Developing Dads Podcast

Travel, The Gym and Crazy AI

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 02 Feb 2026 07:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we catch up for the first time in 2026. We go over our starts to the year with Gordon travelling to Thailand for a holiday with the family, Neil has finally signed up for his ultra marathon, and finally, we discuss the crazy AI developments.

Our Personal Goals for 2026

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 05 Jan 2026 15:00:00 GMT

Going through our personal goals for 2026

Xmas Review 2025

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 29 Dec 2025 12:19:24 GMT

General chat about the Xmas celebrations, everything we've been up to and how we are looking forward to 2026

2025 in Review: The Good and The Bad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 15 Dec 2025 11:02:28 GMT

In Episode 122 of the Developing Dads podcast, hosts Gordon and Neil reflect on the highs and lows of 2025. They discuss personal milestones, family dynamics, and the challenges of balancing work and life. From memorable trips to Paris to navigating health scares and financial planning, this episode offers a candid look at the year that was. Tune in for insights, laughter, and a glimpse into the lives of two dads navigating the complexities of modern family life.

Why Does Stuff Cost So Much?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 08 Dec 2025 15:00:00 GMT

In this episode of the Developing Dad's Podcast, Neil and Gordon engage in a candid conversation about their recent experiences, family life, and the challenges of parenting. They discuss the costs associated with holiday activities, the pressures of modern living, and the joys of family gatherings. The conversation also delves into the complexities of home ownership, financial planning, and the importance of maintaining relationships amidst the chaos of family life. With humour and honesty, they reflect on the ups and downs of being a parent and the decisions that come with it.

Is Making Friends Hard as a Dad?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Tue, 02 Dec 2025 14:40:07 GMT

We discuss how hard it can be as a dad to make friends and how to fix that.

E49 Work, Your Partner and Being Alone: How you spend your time in life

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 21 Nov 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore where you spend more of your time and how it's so important to choose a suitable partner, cherish the early days of your kids growing up and deal with being alone for a lot of that time.

E38 Neil Saved BrewDog James Life: Random Dad Chat 3

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we discover Neil manage to save BrewDog James's life. Well not quite but he certainly helped him when he had a pretty awful accident. We also run through a bunch of random dad chats we have been thinking about recently. From never setting goals to the crazy thing that is Tik Tok and how it compares to YouTube.

E34 Exploring our Mental Health History

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 08 Aug 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore mental health. After Paddy 'the baddy' Pimblett heart warming speech following his UFC win about his friend committing suicide. Mental health is something we've both never knowingly suffered with. That being said we go into our history with mental health and when we, perhaps have suffered with our own mental health. From Neil going from 1 to 3 kids in one swoop and how Gordon has had some pretty tough lows.

2023 so Far. 6 month Review

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 10 Jul 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore the first 6 months of 2023. How are we getting on with our goals and if we've set anymore.

9 Years of Marriage. What's the Secret?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 20 Mar 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore Neil's 9 years of marriage and how he managed to make it so far.

10 Years of Marriage

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Tue, 27 Feb 2024 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, Neil and Gordon catch up after a long break from podcasting. They discuss recent activities, including dealing with business challenges and investing in quality jeans. They also share highlights such as a date night and a comedy show. The conversation turns to reflections on 10 years of marriage and the challenges and growth they have experienced. They discuss future plans, including travel and navigating the teenage years. They end by setting goals for the next 10 years of their relationship. The conversation explores the significance of weddings and vow renewals, the financial considerations that come with them, and the rarity of gathering loved ones. It also delves into taking responsibility for loneliness, Neil's new job and imposter syndrome, putting oneself out there, the logistics and cost of weddings, and concludes with closing remarks.

What My Father-in-Law Really Thinks of Me!

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we interview Gordon's father-in-law, David Williams. We go into what dad life was like in 1991 and how it compares to 2023 and even learn more about what it was like working as a Diplomat and raising children all across the world.

DOC Conversation Cards

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 26 Jun 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we use Diary of a CEO, Steven Barletts conversation cards. These are from the Diary of a CEO podcast where guests have asked the next guest a certain question. This opens an insightful discussion on things like, 'What is the greatest wealth in your life' to 'What is the greatest gift a human has given you'.

The Struggles of Raising Kids

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode we discuss Olivia moving into a separation anxiety stage and we end up going through Neil's experiences raising his kids.

We are a Top 1% Podcast. How we did it.

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 24 Apr 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we discuss how we've managed to achieve a podcast in the top 1% of all podcasts across the world. From tips and tricks to solutions we've used to get there. To be honest it really wasn't that hard to get into the top 1% of podcasts in the world lol but we've some how done it.

Goals for 2023

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 09 Jan 2023 06:45:00 GMT

With 2023 just starting we explore our goals for the new year. Some of the same from 2022 but also exploring some new ones for 2023.

We Are Back

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 17 Nov 2025 18:00:00 GMT

**The Journey Back to Podcasting** After a year-long hiatus, Gordon and Neil reunite to kick off a new chapter in their podcasting journey. Gordon humorously highlights how much has changed since they last recorded, including his son's birth, marking a significant event in their lives. The two dads reflect on their initial momentum in podcasting and how life’s responsibilities can shift priorities. **Life's Increased Busyness** Neil shares the challenges of managing life with three children, noting how their bedtimes have shifted later as they engage in more activities. His twin boys and daughter are involved in various extracurriculars, leading to a packed schedule. Neil notes, "I feel like there's less free time now as the kids are getting older." This sentiment resonates with many parents who struggle to balance their time effectively. **The Importance of Quality Time** Despite the busyness, Neil emphasizes the importance of spending quality time with his family. He mentions a family rule to keep weekends free from classes or commitments, allowing for genuine family interactions. This approach highlights the need for intentional family time amidst a hectic lifestyle. **Identifying Productive Activities** Gordon raises a critical question about productivity in their busy lives, asking how they can ensure that their activities are genuinely fulfilling. Neil admits to the temptation of saying yes to everything but reflects on the importance of prioritizing happiness. He mentions how having dual incomes has allowed their family to explore new activities, underscoring the balance between financial freedom and time commitment. **Strategies for Maintaining Balance** Both hosts discuss their strategies for managing their commitments. Gordon stresses the importance of constraints, suggesting that committing to specific times for activities, like podcasting, can help maintain focus. Neil shares his experience of adjusting the podcast format to fit their busy lives, showing flexibility and adaptability. **Reflection on Personal Growth** As they wrap up their updates, Gordon reflects on his business successes and the importance of viewing progress over the long term rather than month-to-month fluctuations. He shares insights on productizing his business, paralleling the need to streamline their family activities to create more meaningful experiences. Conclusion: The conversation between Gordon and Neil serves as a reminder of the challenges modern dads face in balancing family, work, and personal fulfillment. By sharing their experiences, they highlight the importance of intentionality in parenting and the need to prioritize what brings joy and satisfaction in life. Key takeaways include the value of quality family time, the significance of reflection on personal happiness, and the importance of adapting to life's changes while maintaining commitments.

The Joy of Watching Children Grow

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 14 Aug 2024 05:45:00 GMT

00:00Introduction and Catching Up

03:10Dealing with Injuries

05:06Back-to-School Shopping

07:23Preparing Older Siblings for a New Baby

10:39The Disappointment of Bad Haircuts

13:35The Joy of Watching Children Grow

20:08Involving Older Siblings in Parenting

22:39Managing the Needs of Multiple Children

26:28The Impact of Work-Life Balance

33:44Regret and the Value of Family Time

How are we trying to be good role models?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode of the Developing Dads podcast, Gordon and Neil catch up on their recent experiences and discuss the importance of role modelling as fathers. They share stories about their weekends, including Neil's half marathon and his children's achievements in football. Gordon talks about his business restructuring and the benefits of participating in a mastermind group. They also discuss the mental challenges of running and the importance of setting goals. The conversation touches on the impact of role modelling on children's behaviour, including exercise habits and financial literacy. Overall, the episode emphasises the importance of small actions and open communication in shaping children's values and behaviours. The conversation covers various aspects of parenting, including money and financial conversations, open communication and conflict resolution, teaching manners and politeness, being a role model for children, the impact of parental behaviour on children, and scheduling challenges and commitment. Takeaways - Money is often a central topic in conversations between parents, as they discuss saving, budgeting, and making financial decisions for the family. - Open communication and conflict resolution are important in parenting, as they teach children how to express their feelings and resolve conflicts healthily. - Teaching manners and politeness to children is essential, as it helps them develop social skills and respect for others. - Parents serve as role models for their children, and their behaviour and actions greatly influence how children behave and interact with others. - Scheduling challenges and commitment can make it difficult for parents to find time for important conversations and activities, but it's important to prioritize and make time for family.

Exploring Dad Life with special guest, Don and 100 Podcast Episodes

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 04 Dec 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we have a very special guest for episode 100 of the Developing Dads podcast, Don Kandasamy. We explore dad life. Thank you to everyone who listens to this podcast. We do it for our great great grandchildren but either way, all the messages (3.5) about how you've been enjoying our chats have been amazing. Here's to another 100.

Random Dad Chat: The Rock for President?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 27 Nov 2023 06:45:00 GMT

When Should You Just Give Up?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the idea of when is it just a good time to give up.

Neils Thinking About Getting 'The Snip'

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 13 Nov 2023 06:45:00 GMT

What would you do differently?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 01 Nov 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore the things we might do differently. From buying a first home, and staying in relationships too long to saving earlier and for longer than we did.

Content We Enjoy: Podcasts, Books, Instagram, YouTube

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 21 Aug 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we discuss our favourite pieces of content to consume across lots of different platforms. From Podcasts to YouTube to books to Instagram Accounts. Neils List Podcasts DOAC Huberman Rich Roll Against All Odds Lex Fridman Nick Bare Books Daily Stoic Daily Dad YouTube Not really into it as much Fergus Crawley Nick Bare Instagram one.life.truck.it Gordon's List: Podcasts Modern Wisdom Colin and Samir Iced Coffee Hour DOAC Fulhamish Books Derek Sivers Mark Manson Will Storr YouTube Shmee150 Peter Mckinnon Casey Neistat Matt Deavaila Instagram Thetinmen

Best Apps We've Used for Productivty

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 05 Jun 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore the best apps we've used.

Challenges of a Modern Day Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 29 May 2023 10:20:02 GMT

In this short episode we explore the challenges faced by modern day dads. Expectations to be more than just a household provider and what that perhaps means.

Key Moments of Becoming a First Time Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 05:45:00 GMT

This is a solo episode with Gordon. Where he goes through all of his notable moments as a first time dad.

Feeling Useless As a Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 06 Feb 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the uselessness feeling in the first 6 to 18 months of fatherhood.

E53 First Parents Evening

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 19 Dec 2022 17:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we cover what the first parent's evening was like. How we deal with handing over the care and attention of others to our kids.

E23 Random Dad Chat #1 - bribing, praise and rewards

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 23 May 2022 05:45:00 GMT

We start a new series called Random Dad Chat. In this episode we cover random things a 3-year-old says, bribes, praise, rewards, and punishments, arguing as parents, giving kids some flexibility and big life's choices (working hard vs taking time now)...

The Nightmare of Selling on Facebook Market Place

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 22 May 2023 05:45:00 GMT

[00:01:08] Society and cultural changes.

[00:03:30] Peaky Blinders outfit choice.

[00:08:31] Scottish entrepreneurship awards. [00:11:09] Wealth and success mindset.

[00:17:10] Political and social commentary.

[00:20:00] Importance of in-person networking.

[00:21:43] Personal brand importance.

[00:26:10] Creating a Podcast Easily.

[00:28:39] Networking in the fitness industry.

[00:33:55] Kids playing in the park.

[00:35:34] Parenting anxieties.

[00:39:41] Stupid things we've done.

[00:42:34] Identity and fitness limbo.

[00:46:03] Secondhand goods and weird interactions.

[00:49:35] Selling luxury items for profit.

Friends with Mental Health Issues

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 27 Feb 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we chat through our busy week and discuss friends that have and do suffer from mental health issues. We go through how we try to help and perhaps some of the best ways to deal with it.

E47 Kids and Discipline. Democracy or Dictatorship?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we have another random dad chat. Covering a number of things but more notably how we discipline our kids. Do we take the talking route where we negotiate or do we just lay down the law?

E46 How to get through the Highs and Lows of DadLife

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore how we navigate and 'get over' the hard times we've experienced in our lives.

E45 How do you protect your kids?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we discuss how we protect our kids from lots of different dangers that are out there. From the physical to the mental. We also explore how we balance this with ensuring our kids aren't 'wrapped in cotton wool'.

E43 What really happened on Neil's Stag Do

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 23:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we reveal everything that happened on Neil's stag do.

E41 Juggling Time as a Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 26 Sep 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go into how we struggle with time as dads. What kind of commitments we make, how they serve us and how we ultimately choose. Apart from that, it's also full of random dad chat and an invasion from Neils kids lol

E36 How to assess risk now you are a dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 22 Aug 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore how we've assessed risk before kids vs now having a family. Looking at things like buying your first house, living with more pressure and tips for breaking things down.

E30 Six Months of 2022 Reviewed

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 11 Jul 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we run through how the first 6-months of the year have gone. Review the goals we set in episode one and how much progress we have made on them.

E18 Taking Time Off and a Wee Catch Up

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 18 Apr 2022 05:45:00 GMT

I and Neil took a few days off after batch recording a number of episodes. We return with a wee catch up on what we have been up to in the last 2-3weeks. From digital detox to getting back into the gym.l

E17 - Ali Abdaal - Four Kids, Die with Zero, Coding at 11

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 11 Apr 2022 05:45:00 GMT

We sit down with our 2nd guest Ali Abdaal discussing everything from dad life, raising kids to burn out and our upbringing.

E10 - Our businesses that failed and what we learned

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 07 Mar 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore our journeys trying and failing (at times) to flex our entrepreneurial muscles. From spending £5000 on a website and never using it to Neil getting banned on the internet. We discuss why we didn't carry on those businesses that potentially had momentum? What made us stop? Would be start them again?

E4 - Birth stories from a dads perspective

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 06:45:00 GMT

Something I've been keen (Gordon) to discuss with Neil. We go through our experiences supporting our partners through birth. The feelings we went through, things that we think could help and a few tips/suggestions to think about for future dads.

The Importance of Hobbies as a Dad The Art of Starting Something New

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 21 Aug 2024 05:45:00 GMT

Hobbies provide a sense of fulfillment and joy outside of family life.
Having hobbies allows individuals to bring new experiences and stories to share with their family.
Starting a new hobby can be challenging, but the satisfaction of improvement and mastery is rewarding.
Many middle-aged men may have lost their hobbies or stopped pursuing new ones, possibly due to a fear of starting again or a lack of time and energy. Embrace the process of learning and enjoy being a beginner in new hobbies.
Don't be afraid to start something new and be willing to look stupid or make mistakes.
Hobbies can provide a sense of achievement and happiness, but it's important to consider the motivation behind them.
Parents play a crucial role in providing entertainment and engagement for their children.
Hobbies can foster personal growth and connection with others.

00:00Introduction and Catching Up

03:23Nesting and Redecorating

05:43Neil's Trip to Copenhagen

09:25Trail Biking as a New Hobby

13:37Challenges of Hobbies with Young Kids

18:01The Suck of Starting a New Hobby

19:47The Occasion and Social Aspects of Hobbies

21:33Hobbies as Something of Your Own

29:19Trying Out New Hobbies

33:59Competition and Achievement in Hobbies

39:24The Role of Parents in Providing Entertainment

41:14Hobbies as a Path to Personal Growth and Connection

E50 This Podcast Has Changed Our Lives

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 28 Nov 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we reflect on what 50 episodes have taught us. Whether we have enjoyed it, what might be next and maybe even if we decide to continue it.

Advice We Have Had Over the Years

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Tue, 29 Aug 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore some of the best pieces we have picked up over the years.

Are our kids doing too much 'stuff'?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 07 Feb 2024 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, Gordon and Neil catch up on their recent activities and discuss the challenges and decisions involved in youth sports. They explore the concept of success and how it is often defined by societal metrics. The conversation delves into the commitment and time investment required for team sports and the potential benefits for children. They also discuss the importance of variety and allowing children to explore different activities before focusing on one or a few. Overall, the episode highlights the considerations and trade-offs involved in parenting and supporting children's interests. The conversation explores the themes of socialising and making friends, bribing children into activities, pushing children to overcome fears, the role of pushing in personal growth, and navigating parenthood and self-doubt.

Can there be a Work-Life balance?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 29 Jan 2024 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, Neil and Gordon discuss their personal updates and delve into the topic of work-life balance. They explore the challenges of prioritising career and family and the importance of setting boundaries. They also discuss the addictive nature of success and the need to find stillness and balance in life. The conversation concludes with plans to attend a football match together. In this conversation, Gordon and Neil discuss various topics including planning a football game, Neil's first football game, birthday discussion, work-life balance, and career changes. Takeaways: - Balancing work and family life requires setting clear boundaries and effective communication. - Success often comes with consequences and it's important to consider the trade-offs. - Finding stillness and balance in life is crucial for overall happiness and well-being. - Prioritising family and career is a personal decision that requires open and honest conversations with loved ones. Planning events with friends can be exciting and enjoyable. - Trying new experiences, like attending a football game, can be a fun way to expand your horizons. - Discussing and planning birthdays with friends can lead to thoughtful and meaningful celebrations. - Finding a balance between work and personal life is important for overall well-being. - Considering and making career changes can bring new opportunities and personal growth.

Achievements By The Time We Are 40

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 06 Nov 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore the things we want to achieve by the time we are 40. From saving £100,000 in a pension to buying a holiday home or even going to F1 Paddock Pass.

Conjunctivitis, Worlds Strongest Men, Neil trapped in a feminist convention

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Tue, 14 Mar 2023 06:45:00 GMT

Well, this one is strange. It's been a couple of weeks since we caught up on the pod so we go into what we've been up to. Neil was in London and accidentally found himself at a feminist convention. Gordon had the busiest 2 weeks which it included filming for the world's strongest men in Columbus, Ohio.

Naked Swimming in Peterhead - Random Dad Chat

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 16 Jan 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we discuss our new year shinanigans with Neil going swimming with naked pensioners in Peterhead amongst other random dad chats.

E44 Should you have children?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 17 Oct 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore whether or not you should have kids. Considering things like time, money, sleep and even discussing the transformation you need, as a man, in your ego.

E12 - WTF does 'hands on dad' mean?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go into how our lives changed becomes dads. From our perspectives on work, drinking with mates becomes totally different and how much stuff you need to go out with a baby in town.

E40 Having kids changes the way you think

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore how having kids changes the way you think. The decisions you make in your twenties can be so much freer and even wasteful. As a dad, there's a clear choice. You either spend your time with your kids and partner or you don't. When you don't it better be worth it.

E9 - Weird Fitness Things (Tuna Shakes included) with Paul Standell

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Thu, 03 Mar 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we take an old, never published episode of the Greenhorn Fitness Podcast. Gordon is joined by Paul Standell. He is Personal Trainer, Online Coach and Educator from London. We go into the old days of fitness where macro tracking didn't exist and explore the present-day fitness community.

E5 - Our greatest fears explored

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 07 Feb 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we cover all things that keep us up at night. From the fear of death and how that might happen to Neil passing out at the dentist.

The Importance of Quality Time

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 07 Aug 2024 05:45:00 GMT

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

03:22 Commitment to Fitness and Well-being

06:17 Family Holidays and Charity Walks

09:02 The Importance of Quality Time

18:24 Challenges and Accomplishments in Physical Activities

23:04 Consistency and Commitment in Personal and Professional Life

29:06 Chasing Running Goals

31:29 Fitness Routines and Parenthood

34:47 Birthday Party Planning

38:06 Overcoming the Fear of Failure

41:42 AI-Generated Bots

Health Hacking Nonsense

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 23 Oct 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we catch up after a couple of weeks off. Neil was on holiday and we run through a couple of busy weeks at work for Gordon.

E52 Alonement as a Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Tue, 13 Dec 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we shoot for a random dad chat and end up talking about whether we would want to spend time alone even with the amazing families that we have.

E2 - Spending £50,000. Best and Worst Financial decisions

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 17 Jan 2022 07:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we talk all about our best and worst financial decisions. From challenging house purchases to focusing on what money is doing for us.

E3 - Bodybuilding and Running changed our Lives

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Thu, 27 Jan 2022 07:17:35 GMT

In episode 3 we cover Gordon's bodybuilding journey and Neil's running experiences. From how hard dieting for a competition is and the influence Neil has on his kids with his running.

E25 Hard Moments Being a Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore some hard moments of being dads. From Neil surviving having twins after already having one to Gordon helping his wife through the tough 2-4 weeks post birth and worrying about the baby blues.

Running every week for 8 years and what its taught me

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 06 Mar 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode Neil completes his first solo pod. He goes through his running obsession and what benefits he's seen from running every week for about 8 years.

Our 2024 in Review

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Tue, 24 Dec 2024 18:00:00 GMT

In this Christmas special episode of the Developing Dads podcast, Neil and Gordon reconnect after a hiatus, discussing their personal lives, family updates, and the challenges of communication. They reflect on the past year, including the joys of parenting, the addition of a puppy, and the experience of running a half marathon. The conversation also touches on health and fitness goals, the impact of injuries, and the absurdity of extreme running challenges. In this engaging conversation, Neil and Gordon explore various themes surrounding personal growth, relationships, and social dynamics. They discuss the rise of viral walking challenges on social media, the importance of meaningful relationships, and the value of quality time with family. The conversation also touches on the significance of friendships and community connections, the balance between responsibilities and personal pursuits, and the successes in their respective businesses. Throughout, they emphasize the importance of positivity and finding joy in life's experiences.

Being a Girl Dad - Our Experiences

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 15 May 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore our experiences raising girls. We talk about what it's been like so far, how we are dealing with the now and what we think the future will look like being girl dads.

What kind of dad do you want to be?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 20 Feb 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go into a random dad chat. We haven't spoken for a couple of weeks so we catch up on all things dad life. We also explore the idea of what kind of dad do we want to be and how we negotiate between compassion and assertivness.

2023 in Review

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 25 Dec 2023 06:45:00 GMT

Summary In this episode, Neil and Gordon discuss their Christmas preparations and reflect on the events of the past year. They talk about socializing, family visits, and the excitement of the holiday season. They also share their experiences with business growth and personal achievements throughout the year. From camping trips to live music events, they highlight the memorable moments and milestones of each month. Overall, it has been a year of building businesses, creating memories with family and friends, and embracing the joys and challenges of fatherhood. The conversation covers the months of July to December, with highlights including birthdays, trips, concerts, and family holidays. The hosts reflect on their experiences and the importance of creating special moments for loved ones. They discuss the balance between work and personal life, as well as the significance of community and shared experiences. The conversation concludes with anticipation for the upcoming Christmas celebrations and plans for the new year. Takeaways - Christmas is a time for socializing and spending time with family and friends. - Business growth and personal achievements are important milestones to celebrate. - Camping trips, live music events, and other activities create lasting memories. - Fatherhood brings both joys and challenges, and it's important to embrace them. - Reflecting on the past year helps to appreciate the progress and experiences.

Exploring Burdens Dads carry with them

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 02 Oct 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore what burdens dads carry as part of becoming a dad.

Busy Dad Life Catch Up

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore what we have been up to given we have missed an upload. Everything from whether we encourage sons more than daughters when it comes to sports to negotiating new work.

Your 30s are about surviving!

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 14 Aug 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we discuss how your 30s are basically about surviving. Debt, responsibilities, lack of sleep, less healthy, more pressure. The list can go on.

Self-Care for Dads

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 07 Aug 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore how dads can take better care of themselves. From simple things like sharing Brene Brown's tip to communicate with your partner how you feel to having some alone time.

Overcoming a Funk

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 24 Jul 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we sit down for a random dad chat. The main thing that comes up is around the feelings of what to do when in a funk. Should you embrace it? Should you work your way out of it? If so how?

No Routine = Bad Parent?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Sun, 02 Jul 2023 23:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore whether routine is something that can help you as a parent. Does it make you a bad parent if you don't stick to a routine?

The Inequalities that Dads Face

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the inequalities that face fathers in the UK. We discuss how maternity and paternity rules in this country need to be changed so fathers can be more present in the up bringing of their children.

Best Things About Being A Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 12 Jun 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore what are the best things about being a dad.

Different Parenting Styles. When to Back Eachother over Kid Stuff.

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 08 May 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go into some Random Dad Chat. This includes all sorts of things from parenting styles and when to back each other as parents to Neil actually booking himself onto an Ultra Marathon like he said he would.

How to Stay Fit and Healthy as a New Dad.

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 01 May 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, Gordon is joined by Adam Boyd-Brown, the parent health coach. He works as a Personal Trainer coaching mums and dads to be better, healthier, stronger versions of themselves. We explore tips and tricks on how he has used to stay fit and healthy whilst becoming a new dad at the same time.

How to Find Work-Life Balance as a New Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 17 Apr 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore how to find a work-life balance as a new dad. What are things you can do to juggle time with family, time at work and time with friends?

Have we achieved any of our 2023 Goals? Q1 Review

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go over how we've got on with our goals for 2023. Q1 is done and we have been reminded of what we have and haven't achieved this year so far.

AI - Are our kids doomed?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 27 Mar 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the effect Ai will have on our kids and their job prospects. Talking about the recent advancements of Chat GPT and also Mo Gawdats book on Scary Smart.

We Try to Talk about Motivation but.....

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 23 Jan 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode we try to talk about motivation and disipline but I think we might have to save that one for another time because apparently it's car stealing season in London. Gordon had his car stolen last week so we delve in to that. If you end up getting to the end you've done well LOL.

Did We Fail at Achieving our 2022 Goals? Lessons Learned

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 02 Jan 2023 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore how the goals we set in episode one have gone. From Neil getting close to hitting 1000 miles in a year to Gordon again moaning about the cost and time of his house renovations lol.

E54 Highlights of 2022

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 26 Dec 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore 2022 and go through a few of our highlights. From time with family to Gordon's first year with Olivia his daughter. Lots of highs and some lows but we've both had a great year especially given we have managed a whole year of podcasting.

E51 Xmas as a First Time Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 05 Dec 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore the lead-up to Xmas this year. How the current financial markets are influencing our decisions but also how we navigate the presents thing. We also get into memories of what we experienced as kids.

E42 How to Set Your Priorities as a Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore how we set out our priorities.

E39 What Does Our Retirement Look Like

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we discuss what our retirement looks like. What do we dream about it and what are we practically doing to get there? We also discuss a number of other aspects of dad life with Olivia taking her first steps and Neil managing to party until 1 am.

E33 Losing A Job As A New Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 01 Aug 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we discuss Neils journey losing his job in 2013 after the oil crash in Aberdeen. From having 30-days to figure out what he was going to do to what it feels like being a dad and facing this kind of adversity.

E32 What's our Purpose

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 25 Jul 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we explore what we think our current purpose is, how we've defined it and what we are doing to work toward it. We also try to help understand how purpose has changed throughout our lives from unencumbered 20 somethings to now dads.

E28 Random Dad Chat #2 - Does A Father Have Equal Rights?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 27 Jun 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we catch up after taking a week off podcasting. This one is in person for a change so we cover all kinds of topics from fathers rights to is there a God.

E27 Switching off and keeping fit as a Dad: tips to unwind

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 20 Jun 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we run through a few tips and tricks to help dads stay fit, and healthy and solutions to switching off from a hectic life. We cover everything from time auditing, nap times and how to destress.

E26 Birth Stories from a Dads Perspective part 2

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 13 Jun 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we delve into part 2 of the birth stories from a dad's perspective. We go into Neil having his second round in a birthing suite. This time with twins on the way. I try to delve into things a little deeper and expand on some of what we went through in part 1.

E24 What is Happiness from a Dads Perspective

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 30 May 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we talk all about what makes us happy and how we define it. From our own childhood memories to some of our recent happiest moments. This one was recorded in person outside Tower Bridge. This hopefully will inspire a number of other in-person episodes in the future.

E22 First 6 months as a Dad

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 16 May 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go through the first 6-months of becoming a dad. From how things change from a relationship perspective, the cost of getting going on the dad's life journey and a few thoughts on Neil going from 1 to 3 in a very abrupt space.

E21 Private School, Worries and Over Working Questions with Gordon

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 09 May 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, Neil asks me blind questions about all things being a dad, how I have dealt with certain situations and if I have any habit or belief that has changed me in the last 5yrs. A great episode that I really enjoyed. Already looking forward to my opportunity to interview Neil.

E20 From Kitchen Porters to Six Figure Salary Jobs we've had

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 02 May 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we discuss the jobs we've had over the years. From working as kitchen porters, public vs private sector and dramatically changing careers.

E16 - Who Inspires Us and Why

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 04 Apr 2022 05:45:00 GMT

We delve into who inspires us from the Iron Cowboy to the soup making charity workers. Next time you think about getting inspiration from someone - look around you instead of the celebrity or famous person.

E15 - Things we want to do but haven't

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 28 Mar 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go through things that we haven't done but want to. From getting tattoos to Neil looking at becoming an Ironman. I guess we are potentially committed to fulfilling these.....

E14 - Living on a Farm to City Life. Good or Bad?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we decide to discuss where we grew up. This was a 60-acre farm in the middle of rural Aberdeenshire. From drunken late-night runs home to learning the cycle of life and death on a farm.

E11 - Ironman Triathlon and Bodybuilding Drugs with Ollie Carson

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 06:45:00 GMT

Another Greenhorn Fitness Podcast from the unpublished archives. We go into all sorts of topics from Ollie's physique pursuits, losing his muscle training for an Ironman and then regaining it whilst experimenting with bodybuilding drugs. I hope you enjoy the journey through Ollies fitness persuits.

E8 - Life advice from a 30 year old

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 28 Feb 2022 06:45:00 GMT

What would we have done differently when we were 20? What are the things that help us now? In this episode, we go through various ideas and lessons that we would change when we were 20 and the things we do now to help improve our lives.

E7 - Is marriage right for everyone?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 21 Feb 2022 06:45:00 GMT

Tim Ferris Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/096TX9Cov1jjI1jxureble?si=wavXlrrAQnWej9OXR7ahag

E6 - Positives and Negatives of Social Media

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 14 Feb 2022 06:45:00 GMT

We take the behemoth that is social media. Talking through how they affect us and our families. Neils thoughts on how he's going to tackle social media with a 6yr old and how Gordon has built his business off that back everything to do with social media.

We Have Lots To Update You On

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 17 Jun 2024 05:45:00 GMT

Taking time for date nights and special outings with loved ones is important for maintaining relationships.
Setting fitness goals and consistently working towards them can lead to improved health and well-being.
It's normal to have doubts and question goals, but it's important to push through and stay committed.
Focusing on personal growth and self-care can have a positive impact on overall happiness and fulfillment. Incorporating stretching into your routine, even while watching TV, can improve flexibility and overall well-being.
When it comes to finances, it's important to prioritize and make choices based on what is most important to you and your family.
Setting goals and regularly reviewing your progress can help you stay on track and make necessary adjustments.
Building a team and delegating tasks can help reduce stress and increase productivity in business.
Balancing work and personal life is essential for overall happiness and well-being.

Reconnecting and Highest Download Day

02:15Reviewing Personal Highlights

09:32Reviewing Goals for the Year

21:24Improving Flexibility and Reducing Injury Risk

23:38Prioritizing Family Holidays Over Big Celebrations

29:25Building a Team and Delegating Tasks in Business

39:58Balancing Work and Personal Life for Happiness and Well-being

Balancing Acts: Work-Life Integration in Modern Parenthood

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 04 Mar 2024 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, Gordon and Neil catch up on their recent activities. Neil shares his experience celebrating his 10th anniversary and attending a Danish wedding, discussing the unique traditions involved. Gordon talks about his ongoing illness and reflects on the work-life balance and the choices parents face. They both discuss the challenges of parenting as their children grow older and gain independence, including concerns about academic readiness and preparing for secondary school. They also reflect on the evolving roles of parents as their children become more self-sufficient. The conversation explores the shifting roles and independence that come with parenthood, as well as the future of work and the motivation to return to work. It delves into the challenges of maintaining skills and career progression, and the fear and confidence issues that can arise. The impact of AI and technology on various industries is discussed, along with the need for businesses to adapt and innovate. The conversation also touches on the pillars of business success and the importance of tech literacy in the modern world.

E31 Travelling with a baby tips to survive

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 18 Jul 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we go through the ins and outs of how we travel with our family. From things we've bought to how to entertain them on a long flight.

Random Dad Chat

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 17 Jan 2024 06:45:00 GMT

Managing household responsibilities and dividing tasks can help create a balanced and efficient home life.
Setting goals and celebrating achievements in personal fitness journeys can provide motivation and a sense of accomplishment.
Planning and meal prepping can make daily life easier and more organized.
Having the freedom to travel and attend important events is a benefit of self-employment.
Open communication and flexibility are key in maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Finding fulfillment in work is important, but financial stability and the ability to meet basic needs are also crucial.
Reducing expenses and saving money can provide a safety net during challenging times.
Personal development and continuous learning are key to success in various areas of life.
Setting goals and taking action are essential for personal growth and achievement.
Training for an ultra marathon requires dedication, mental and physical preparation, and a willingness to push oneself beyond comfort zones.

Our Goals for 2024

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 08 Jan 2024 06:45:00 GMT

In this conversation, Neil recaps his Christmas holiday and shares his goals for 2024. He discusses feeling overwhelmed and the need for rest, as well as the importance of taking interventions in relationships. Neil also talks about the significance of his upcoming 10th anniversary and the desire to go on a big family holiday. He emphasises the need to disconnect from technology and focus on personal growth, including running an ultramarathon and increasing mobility. Neil shares his business and financial goals, as well as the value of mentorship. Takeaways - Take time to rest and prioritise self-care when feeling overwhelmed. - Plan special experiences and interventions to keep relationships strong. - Set goals for personal growth, such as running an ultramarathon or increasing mobility. - Focus on business and financial goals, and seek mentorship for guidance and support.

How To Find Motivation

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 18 Dec 2023 06:45:00 GMT

Christmas preparations can involve nativity plays, clear-outs, and shopping for gifts.
Setting fitness goals, such as running, can inspire others and promote a healthier lifestyle.
The high street retail industry is facing challenges and may need to adapt to more personalized and community-based experiences.
Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk are prominent figures in the business world, with different approaches to public visibility.
Wealth and rich lists continue to grow, with billionaires accumulating vast amounts of money.
Inflation and money printing have had significant impacts on the economy.
Podcasts featuring influential individuals, such as Bill Gates, provide insights into their lives and perspectives. The internet and social media have accelerated the spread of messages, both positive and negative.
Online shopping offers convenience and the ability to compare prices, but it can also lead to impulsive buying and hidden costs.
Motivation and discipline are personal traits that vary from individual to individual.
There is no secret formula for finding motivation; it often comes down to simply taking action.
Exercise can have numerous physical and mental health benefits.
Fred Again, a musician with a classical background, has gained popularity for his unique approach to music.

00:00Introduction and Personal Updates

13:11Nativity Plays and Christmas Preparations

18:04Running and Fitness Goals

23:42Christmas Shopping and High Street Retail

25:22Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk

30:21Wealth and Rich List

31:32Inflation and Money Printing

31:49Bill Gates Podcast

32:10Spreading of Messages and Conspiracy Theories

33:08The Power of the Internet and Social Media

33:52Online Shopping and Comparison

35:14Motivation and Discipline

36:40The Myth of Finding Motivation

37:26The Benefits of Exercise

38:25The Quirky Background of Fred Again

41:56Closing Remarks

Gordon Has Some News

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 25 Mar 2024 06:45:00 GMT

00:00Introduction and Catching Up

01:06Surprise Announcement

02:49Business Challenges and New Client

04:03Motivation to Grow the Business

05:36Recent Trip to Lisbon

06:09Upcoming Haircut

06:59Neil's Recent Weeks

07:06Lewis and Isla's School Progress

07:39Neil's London Quarterly and Steve Bartlett Live

12:57Takeaways from Steve Bartlett's Talk

20:05Discussion on Skill Stacking

25:02AI Podcasts and Analog Engagement

27:34Slowing down and creating connection

28:30The importance of human experience

29:07The impact of AI-generated content

30:33The potential of AI to improve efficiency

31:05The future of human connection

31:16The challenges of implementing AI in a traditional business

32:12Practical uses of AI in daily life

34:10The excitement of expecting a second child

36:31Preparing for the arrival of the second child

40:11The gender reveal and future plans

44:20The possibility of a family trip

46:10Government support for maternity leave

47:03Closing remarks and future plans for the podcast

E35 First Year as a Dad: A Review

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Sun, 14 Aug 2022 23:00:00 GMT

In this episode we explore the first year as a dad. Olivia (Gordon's daughter) has turned 1 so we go through how things have been. From intial shock through to stuff we've prioritised in the first year.

E13 - The life and business of online fitness coach Scott Baptie

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode myself and Neil interview fitness legend, Scott Baptie. We go into his journey from a blogger to now having over a decade of experience working in the online fitness coaching world. Scott goes over how he's built his business from a simple blog on the internet to now working with hundreds of clients all over the world. I hope you enjoy the exploration of Scott's business and his entrepreneurial pursuits.

E1 - 2021 Wins and 2022 Goals

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Sun, 09 Jan 2022 14:48:59 GMT

E29 Questions with Neil

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, I ask Neil loads of questions that he doesn't know are coming. We talk about how he wanted to move to Orkney and not tell me about it to his fondest childhood memories.

The Idea of Slow Productivity

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Wed, 26 Jun 2024 05:45:00 GMT

Slow productivity involves creating space and focus in our work to achieve better outcomes.
Our perception of productivity has shifted from physical output to digital communication.
Tools and strategies like blocking out time, reducing meetings, and prioritizing tasks can help improve productivity.
Self-awareness is crucial in managing our time and avoiding unnecessary work.
Technology can both help and hinder our productivity, and it's important to find a balance. Self-awareness is important in considering the impact of our actions on others.
The rise of AI raises questions about the future and the potential loss of self-awareness and basic skills.
Obsessing over quality and taking a slower approach can lead to better results.
There is a shift towards curated and artisanal products, moving away from fast fashion and mass production.
Certain activities like going to clubs and music festivals are declining in popularity.
There is a need for a more thoughtful and intentional approach to content creation.
Staying active and participating in races or physical challenges can be a motivating factor.
Patience and a long-term perspective are important in achieving success and creating meaningful work.

What happens in Vegas......

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 09 Oct 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this short and sweet episode we find out how Vegas went for Gordon. The fun experience of surprises and what Neils been up to.

Risky decisions, or were they?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 18 Sep 2023 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore some thoughts of the week alongside Neil asking Gordon questions about why he's made some of the choices he's made through the years.

E48 Giving to Charity: Status Game or Selfless Act for Movember

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 06:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we explore Neil's new moustache. We also discuss the idea of what it means to give to charity. Is it something that is stoking the status game or purely because people are selfless? Do we need to complete a challenge to ask people to donate to charity?

E37 Putting your kids on the Internet: should you?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 29 Aug 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode we discuss whether or not we are ok putting our kids out on the internet. From the risks to the benefits. We even stretch into the idea that kids in the future might end up sueing their parents.

10 Brutal Truths About Becoming a Father

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 24 Nov 2025 17:00:00 GMT

The hosts, Neil and Gordon, engage in a candid discussion about the realities of fatherhood, sharing personal anecdotes and insights. They explore the challenges of balancing time between work and family, the emotional and physical demands of parenting, and the impact on personal relationships. The conversation touches on the lack of support for fathers, the importance of maintaining friendships, and the humorous yet trying moments of raising children. Throughout, they emphasize the need for intentional time management and the importance of self-care amidst the chaos of parenting.

E19 Luke Johnson finding out about becoming a dad over WhatsApp

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 05:45:00 GMT

In this episode, we invite Luke Johson to the Podcast. He is a fitness entrepreneur and dad of three. We cover everything from what it was like finding out he's becoming a dad to running his business alongside being a dad to three children.

Ever feel too happy?

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we chat through all things related to dad life but focus on the topic of happiness and is it even possible to feel too happy?

The Importance of Mentors

Neil Greenhorn, Gordon Greenhorn — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 06:45:00 GMT

Express gratitude for listeners and reflect on podcast milestones.
Enjoy quality family time and appreciate the support of loved ones.
Consider the cost of living in different locations before making decisions.
Seek mentors who have achieved similar goals and can provide valuable insights.
Set long-term career goals and seek guidance to achieve them.
Create special traditions and experiences during the holiday season. The commercialization of holidays has led to excessive spending and extravagant experiences.
Prioritizing experiences over material possessions can lead to more meaningful and memorable moments.
Success can be redefined as providing the best life for one's children and creating lasting memories.
Planning and looking forward to family holidays can bring joy and anticipation.