Fashionably Late

Episode 127; Foreplay or Foulplay

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 18 May 2026 16:11:48 GMT

In this conversation we explore our experiences and misconceptions surrounding foreplay, highlighting the emotional and physical aspects of intimacy - as well as the differences we've personally experienced in heterosexual relationships vs. a queer relationship. We dive deeper into the journey of foreplay, the role of expectations, and the importance of communication and authenticity in relationships.

Is It Luck?

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 18 Mar 2024 15:26:23 GMT

“You two are so lucky”. “I wish I was lucky enough to find my person.” These are comments we hear/see often when it comes to our relationship and while, yes, luck might have played a small part of us stumbling into each other’s existence, putting the work into our relationship triumphs any luck there could be floating around. Tune is as we talk more openly about our relationship and how we keep it healthy and thriving, without depending on “luck”.

The 5 stages in relationships

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 15 Apr 2024 13:00:00 GMT

In today’s episode we chat about the 5 stages of relationships.  From the Honeymoon stage to the Power Struggle stage to the final stage; ONENESS (and everything in-between). We share the statistics of how far the average couple makes it and talk about our opinions surrounding hetero relationships vs. queer relationships regarding these stages, also diving into what stage we feel we are in, ourselves.   *These statistics are pulled from Kevin Pasco, Men’s Health Coach on TikTok. **Trigger Warning: SA

Everything always works out for me

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 07 Aug 2023 13:49:49 GMT

In this episode Ember finally spills the details surrounding her first career, that she starts today, and the scary yet exciting steps it took to get her to this point, we share some new ideas for our brand/Etsy shop and give details about some exciting podcasts we were guests on. Tune in to get caught up on updates and details surrounding our relationship… all in real time.

Tommy's POV (Unedited/Raw Recording)

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 12 Jun 2023 13:45:45 GMT

Ember and Kirby welcome Tommy (Kirby's co-parenting partner) to the show. Tommy shares his perspective on Kirby coming out and how he was able to get to the place he is today. Tommy dives into how he realized Ember was Kirby's girlfriend before they even realized. He opens up about how he grieved his relationship with Kirby. And shares how he is doing today with Ember visiting and staying at their house. **This episode was recorded live in person while Ember was visiting Kirby. The full episode is recorded on video and available on Patreon (on various tiers; early access $20, regular access $12 & $9)

Date Night

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 01 Jul 2024 17:44:23 GMT

It's date night, and it's our ONE MONTH anniversary of living together! Holy smokes! What a whirlwind! In this episode we catch you up on the newest deets, discuss a deeper softer part of how we love each other, touch on new found levels of relationships with our boys, give our opinions on PDA and show off our date night fits.

One Year Recap, PT. 2

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 12 Feb 2024 14:57:57 GMT

In this episode we go back to the very beginning of it all- 48 episodes ago- and reminisce. Remembering and talking through all the topics, guests, hurdles, growth, trips, etc. It’s been a wild year, and we cannot thank you enough for still being here and sticking with us on this journey. We cannot wait to see what the next year of episodes brings.

This or That

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 22 Sep 2025 19:55:37 GMT

Join us for a game of THIS or THAT, queer edition, obviously.

Take Two

Kirby & Ember — Tue, 16 Jul 2024 01:09:13 GMT

As the summer comes to an end, the kiddos will head back to Colorado soon so Em opens up about motherhood and her personal custody situation (we know, you're all dying to know)... we give some updates on where we are at with the house remodel and toss out the idea of a new app for lesbian hands.

What is life?

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 02 Dec 2024 21:13:51 GMT

We are... delusional. This week has been a whirlwind- but so worth it. After skipping last week's podcast we wanted to make sure we updated you on life's crazy adventures! Hang with us as we navigate the holidays, and learn how to create new family traditions while blending our family.

Crazy For You

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 06 May 2024 19:06:06 GMT

We've gone a little crazy before, right? In this episode we share some more vulnerable moments of "psycho" that we went through over the last wee. We dive into how we've been holding up through the long distance and things feeling so... chaotic! We share all the recent updates about the move and where we're at with the progress. Little over TWO WEEKS LEFT! Who's ready?!

Therapy, Communication & Boundaries

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 24 Jun 2024 15:52:09 GMT

In this episode we vented some of the more frustrating and emotional moments we have been experiencing, while sharing some of the more vulnerable details of how we have been navigating life in general right now, separately and together.

"We should connect."

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 12 Aug 2024 14:52:22 GMT

Em made it back to Wisconsin in one piece and after taking a week off we have lots to catch you all up on! Things are settling into place and now that summer break is coming to an end we are finding our new routine all over again. As soon as you get used to something, it changes, right?

Catching up with Heather

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 29 May 2023 15:49:56 GMT

Welcome back Heather, Our very first guest on Fashionably Late, as she returns to share all the exciting updates that have happened in the past few months. We discuss content strategy, exciting big moments, boss moves, mental health, and so much more!

Representing Queer Community

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 30 Jun 2025 16:30:50 GMT

Who's watching #theultimatum queer love edition? In this episode we talk about our personal opinions towards the show - and how it really misses the mark on healthy representation of queer love. Tune in to hear about our volunteering experience at the Pride Picnic as well and how we are striving to create a healthier example of what it's like being a part of the #lgbtcommunity.

Recovering

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 08 Dec 2025 21:24:10 GMT

We're back! 3 weeks post top surgery, and falling back into a normalcy. We've missed you all. As always, thanks for hangin' with us through all the adventures of life. Xo.

Pre-Top Surgery Q+A

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 06 Oct 2025 17:38:34 GMT

Time for an intimate Q+A! As Kirby's surgery date inches closer, so do the big feelings and a good healthy check-in can be so beneficial.

Compassion over Comprehension

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 06 Jan 2025 17:04:51 GMT

We made it through the holidays! In this episode we resurface conversation surrounding Em addressing Kirby as her "wife" and how that affects (or doesn't affect) their non-binary pronoun preferences. We chat about femininity vs. masculinity and where we categorize ourselves these days, and why! Also, the question remains... Are queer people just simply... more organized? Tell us your thoughts.

Bless & Release

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 19 Aug 2024 14:51:25 GMT

Lesbian TT drama, therapy, 2 year anniversaries, new ventures and so much more! Come catch up with us.

A compliment Sandwich

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 17 Jun 2024 15:52:56 GMT

In this episode Em and Kirby talk openly about the hardest struggle they've come across when it comes to living together vs. favorite parts of living together. A proper compliment sandwich, budget lesbian style.

Just Gotta Keep LIVIN'

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 29 Apr 2024 21:51:23 GMT

We’re… tired. But we’re still kickin’. In this episode we give recent updates and discuss what’s been going on behind the scenes. 3 weeks left! It’s crunch time, and it shows! Thanks for sticking with us. ❤️

Ember shares her personal updates

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 12:39:15 GMT

It's been a common question we receive over and over again... "Ember, what's going on with you and Jeff?!” In this episode Ember shares where she’s currently at in her relationship with Jeff and how she is finally reaching for her independence. We talk about struggles, fears and how to keep pushing forward despite all the uncertainty.

Jumping into long distance with Jacob

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 01 Jan 2024 23:36:26 GMT

Happy New Year! We brought a special guest on this episode- our top listener, favorite person, best friend... Kirby's brother Jacob. We talk about long distance relationships and how listening to our podcast has helped him in his current LD relationship, we discuss importance of boundaries, creating a queer community and all things surrounding healthy communication in relationships.

Long Distance vs Living Together

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 13 Jan 2025 23:15:46 GMT

In this episode we share what our top 3 favorite things about being long distance was vs. what our top 3 favorite things about living together are now. From "sexting" to "pexting" and more!

Making the Move Happen

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 11 Mar 2024 14:30:07 GMT

In this episode we answer a FAQ. “How are you two pulling off the move when there’s kids and exes involved?” We talk about the sacrifices we’re both making, and the fights we have fought to make this relocation actually happen.

The Turning Point

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 15:18:44 GMT

In this episode we go back to the start-ish of our journey together and talk more intimately about the details surrounding the turning pointing of officially coming out. How we knew that this was no longer a situation that we could pretend or pull a double life about- but instead just say our truth out loud to everyone.. mainly Jeff & Tommy, and what that looked like behind the scenes.

Finding your voice and setting healthy boundaries

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 16:22:25 GMT

Welcome to episode 42! With recent big events going down we thought it was fitting to open up and talk about how we have both found our voice more and more throughout our coming out journey- how we have allowed ourselves to set boundaries and taught ourselves and each other that healthy boundaries are not only helpful but sometimes necessary in our healing journey.

Interview with _heatherjae

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 20 Feb 2023 13:13:22 GMT

Content creator _heatherjae joins the show to share her story about coming out later in life.

A look back over the past year

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 14 Aug 2023 16:12:38 GMT

In this episode we take a look back at the one year mark of Ember's TikTok video that brought us together as friends and soon to be lovers. We share our feelings around dating for the first time as lesbians, and how we've evolved as being out in public as lesbians/queers.

LGBTQQIP2SAA

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 11 Nov 2024 15:27:27 GMT

In this episode we play a fun little game! Em quizzes Kirby on LGBTQIA+ terms. From slang words that were common "back-in-the-day" to terms currently being used by younger generations. Tune in to hear what Kirby's guesses were and learn with us!

Are we there yet?

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 29 Jul 2024 15:45:51 GMT

We're back in a hotel - in Colorado, showing up for you in real time, after a 20 hour drive across the country... and we are EXHAUSTED. Tune in to hear how the roadtrip went, how the kid are adjusting to the changes, and what our next moves are when it comes to our brand, our travels, and our relationship in general.

Jealousy in a LDR

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 21 Aug 2023 13:27:50 GMT

In this episode we answer a commonly asked question: how do we deal with jealousy in our relationship.. whether it’s TT videos/comments, FOMO, etc.. we open up and share how we feel towards it and how we navigate it in our LD relationship.

Staying Connected Through Long Distance

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 31 Jul 2023 15:08:54 GMT

Dating long distance can be very challenging when it comes to staying connected. In this episode we talk about the little things that make us feel extra close even through all the miles apart. As we strive to continue to grow and learn together we share a few things that help us stay in the moment. Tune in to hear our advice and experiences.

Understanding Attachment Styles

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 02 Sep 2024 23:55:12 GMT

In this episode we read about the three types of anxious attachment in lesbian relationships from the book Lesbian Love Addiction written by Lauren D. Costine. We discuss what type of attachment style we categorize ourselves and each other in our relationship and dive in to our strengths vs. our weaknesses.

Family Vacation Recap

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 24 Jul 2023 13:14:57 GMT

The recap you’ve all asked so much about! In this episode we share highlights from our first family vacation spent together in Wisconsin. We talk about the dynamic of being in “mom mode” together, how all the kids got along with each other, the fun and exciting places we explored, and so much more.

No Ultimatums, Just US.

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 07 Jul 2025 14:51:13 GMT

We finished The Queer Ultimatum - and we have opinions. Tune in to hear all the things we have to say regarding how our community has been represented and what we thought of the show. Plus! Find out about our newest exciting endeavors.. If you know us, you know we're always up to something. ;)

Interview with Kelly Campbell

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 14 Oct 2024 14:44:23 GMT

Kelly L. Campbell (they/them) a Trauma-Informed Leadership Coach to emerging and established leaders who want to live, lead, and love with more confidence and freedom. They also do one-on-one Sacred Trauma Healing with those who have experienced trauma in childhood or adulthood. Kelly writes about “The New TLC”—trauma, leadership, and consciousness—on Substack, for Entrepreneur, and in their book, HEAL TO LEAD: Revolutionizing Leadership through Trauma Healing (Wiley, 2024). Their vision is for more than half of humanity to heal its childhood trauma so that we may reimagine and rebuild the world together.

Find Kelly here:
https://klcampbell.com/

Kelly L. C. - Wiley | LinkedIn

https://www.instagram.com/kelly.l.campbell

Seasons of Dating

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 21 Oct 2024 16:23:36 GMT

In this episode we dig into the dynamics of dating while juggling life and parenthood, emphasizing the importance of spontaneity, creativity, and communication in maintaining a healthy relationship. Tune in to hear about our recent date nights, family traditions, etc as well as our take on societal expectations of relationships and the need for deeper, more meaningful compliments beyond physical attraction.

Pride Month + Summer Chaos

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 02 Jun 2025 16:08:55 GMT

The summer has arrived. Full force. & so has Pride month! In this episode we talk about the transition into having all of the kids under one roof again and the chaos that comes with it. We're tired... but we're pushin' through! Like we always do.

"I kissed a boy."

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 09 Jun 2025 14:33:16 GMT

In this conversation, Kirby and Ember discuss their experiences and thoughts surrounding Pride Month, personal updates, and the complexities of celebrity identities, particularly focusing on the recent news about Fletcher and Jojo Siwa. They explore themes of representation, the fluidity of sexuality, and the societal pressures surrounding public figures. The conversation emphasizes the importance of love and acceptance, while also critiquing the backlash faced by celebrities who navigate their identities in the public eye.

Unpacking Hidden Emotions

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 10 Nov 2025 20:45:51 GMT

We are just days away from Kirby getting top surgery and the emotions are HIGH. As the day approaches, feelings are coming to surface - and while this is an extremely exciting time, it is also a very vulnerable time. In this episode we both open up about where our heads are at and how we have learned new ways to lean on each other and love one another more deeply. Thank you for sticking with us through the journey. We love and appreciate every one of you.

Weekly Catch Up

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 16 Jun 2025 15:29:41 GMT

In this conversation, Kirby and Ember share their recent experiences, including rescuing baby bunnies, navigating a name change, and managing family dynamics with their children. They reflect on the significance of Father's Day, discuss the differences in how men and women approach planning for special occasions, and engage in political conversations about community involvement. The discussion also touches on personal boundaries in friendships and the importance of checking in on loved ones during challenging times.

Future Plans.

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 15 Sep 2025 16:29:39 GMT

Where do you see yourself in one year? Three years? Or 5? What type of picture would you paint for yourself and your relationship? In this episode we share all of our dreams, goals, aspirations and plans not only for ourselves but for and within our relationship as well because in the type of world we are living in - sometimes you have to find a happy to focus on to get you through. How many do you think we had in common? 🥹

Managing our Mental Health

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 21 Jul 2025 16:53:06 GMT

This will be our last episode for a while. Tune in to hear us discuss on ongoing struggles with mental health, the importance of communication in our relationship, and the complexities of blending our families. In this episode we share our personal insights on navigating chaos, the need for self-care, and the significance of recognizing when to take a break, emphasizing on vulnerability, growth, and the challenges of parenting while maintaining a healthy relationship.

LGBT...Dopplebanger

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 09 Dec 2024 16:31:34 GMT

In this episode we discuss current lesbian terms and what they mean. With labels always evolving, we describe what we would “label” each other and ourselves and what terms like “dopplebanger” means in the WLW world!

Paving New Parental Paths

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 14 Jul 2025 15:15:56 GMT

Being a parent is hard, no matter what. It's one of the hardest things someone will do- and summertime can be draining. As we are approaching the end of summer break we are here to check in and vent it out - all at once because there is no guide to being a parent, and sometimes we have to pave our own path of what works for us and our children.

All things in the Works

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 13:41:53 GMT

Kirby and Ember talk about new platforms, merchandise, and share all the exciting things in the works.

Updates + Anxiety

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 10 Feb 2025 18:44:32 GMT

Just a quick weekly update this time. We share a little about Em's birthday week, upcoming travel plans, divorce updates, etc. Thanks for always hangin' with us- and a special thank you to those of you that have been with us since episode 1- the real MVPs! We appreciate you all.

The Kennedy's

Kirby & Ember — Fri, 06 Feb 2026 14:58:43 GMT

Kirby and Ember return after a two-month hiatus to share their journey of engagement, elopement, and the challenges of planning a wedding. They discuss the intricacies of the proposal, the magical moments of their engagement, and the fun-filled bachelorette party in Vegas. The couple reflects on their wedding day, the importance of communication in their relationship, and their commitment to living authentically as a married couple. They also touch on their future plans and the evolution of their identities.

Overlooking the signs

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 13 Nov 2023 15:48:39 GMT

In this episode we answer a frequently asked question and jump into the topic of obvious signs that we should have picked up on, but never did. What were some things that screamed “YOU’RE NOT STRAIGHT” that we overlooked and how does it feel looking back now, realizing how it was always right there waiting for us to pick up on it.

End of The Marathon

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 01 Apr 2024 15:33:09 GMT

Just a short lil’ episode to catch you all up on why we have been so MIA- and some updates on exciting things to come. The end of LD is great, yes, but it comes with MANY hurdles and as always- we’re the open book that will tell the good, bad and everything in between throughout the process. Thanks for sticking with us friends.

All The Updates

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 04 Mar 2024 14:54:53 GMT

So many updates, friends! In this episode we fill you in on all the exciting (and time consuming) things that have been goin’ down behind closed doors. The move, the remodel, jobs, etc. There are so many changes happening and each little thing is inching us closer to the finish line. Buckle up, the LD marathon is finally coming to a close.

Just Checking In

Kirby & Ember — Tue, 21 Oct 2025 19:52:44 GMT

Join us for a quick catch-up as we share our weekend events with you and touch on some of the most recent things we have learned as not only a couple but as two mothers raising sons together as well.

Interview with Margy & Jen

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 30 Sep 2024 15:49:00 GMT

In this episode we spent some time chatting with Jen & Margy, a queer couple that came out late in life. We learn about how they met, how they have merged their lives and how coming out had/has an impact on their careers in education.

Journey Update

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 29 Jan 2024 15:21:19 GMT

In this episode we open up about the current struggles we are experiencing behind closed doors. As our marathon inches closer to an end things have been heating up and we have been under a lot of pressure. This last week there were some cracks and we broke just a little. We talk therapy, family/friend support and Kirby opens up more than ever allowing themselves to be vulnerable and raw. **Trigger warning; self harm, suicidal ideation, depression**

Interview with Ben V. Greene

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 08 Apr 2024 16:41:18 GMT

It’s been quite some time since we have welcomed a guest on the show- so we couldn’t be happier to say that we had the opportunity to interview an inspiring person and author and new friend, Ben V. Greene. As an openly transgender man Ben educates and advocates in Inclusion spaces through the transgender, LGBTQ+, religious, inter-generational and data analytics lenses. Ben’s book, “My Child is Trans- What now?”, is a joy-focused support guide for parents and loved ones of transgender youth will be available for purchase May 7th, 2024. We absolutely loved getting to know Ben and hearing more about all the wonderful things he is doing for our youth today.

Trigger Warning: Suicide and Mental Health

To learn more about Ben, follow his social platforms!

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pseudobro?_t=8lMQiN2dox5&_r=1

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pseudo.bro?igsh=YzdtaGV6bGI2Zjg1

Or visit his website for all the latest news and updates.
https://www.bgtranstalks.com/about

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End of the year updates + Travel Talk!

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 18 Dec 2023 14:42:00 GMT

Winding down after a long year- what an adventure it has been! Sharing our first year in real time with all of you and showing up every Monday has been a wild ride but we wouldn’t change a single thing! Tune in to hear all about our big trips & updates that we are looking forward to in 2024- it’s going to be the biggest and best year yet! We wish you all the happiest holidays and New Year!

Covid's impact on our coming out journey

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 04 Sep 2023 16:24:44 GMT

In this episode we talk about how The Covid Pandemic played a part in our coming out journey and how being quarantined helped us dig deeper into ourselves and understanding/processing some of the feelings we were having in 2020/2021 when we first started discovering our truths. Tune in as we discuss what that looked like for us at a time when TikTok was brand new and we didn’t even know each other existed.

Reconnecting. Reflecting. Re-Grounding.

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 08 Sep 2025 16:38:27 GMT

Allow us to re-introduce ourselves. HI! We're back and better than ever. The month of August was just what we needed to fuel us back up after reaching a point that we were running on "E". Spend some time with us as we catch you up on what we've been up to! From chasing waterfalls and crossing bridges... to an official top surgery DATE and even a visit from Em's mom... there are lots of things we are excited to share and we are so glad you're here.

Two Moms, One Merge

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 25 Mar 2024 14:41:44 GMT

Em opens up about her kids a little more and how they’re currently handling some of the bigger changes in their lives. We give current updates and talk about how as lesbians that came out after having children there are unseen hurdles we deal with, often, just like any other parent.

Mormonism to Lesbianism

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 13 May 2024 19:12:11 GMT

In this episode we meet Kaylee, who we found on TikTok after discovering her videos titled "Mormonism to Lesbianism", where she talks about what went down through the journey of coming out after marriage their marriage to a man. What that looked like for her, her religion and her relationships. It was an absolute delight having Kaylee on the show with us. To find more of her content follow them on TikTok!

https://https://www.tiktok.com/@kayleechat?_t=8mHy1QEratH&_r=1

Expanding and Growing Part 1

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 10 Jul 2023 12:46:22 GMT

In this episode Kirby & Ember talk all things GOALS & GROWTH (per request)! Everything from their future goals as a couple, to the changes they’ve experienced regarding their identity to their growth and goals in their own individual lives. Tune in as they open up about monumental moments throughout this journey and what they’re looking forward to in the days to come!

U-Haulin' with Courtney Part 2

Kirby & Ember — Fri, 19 May 2023 13:59:58 GMT

Join Kirby and Ember in part 2 of their interview with Courtney, where the conversation shifts from discussions surrounding Courtney's recent U-haul across the country to deeper conversation surrounding long distance itself. What that looked like for her and her girlfriend, how they made it work, what has changed for her since the big move and even what type of future plans they're looking forward to.

Happy HoliDAZE

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 30 Dec 2024 20:48:46 GMT

Holidays or HoliDAZE? Join us for our last little catch-you-up sesh of 2024.

Family and friends after coming out

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 22:34:51 GMT

In this episode we talk about the changes we have experienced within our inner circles whether it’s our close friends, distant relatives or someone in-between. We discuss how we deal with judgement or disagreements and even dive into Kirby’s first big family event since officially coming out, that they have chosen to show up to with Ember as their plus one and their feelings surrounding that big step.

Our Trip To Toledo

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 15:19:28 GMT

As most of you know- we spent the weekend in Toledo, OH, visiting Kirby’s family for their brother’s wedding! Ember met a TON of Kirby’s family on this trip, got to see their old stompin’ grounds, and much more! In this episode we open up about how that experience went for the two of us and how we were feeling in real time!

1st lesbian relationship

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 28 Aug 2023 14:31:37 GMT

In this episode we open up about our feelings surrounding being in our first lesbian relationship. We go into how long distance affects that for us and how our WLW relationship differs from our previous relationships with men. We also share the exciting news of our new Patreon ONLY "Kirby & Ember UnderCovers" subscription podcast where we dive deep into the sheets sharing very "adult" conversations about WLW relationships and experiences. Patreon can be found @ https://www.patreon.com/kirbyandem

Intimacy After Coming Out

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 12 May 2025 14:49:43 GMT

** APOLOGIES FOR THE SOUND DISRUPTIONS** Most importantly - In this episode, we share Kirby's biopsy results before diving into a discussion surrounding intimacy as a lesbian couple, and how it compares to our history of dating men. We discuss PDA, the honeymoon stage and so much more.

Unplugging in Evergreen

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 24 Apr 2023 12:32:04 GMT

Kirby heads to Colorado to visit Ember. They stay in the perfect Airbnb tucked away in the mountains. They share all the details about the weekend getaway, and how incredibly necessary it is to slow down and take time to relax and be in the moment.

Letting labels and identities BE.

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 23 Jun 2025 15:35:11 GMT

Can trans men be lesbians? That's the "hot" topic all over social right now, and today we openly discussed where we are at surrounding the topic. We talk about how labels can be helpful and hurtful at the same time, and how we continue to learn more and more as we make our way deeper into this community as late in life lesbians.

https://www.sheboyganpress.com/story/opinion/readers/2025/06/15/sheboygan-stories-for-pride-month-meet-kirby-ember/84132944007/

Evolving with EM

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 03 Jul 2023 16:26:14 GMT

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OUR 100th EPISODE!

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 17 Mar 2025 16:53:09 GMT

We did it! In a little over a year we put out 100 episodes. We have not only learned so much but we have grown even more. We've had the pleasure of meeting and hosting many talented intriguing people, friends and even family. Sharing our love story with you all has been a pleasure, and we look forward to the next 100 episodes and the growth that comes with them. Thank you for being here.

From Bi to Lesbian

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 02 Oct 2023 12:41:48 GMT

In this episode we speak on our transitions from identifying as bisexual for as long as we could remember into identifying as lesbians that no longer find themselves attracted to men. We talk about staying true to ourselves despite the noises and opinions around us & offer some advice to people who may be new to being openly out. Hope you enjoy. Okay biiiii.

The Process of Blending

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 10 Jun 2024 16:15:00 GMT

This is a big moment! This is our first episode recorded and uploaded to YouTube! That's exciting, but also, bear with us as we figure out and fine tune the specs when it comes to audio/video. In the meantime- we spend this episode catching you all up on the process of blending our families and some of the more intimate details of what that looks like for us. Thanks for stickin' with us through our journey- we're excited to continue growing together in all the ways.

Disconnect & Reconnect

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 14 Apr 2025 17:15:17 GMT

In this episode we share all the details of our weekend getaway where we shut down and disconnected from all socials. We intentionally focused on each other, our individual selves, our relationship and found our peace again. We talk about how important it is for couples to step away from the chaos of everyday life and give one another their undivided attention and love.

WE DID IT

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 03 Jun 2024 13:41:28 GMT

Holy. CRAP! We did it. Em's relocation across the country has officially HAPPENED and we are all under one roof- doing the damn thing! What a whirlwind. We are exhausted, and have a million things going in a hundred different directions but most of all- we are thankful. So incredibly thankful- for each other, for our kids, for our supporters and friends, for our home, our family, the love we share in general, and so much more. In the words of Kirby themselves - "Smile- Life is Good." <3

Our first roadtrip

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 16:50:26 GMT

We went on a roadtrip vacation! From Chicago, to Nashville to Surfside Beach & back! In this episode we talk all about roadtripping together, sharing advice on things we learned along the way, and highlighting all of the most exciting parts of our vacation! We even gave the inside scoop on what it's like to shower at a Pilot Truck Stop! Let the good times roll!

Kirby & Ember go to PrideFest

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 05 Jun 2023 13:09:48 GMT

Join Kirby and Ember while they talk about their very first PrideFest experience together. Out and open and feeling free with all the fun that Milwaukee Pridefest has to offer. Get the latest on the next BIG podcast guest recording. And Kirby prepares for her trip to Colorado Springs this week to finally meet Embers kids, friends and some family members.

Hangin' with Brighid

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 26 Aug 2024 13:23:06 GMT

Brighid! She's more than just a friend.. she's family, as well as one of our biggest supporters and top listeners! In this episode we play a fun game where Brighid asks Kirby & Em questions about their relationship and each other. We recap the weekend we had together (Em and B met for the first time!) including karaoke and good laughs! Such a fun episode! We love you, Brighid!

Supporting your partner in their coming out journey

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 27 Nov 2023 20:36:14 GMT

Welcome to our 40th episode! WOW! It’s been quite the year, friends. Today we chat about how we support each other in our coming out journey, both hand in hand and while walking our own paths. We share how as we both go through our own evolutions we continue to find new ways to show each other love & support.

Interview with Amelia

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 13 Mar 2023 13:08:04 GMT

Kirby and Ember welcome Amelia to the show to discuss the dynamics of coming out late in life while still living with your (ex) partner aka baby daddy, co-pilot, roommate, best friend. Learn new ways to communicate your coming out journey in a safe space and what mistakes not to make. Amelia is a wealth of information and you are guaranteed to laugh at her witty personality. Amelia can be found on TikTok @ameliadashrose

All Things Long Distance

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 13 Feb 2023 03:30:32 GMT

Kirby and Ember talk about their long distance relationship. Both sharing new ways to feel closer when they're miles apart. Listen to them dive deeper to some of the harder parts and how they are juggling the lows mixed with the highs.

All The Feels

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 26 Jun 2023 18:05:02 GMT

In this episode we talk more about PRIDE and what that was like in Colorado. How our LGBTQ+ community is becoming our family and support system. What our current situations look like with our partners and how we continue to push forward with all the emotions and feelings of coming out late, taking on a long distance relationship and all the things that are happening everyday on our journey.

Ember Returns to Wisco

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 22 May 2023 22:22:09 GMT

Ember visits Kirby again in Wisconsin. Four full days together making memories, creating content, podcasting, going live, and way too many belly laughs to count. Ember shares her thoughts after meeting Kirby's older boys. Kirby talks about how it feels being completely open with coming out and having a girlfriend around her family. Exciting details about their next trip for a meet & greet at PRIDEFEST June 2nd and 3rd in Milwaukee- don't miss the chance to meet them in person!

Straight vs Lesbian Relationships

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 08 May 2023 12:42:31 GMT

Ember makes a solid list of straight vs lesbian relationship topics and we dive into our discoveries on the levels of gayness that we ignored throughout our life. We talk about things we now realize after coming out and really appreciate our awareness and openness of being full-blown women loving women. If you might be questioning your level of gayness this episode might help reveal some major turning points.

Summer Lovin'

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 22 Jul 2024 14:43:56 GMT

We are down to our last week of summer break, and the next three weeks are going to be chaotic to the least. Tune in to hear whats coming next for us- and the kids. Life is wild. Keep riding the wave- and keep loving unconditionally.

Intimacy after Trauma

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 09 Oct 2023 13:03:17 GMT

In this episode we talk all things intimacy after trauma, a request that we got through instagram! We instantly knew that this would be a therapeutic and informative topic! Tune is as we open up about how we navigate healthy conversation, boundaries and communication as a WLW couple with past trauma.

Long Distance Realizations

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 09 Sep 2024 20:08:10 GMT

Em is finally back home and being away from each other this past weekend brought some old feelings to surface. Tune in to hear about some of the realizations we both had while apart from each other and why we thrive so much when together. We also spill all the deets surrounding Em's new exercise program and her plan to get Kirby yolked!

ENM Chats with Leah

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 16 Oct 2023 13:55:48 GMT

In this episode we chat with a good friend of ours, Leah, who shares their insight and experience surrounding ENM, ethical non-monogamy. They teach us lots of things we didn’t know and share their experience as to how they realized they prefer it over monogamous relationships. Tune in to hear our reactions, questions, insight & more surrounding this style of relationship choice that is becoming more and more common!

Nonbinary Lesbianism Part 1

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 30 Oct 2023 15:14:18 GMT

In this episode we dive into non-binary talk. Kirby opens up about where it all started for them. Ember asks unscripted questions, allowing Kirby to open up about what their journey has looked like - the reactions, feelings and changes surrounding it - even discussing how the conversation came up between the two of them. (Stay tuned for Pt. 2 next Monday!)

Deep Convos with Leo

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 15 Jan 2024 21:35:14 GMT

Part 2: Today we chat with a very special friend of ours- Leo! A queer, non-binary spiritual guru of all things- and trust us when we say, the conversation never runs less than DEEP with them. Grateful to have such a solid and educational conversation with this unique and beautiful human.

A Game of Topics

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 22 Jan 2024 13:56:43 GMT

While we were together for our latest trip we played a little game and thought it would be fun to share it with you all- A game of topics. From admitting our fears, places we want to go, sharing some top bucket list items, etc. the conversation ranges from adoption to black widows to the northern lights.. it’s really just never boring with us, friends.

The Final Countdown

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 20 May 2024 18:33:30 GMT

We are in THE FINAL COUNTDOWN... and boy do we feel it. There are exactly 7 days until we drive across the country and Em officially relocates. The excitement, anxiety, stress, and so much more is overflowing but it's pretty cool that we're ridin' the wave WE created and doin' BIG things, together. This week's episode is a catch-up on all the details surrounding our beautifully blended and wild little love story!

Coming Out Part 1 - "How long have you known"

Kirby & Ember — Sun, 29 Jan 2023 17:24:10 GMT

Answering questions from a follower on Instagram. "How long have you known and how long did it take you to come you? Are you going to continue the long term relationship, or is someone planning a move soon? And the question that everyone wants to know, where's the husband?! If he's still in the picture will there be a throuple type situation? Yeah probably not, I wouldn't share her either!"

Lesbian Couples Institute Part 2

Kirby & Ember — Tue, 02 May 2023 12:39:54 GMT

In part two we discuss topics on the importance of community in the LGBTQ+ space. We learn more about how Dr. Lynda started her practice working strictly with lesbian couples. Both Dr. Lynda and Lisa share what types of therapy they offer and how to work towards goals of having a healthy safe lesbian relationship. Dr. Lynda Spann is the founder of Lesbian Couples Institute, located in Denver, Colorado. Both Dr. Lynda and her wife Lisa offer personal in person therapy and online coaching to lesbian couples by a lesbian couple. You can find them on TikTok @LesbianCouplesInstitute.

Ember visits Kirby in Wisconsin

Kirby & Ember — Tue, 07 Mar 2023 12:42:52 GMT

Ember visits Kirby at her home in Wisconsin. This was a BIG step meeting Kirby's partner, Tommy and other members of Kirby's family. Breaking free from the feeling of hiding in hotel rooms and finally blending our relationship with the people that mean the most to us. Listen as they share raw feelings, key learnings, and upcoming plans for next visits.

Nonbinary Lesbianism Part 2

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 06 Nov 2023 14:43:52 GMT

Part 2: In this episode we dive into non-binary talk. Kirby opens up about where it all started for them. Ember asks unscripted questions, allowing Kirby to open up about what their journey has looked like - the reactions, feelings and changes surrounding it - even discussing how the conversation came up between the two of them.

One Year Recap, PT. 1

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 05 Feb 2024 13:57:41 GMT

Just Ask Us

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 16 Sep 2024 15:57:29 GMT

There were lots of questions flood in through TikTok surrounding coming out late in life- so we spent an episode answering those questions! From how we came out to our ex-partners, to the status of our divorces and more. If you have questions of your own DM us on Instagram @ fashionably_late_lesbians . We appreciate each and every one of you! Oh, and happy 100k on TT to Kirby!

Navigating Politics Within Family Dynamics

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 03 Feb 2025 16:32:46 GMT

In this episode we had the opportunity to sit down with two of our closest friends, Ledgin and Blaine, and talk about how we have approached politics within family dynamics. As members of the LGBTQIA+ community it can be difficult when someone you love supports a movement that does not support YOU and your existence - learning how to navigate that looks different for each individual-so today we share what has worked for us and offer advice from our own personal experiences.

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Highs + Lows

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 05 May 2025 15:22:44 GMT

We're burnt out, to say the least, but wanted to take the time to share some updates surrounding Kirby's current health updates, the importance of using our voices in the healthcare system and the need for open communication throughout the journey. We share our plans for a special (and much needed) getaway, other upcoming summer adventures, and overall, the challenges of navigating life's emotional rollercoaster while staying positive and riding the wave.

Top Surgery Updates + Discussions

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 03 Mar 2025 17:04:50 GMT

In this episode Kirby gets more vulnerable and opens up about their journey into top surgery, mental health and how social perceptions of body choices have affected them directly. We discuss the importance of boundaries when navigating big life decisions and how crucial it is to have a support system to lean on while consistently quieting the noise around us.

The Process

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 20 Mar 2023 13:18:27 GMT

Kirby and Ember share what's been going on this past week in their world of coming out. Listen as they share raw feelings that are not always talked about on TikTok with topics like "how to start the conversation with your partner" while learning to chase your own happiness and be unapologetic about it.

Back To Life

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 31 Mar 2025 14:50:42 GMT

Back on the grind of normalcy over here after a long spring break with the fam bam - and we're here to share all the updates with you! From the highlights, to the struggles, and everything in between. With Kirby's top surgery consultation right around the corner we touch on their excitement and feelings surrounding the next steps regarding that part of their journey. Feels good to be back, connecting with all of you again. As always, thank you for being here.

Coffee chats & catch ups

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 23 Oct 2023 15:31:15 GMT

Tune is to our Sunday morning coffee chat as we catch up on the latest news and share some of the newest changes we‘ve been going through in our own separate lives & life together.

Diving Deep with Dylan Part 1

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 12:45:42 GMT

Kirby and Ember welcome Dylan to the show. Dylan brings a level of comfort and safeness as we dive deeper into the layers of coming out as late in life lesbians. We discuss topics about our family members reactions and support, and how we adapt to our ever changing world.

Plot Twist

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 21 Apr 2025 16:06:26 GMT

In this conversation, we discuss the challenges of balancing mental health, learning how to let thoughts and feelings float by without holding onto them, and the importance of knowing the difference between the end of the road and a bump in the road. We share the most recent update on Kirby's top surgery, and dive into the feelings that have come to surface as the journey continues to unfolds.

Alone Time vs Togetherness

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 16:33:53 GMT

Do you and your partner share a friend group? Do you sleep next to them at night? Do you spend 100% of your time together or do you each prefer alone time? These are things that we dive into in this episode and share our outlook on the subject. What works for us vs. what doesn't and what we have learned in our relationship about not only ourselves but each other and how we work together as a unit.

Top Surgery Q&A

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 07 Apr 2025 15:51:35 GMT

In this episode we discuss Kirby's journey towards top surgery, including the emotional preparation leading up to the consultation, the connection with the surgeon, and the impact of the surgery. We discuss the feelings of nervousness, research, and the importance of documenting the process. Listen in as we explore the emotional and physical journey surrounding top surgery, discussing the importance of body confidence, the role of support from friends and family, underlying fears, and the more intimate dynamics of our relationship.

Mental Health + Family Dynamics

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 24 Feb 2025 15:47:20 GMT

We’rrrrre back! After taking a week off for mental health reasons, we are back! In this episode we talk about Em’s trip back to Colorado to see the kids - and share some breakthrough moments between her and her family. We talk about Kirby’s plans for top surgery and even share their new name now that their divorce is final! Lots of big updates in this episode! Definitely one you do not want to miss!

Lesbian Couples Institute Part 1

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 01 May 2023 14:11:58 GMT

Dr. Lynda Spann and Lisa Yaeger join the show to discuss real life lesbian couples topics. In this episode we talk about topics like; is lesbian bed death a real thing, 3-5 Key habits to help lesbian couples keep their relationship growing, and much more. Dr. Lynda Spann is the founder of Lesbian Couples Institute, located in Denver, Colorado. Both Dr. Lynda and her wife Lisa offer personal in person therapy and online coaching to lesbian couples by a lesbian couple.

Power in Numbers

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 27 Jan 2025 17:01:57 GMT

In this episode we welcome Lennox (formerly known as Leo) back to the show to discuss the importance of community, visibility, resistance and education at this time of uncertainty. We talk about how we as a community can get "loud" and feel seen while also remembering that our safety and mental health is important, too - and brainstorm some ideas as to how we are going to come together and create power in numbers with and without social media's assistance.

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Trans Talk with Blaine

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 18 Sep 2023 12:56:32 GMT

What better way to go to roll into our 30th episode than to welcome our first guest in quite some time! In this episode we were lucky enough to chat with TikTok creator, Blaine (@thenamesblaine), who took time to open up to us about transitioning later in life and what that journey looked like and still looks like for him. How it affected his relationships, public interactions, etc. We chat non-binary, binders, labels, how to deal with others’ opinions and so much more.

HUMANKIND SWIMWEAR

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 27 Mar 2023 13:30:21 GMT

Meet Grace, community manager for HumanKind Swimwear, a gender-inclusive brand that is designed with every body in mind. Grace shares what coming out looked like in life, how Humankind has changed their life and how others can feel comfortable and confident on their queer journey, no matter the timeline.

What's next?

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 20 Jan 2025 17:11:20 GMT

Anyone else have whiplash? Tune into today's episode to hear our outlook on the TT "ban" and what steps we are taking to ensure that we are still offering a strong community and support system for our friends and followers regardless of what happens. We share our opinions on the matter and laugh off the small things because truth be told, on a day like today you have to find the silver lining if you can and let everything else roll off your back.

Embracing Change

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 10 Mar 2025 16:37:40 GMT

In this episode Em shares her updates about her new career opportunity and how she got to where she is today. We also share news about our upcoming family spring break vacation and the steps we took in order to create a safe and comfortable environment for ourselves and our kids during travel. Lastly, we talk about our new ventures into daily exercise and the goals we have set for ourselves, specifically Kirby's goals before their top surgery.

Your Journey is Your Journey

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 28 Apr 2025 16:02:43 GMT

In this conversation, Kirby and Ember discuss personal updates, including health concerns and the complexities of relationships. They delve into themes of jealousy, bisexuality, and the challenges faced by individuals in straight relationships who identify as bisexual. The discussion highlights the importance of open communication and understanding in relationships, as well as the fluidity of identity and attraction. They encourage listeners to explore their own identities and have honest conversations with their partners.

U-Haulin' with Courtney Part 1

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 15 May 2023 12:52:21 GMT

Kirby and Ember welcome Courtney to the show & dive into the topic of lesbian u-hauling. Discussing how long distance only works for so long before someone considers packing up their bags and relocating. Courtney shares all her advice from living in her RV, making the big drive, adjusting to colder climates, and all the new exciting moments she can now share with her partner.

"If you move, you're gay!"

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 08 Jul 2024 14:54:45 GMT

Phew, what a weekend! We spent our time diving into more house projects and spending quality family time together! In this episode we give our weekly update but more importantly we discuss a deeper side of being openly "out" in public and how that has affected our children and our family as a blended unit.

FEM VS. MASC

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 23 Sep 2024 15:32:14 GMT

Let's chat gender roles, shall we? You wouldn't think that a WLW relationship would have "gender roles", but oddly enough- there has been enough discussion surrounding this topic that in this episode we talk about it! How do gender roles, or the lack thereof, play a part in our relationship vs our previous relationships? What do we think about the assumptions we see online regarding fem vs. masc "roles"? Does being nonbinary play a part in it? We answer all the questions and so much more!

Expanding and Growing Part 2

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 11:56:57 GMT

Tune into pt. 2 of episode 21 where Kirby & Ember talk all things GOALS & GROWTH (per request)! Everything from their future goals as a couple, to the changes they’ve experienced regarding their identity to their growth and goals in their own individual lives. Tune in as they open up about monumental moments throughout this journey and what they’re looking forward to in the days to come!

Ambiamory & more with Amanda Katherine

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 15:32:37 GMT

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Sunday Rambles

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 19 Feb 2024 14:00:00 GMT

In this episode we chat all about Em’s birthday celebration and the special things Kirby did to make it the best one yet. We give some recent updates regarding the big move & just simply “shoot the shit” on our last day together.

Deep Convos with Leo Part 1

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 08 Jan 2024 16:03:52 GMT

Today we chat with a very special friend of ours- Leo! A queer, non-binary spiritual guru of all things- and trust us when we say, the conversation never runs less than DEEP with them. Grateful to have such a solid and educational conversation with this unique and beautiful human. Stay tuned for Part 2.

Welcome to the Jungle

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 18 Nov 2024 20:22:11 GMT

Just a little catch up episode! These next couple weeks will be a whirlwind with the holidays and we are doing lots of things behind the scenes to get ready for it. Thanks for hangin’ out with us through yet another #fashionablylate Monday.

Cozy AF

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 28 Oct 2024 15:07:30 GMT

In this episode we step back a bit and just simply have some genuine chats, with a sprinkle of vents. We share some of our seasonal updates and re-discuss boundaries we have put into place moving into the holiday season. Em also shares some big news regarding what her future holds moving forward!

Election Week

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 04 Nov 2024 14:08:19 GMT

In this episode we discuss how election week approaching has affected us as individuals, as members of the LGBTQ+ community and as a WLW couple. We talk about the importance of beliefs, communication, independence and growth. Most importantly, we encourage each and every individual to go out and vote - have a voice and BE HEARD. We love you all and want to remind you - no matter what- take care of yourselves this week.

Coming Out

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 18:30:04 GMT

National #comingout day has come and gone and we are here to re-surface some of what we navigated when coming out. How did we go from husband to wife - who did we tell first? What was our biggest fear in saying it out loud? These are just a few of the things we touch on in this episode. No matter what stage of the process you’re in - keep going - and remember, coming out has no timeline.

Navigating Identity and Community

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 19 May 2025 15:26:21 GMT

In this engaging conversation, Kirby and Ember reflect on their journey over the past year, celebrating personal growth and the challenges they faced. They delve into a trending TikTok controversy involving a creator who shifted her identity from a lesbian to a religious perspective, sparking backlash from the LGBTQ+ community. The discussion explores themes of acceptance, personal journeys, and the complexities of identity, while emphasizing the importance of understanding and compassion in the face of differing beliefs. They conclude with reflections on their goals and aspirations for the future.

2024 Goals

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 04 Dec 2023 15:03:40 GMT

In this episode we talk all about our 2024 goals, both together and separately. How our lives will merge and what steps we will be taking to (hopefully) make that happen. We discuss Ember’s divorce date, travel plans, fitness goals, etc.

A Journey of Self Acceptance

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 29 Sep 2025 17:33:59 GMT

The idea of using our sexuality, as lesbians, for the male "gaze" is no longer something we can stand behind - and in this episode we talk about our "graduation" process through understanding that the only person we need acceptance from is ourselves. When you can truly live a life for you - and let go of society's expectations - you'll fall in love with yourself all over again.

Diving Deeper with Dylan Part 2

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 17 Apr 2023 13:28:31 GMT

We share our darker moments on pulling ourselves out of the harder parts of coming out. How we broke the traditional conditioning which allows us to feel completely comfortable in our own skin. Dylan shares her advice on how to dig deeper when searching for your truest identity while learning to love yourself.

Exploring Non-Binary Identity

Kirby & Ember — Mon, 07 Oct 2024 15:44:04 GMT

This week we delve into the complexities of identity, particularly around pronouns and non-binary experiences, emphasizing the importance of communication in relationships. We also touch on the fluidity of gender, the challenges of transitioning, and the significance of emotional connections in lesbian relationships.