CDATA[Divorce: The Best Decision You Never Planned]]>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, host Justin Milrad delves into the transformative journey of divorce, challenging societal norms that equate marriage with success and divorce with failure. Through personal stories and professional insights, Justin explores how divorce can be a courageous step towards self-discovery and growth. He shares the concept of "You 2.0," a framework for embracing change and building a life that aligns with your true self. Whether you're contemplating divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a fresh perspective on navigating one of life's toughest transitions. Tune in to discover how endings can become new beginnings.

]]>893174ef-4762-47e7-bc14-61a81a030accWed, 05 Nov 2025 20:01:07 GMT<p>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, host Justin Milrad delves into the transformative journey of divorce, challenging societal norms that equate marriage with success and divorce with failure. Through personal stories and professional insights, Justin explores how divorce can be a courageous step towards self-discovery and growth. He shares the concept of "You 2.0," a framework for embracing change and building a life that aligns with your true self. Whether you're contemplating divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a fresh perspective on navigating one of life's toughest transitions. Tune in to discover how endings can become new beginnings.</p>no00:30:214Divorce: The Best Decision You Never Plannedfull<![CDATA[Co-parenting Partnerships Ft. Lissa Lisser | LZL Coaching]]>Summary

In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, host Justin Milrad and guest Lisa Lisser discuss the critical transition from marriage to co-parenting after divorce. They explore how parents can redefine their partnership in raising children, emphasizing the importance of focusing on the children's well-being and creating a functional co-parenting relationship. Lisa shares insights on navigating emotions, finding common ground, and establishing a shared mission for the benefit of the children.

]]>5914fc3a-442e-4900-8da1-7770d415e759Wed, 29 Oct 2025 12:44:34 GMT<p>Summary</p><p>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, host Justin Milrad and guest Lisa Lisser discuss the critical transition from marriage to co-parenting after divorce. They explore how parents can redefine their partnership in raising children, emphasizing the importance of focusing on the children's well-being and creating a functional co-parenting relationship. Lisa shares insights on navigating emotions, finding common ground, and establishing a shared mission for the benefit of the children.</p>no00:31:543Co-parenting Partnerships Ft. Lissa Lisser | LZL Coachingfull<![CDATA[From We to Me]]>Summary

In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I share my personal journey through divorce, exploring the complexities and societal perceptions surrounding it. Let's talk about the identity shift after divorce going from "we" to "me"

]]>94d85578-13f5-4f3a-b827-7f6a355b237dFri, 17 Oct 2025 08:30:00 GMT<p>Summary</p><p>In this episode of the Conscious Divorce Podcast, I share my personal journey through divorce, exploring the complexities and societal perceptions surrounding it. Let's talk about the identity shift after divorce going from "we" to "me"</p>no00:22:232From We to Mefull<![CDATA[The Gap and The Gain]]>Ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it’s never enough? In this episode, we explore the “Gap vs. Gain” mindset, a powerful shift that transforms how you measure progress, success, and self-worth.

Join us as we dive into the true story of a triathlete who learned that peace and performance both come from looking back, not ahead. Discover how “measuring backward” reduces stress, rewires your brain for gratitude, and makes growth visible in your health, relationships, and healing journey after divorce.

You’ll learn how to break free from the endless chase of perfection and finally recognize how far you’ve come. Because when you stop chasing the horizon and start celebrating the ground you’ve covered, progress feels lighter and life starts to move forward naturally.


Key takeaways:

  • The difference between the Gap and the Gain mindsets
  • How backward measurement rewires stress and boosts confidence
  • Real-life tools to track personal progress and feel it
  • A weekly ritual to keep you grounded, grateful, and growing


Stop racing the horizon. Start celebrating the journey.

]]>264efc15-4f92-4edd-a48a-172bd06a9e87Fri, 10 Oct 2025 20:37:39 GMT<p>Ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it’s never enough? In this episode, we explore the “Gap vs. Gain” mindset, a powerful shift that transforms how you measure progress, success, and self-worth.</p><p>Join us as we dive into the true story of a triathlete who learned that peace and performance both come from looking back, not ahead. Discover how “measuring backward” reduces stress, rewires your brain for gratitude, and makes growth visible in your health, relationships, and healing journey after divorce.</p><p>You’ll learn how to break free from the endless chase of perfection and finally recognize how far you’ve come. Because when you stop chasing the horizon and start celebrating the ground you’ve covered, progress feels lighter and life starts to move forward naturally.</p><p><br /><b>Key takeaways:</b></p><ul><li>The difference between the <i>Gap</i> and the <i>Gain</i> mindsets</li><li>How backward measurement rewires stress and boosts confidence</li><li>Real-life tools to track personal progress and feel it</li><li>A weekly ritual to keep you grounded, grateful, and growing</li></ul><p><br /><i>Stop racing the horizon. Start celebrating the journey.</i></p>no00:22:381The Gap and The Gainfull