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⏱ TIMECODES:

00:00 – Intro

03:00 – Growth, career, and the corporate world

10:00 – Emotional maturity & patience

15:00 – Fatherhood, repairing family relationships

20:00 – Dating today & unrealistic expectations

30:00 – Boundaries, self-worth, and confidence

40:00 – Modern relationship culture

50:00 – Why men pull back emotionally

01:00:00 – Final reflections

01:02:00 – Outro

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Episode #19
Kevin shares his thoughts and experience  on how in relationships it is so liberating to be understood for what isn't spoken but frustrating to have your words mistaken for something other than whats said.

• liberating intimacy
• understanding the unspoken 

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Episode #28
Child support has to be one of the most talked about topics in coparenting but also completely misunderstood. Kevin and Alicia shares 8 tips on that can give insight and clarity to most coparenting relationships 

• Child support 
• 4 marriage tips 
• Are you a babymama after marriage? 

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Episode #37
In most of our marriages we do things in the beginning that makes our spouse love and appreciate us but as time past do you feel like doing those same things. Well in this episode we had the ''Romance Queen'' give us some much needed perspective shift on marriage especially since she has been married for over 29 years.
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• School fees 
• Compromise with duties 
• Earn income credit

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Episode #30
Kevin and Alicia lets it all out and share their experience  with coparenting and blending their household. Kevin talks about the baby mama drama and the issues of boundaries.

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Episode #23
in this episode Kevin shares a personal conversation about men and their children.
Kevin tells his views of how kids aren't necessarily a fathers WHY or the reason why he gets up and grinds everyday and sometimes it must be much more personal than that for fathers.

• Fathers why 
• many men aren't there for their children

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Episode #22 
Should you model your prayer after Ciara? Alicia reads and dissect the viral post that Ciara posted. Kevin shares their marriage devotion and the mindset behind modeling other marriages.

• Prayer modeling 
• wanting someones else marriage 

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Episode #17
in this episode we talk about the insignificance of Fathers Day vs Mothers Day and Kevin tells his experience as  Coparent and how its been difficult to coparent during  these holidays. Alicia talks about stepparent holiday and assessing your parenting during the year

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Episode #13
Our special guest Minister Ernest James 
We dive into the results of what happens to women who have lived without the presence of a father in her life.

• Ernest talks about the solutions to women not having a male guidance into her life
• Alicia gives contrast between boys and girls dealing with the same  issue 

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In this episode Kevin talks about a deal breaker that he had before marriage. Alicia breaks down the most common deal breakers such as :

• cheating 
• abuse 
• lack of support

Kevin & Alicia highlight the unspoken expectations in marriage  like 

• sex 
• finance
• or physical attraction like weight ,

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Episode #6
In this episode Alicia and Kevin talk about families and marriages being exhausted during the pandemic and the challenges of parenting and teaching during elearning

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Episode #4 
Kevin outlines his reasons for getting married from a man’s perspective.
Alicia brings statistical facts regarding the reasons men get married. Which includes :

1. Emotional Security 
2. Financial 
3. Health nurturing 

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Episode #3 
Kevin & Alicia talk about the seven year itch in Marriage ....
Meaning -how do you know if you have reached a bench mark in your Marriage  and you feel like you want something or someone else ..
-Alicia illustrates a real life reality TV show to explain the good, bad and the ugly of individuals who actually decided to see if the grass was good on the other side with permission from their spouse.

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Episode #2
In this episode we ask the question that you can ask your spouse ...

• Why did we get married?
• What stood out to us ? Etc.

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Episode #1
This is the introduction of Kevin & Alicia Meeks 

• Blended family
• Issues in a newly blended families
• Newly-Weds tips

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Episode #24
In this episode Kevin & Alicia Meeks talk about the mental and emotional roller coaster that they endured during a pregnancy scare that turned out to be false alarm. 

• How children change a marriage 
• Getting resistance from the other parent
• will the current kids feel distant by having a possible newborn 

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Episode #26
As a spouse how would you feel knowing that an issue that you thought that your spouse ignored has had a deeper meaning and they were really being mindful of you but you perceived it as being rude. 

• Petty issue resolved
• dealing with high Emotional conflict
• how not think negative thoughts on top of negative thoughts

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Episode #8
In this episode Kevin and Alicia outlines a few tips and goals that families should have in the new year .

• Marriage declarations
• Dealing with adult children 

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Episode #18
Kevin & Alicia gives a few tips on how in their experience as a married couple there are a few habits that they continue often to have a happy marriage such as 

• Waking up early
• Constant communication 
• Setting time daily ,weekly , monthly to date etc

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Episode 7 
In this episode Alicia celebrates and congratulates her Madam soror on her historical win as the first woman Vice President. Kevin and Alicia also breaks down the family symbolism and” The black love”that was displayed on this day.

• Husbands supporting the wife and being ok with being in the shadows
• Kevin motivates single mothers 
• Wives feeling supported 

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Episode 15 
In this episode Kevin gives his views on why are we 50/50 in our marriage if everything we have is equally ours. Alicia shows the contrast between a strong hustling woman and a passive woman 

• Finance in marriage 
• Being born a go getter 
• Sharing responsibiliies

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Episode #36
We have  a special couple as guest ''The Kizers ". The Kizers shared their experiance  as a blended family and how they grew through the adversity of merging their separate lives into one. 

• What's your family mantra?
• Kids come second 
• Breaking bad habits in your relationship

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Episode #35
Environment is stronger than your will in most cases. In this episode Alicia and Kevin talk about having friends that cheat on their spouses and should you expose ,help distant yourself from those friends. 

• Liking social media pictures 
• being around cheating friends 

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Episode #34
Lavish gifts and trips around the country are always a good way to show your spouse that you care. But in this episode Alicia highlights some of the little things that she likes that Kevin does that means the most to her.

• Acts of service 
• Men get it wrong most times 
• Pride and self motivation 

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Episode#33
Can your spouse have friends of the opposite sex? Well in this episode Alicia returns with a very unique perspective and if you tune in Kevin was very stern in his position as a husband.But the truth is if there isn't any boundaries then it would really strain the marriage overall.

• Opposite sex friends  in marriage 
• Boundaries 
• Allowing your spouse space 

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Episode #21 
In this episode Kevin explains how he compromised in the beginning of the marriage by leaving his newly purchased home to me a new life with Alicia. Alicia outlines the importance of showing conflict resolution in front of the kids.

• Arguments in front of the kids 
• which house do we live in when we come together 
  • reality therapy of Coparents
  • meeting at the police station

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Episode #20
Alicia is adamant about not bringing up an unresolved  issue that hasn't been reveled prior to an argument Kevin disagrees ,he thinks all issues are fair game to discuss as long as they are relevant.

• relevant issues
• too late to bring it up
• observing other couples

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Episode #16
In this episode Alicia shares a hot topic from her Spoiled Wives Club. Kevin gives his male perspective on how disrespectful it is to date another mans ex  wife when you are friends with the person. Also Alicia talks about sowing division in someone else marriage with telling them to keep secrets from their spouse 

• keeping secrets from your spouse
• Porsha & Simon Scandal  

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Episode #12
this is our first official Podcast guest  LB -The Wife Coach
On this episode LB The Wife Coach shares intimate details of her process with dealing with the grief and the lost of her mother while still trying to be a wife and mother. Alicia relates to LB and gives her shocking new reality of not wanting to continue on with her day to day duty after the lost of  her mom. Kevin admits his weakness in assisting  through the grief process.

• Grief and the marriage impact 
• Communicating as a spouse your current feelings
• New relationship paradigm shift after grief

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Episode 11

In this episode Kevin shares his experience  as a coparent teenager and how the chart topping Gospel singer KIRK FRANKLIN has similar experiences as a father. Alicia dives deep into whats abuse as a parent and whats fair game as to how you communicate to your children.

• Was Kirk Franklin wrong ?
• Are you  entitled as a family member ?
• The differences of children lifestyles as parents evolve .

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Episode 10
Kevin and Alicia talks about the pressure of couples giving gifts on holidays especially on Valentines Day. 

• Is it a pressure for a couples to gift on this day?
• Is it a pressure for married couples years Into the marriage?
• Kevin gives Alicia options for a gift on Valentines Day

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Episode #5 
Our special guest : Amiyah & Cameron ( our oldest children)
In this episode we talk about 

• Blended family from the kids view 
• Challenges of blending the family

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Join us for the "Real Talk Relationship Brunch," where we dive into the realities of love and marriage! Hosted by Kevin and his wife, along with the Kizers, this live podcast recording features candid conversations on the challenges and triumphs of marriage. With around 70 guests, delicious food, exciting giveaways, and a dynamic Q&A session, we explore what it takes to build and maintain a strong relationship. Kevin also shares insights on the emotional wheel and thought diffusion, providing tools for emotional resilience in your relationship journey. Tune in for an inspiring and insightful conversation!

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In this conversation, Kevin and Cameron explore the complexities of family dynamics, personal growth, and the challenges of navigating life as young adults. They discuss the impact of their upbringing, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the necessity of self-discovery and reflection. Their experiences highlight the significance of overcoming adversity and the value of seeking help when needed. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the importance of self-awareness, the challenges of navigating relationships, and the significance of therapy in personal growth. They discuss the impact of trauma, the necessity of honest communication, and the complexities of family dynamics. The dialogue emphasizes the journey of understanding oneself and the importance of being intentional in relationships and personal development. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, communication, and understanding in fostering healthy connections. They discuss the challenges of modern dating, including insecurities and the impact of past relationships on new ones. The dialogue highlights the necessity of independence and personal growth, while also addressing the expectations and realities of romantic partnerships.

00:00 Family Dynamics: Glorified Strangers
00:46 Reflections on Growth and Accomplishments
02:59 Navigating Life at 25: A Blessing and a Challenge
05:58 Overcoming Adversity: A Personal Journey
09:50 The Impact of Childhood on Identity
14:05 Understanding Parental Relationships
18:03 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
21:59 Suffering in Silence: The Need for Help
25:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery
29:48 Finding Fulfillment and Accountability
38:34 The Importance of Speaking Up
41:00 Navigating Sensitivity and Awareness
43:03 The Journey of Self-Discovery
46:21 Seeking Truth in Relationships
49:41 Understanding Family Dynamics
52:58 The Challenge of Honesty
56:00 The Process of Pruning Relationships
01:00:53 Self-Exploration and Personal Growth
01:11:48 Understanding Self in Relationships
01:14:34 The Importance of Communication
01:17:54 Navigating Independence and Togetherness
01:20:40 Insecurities and Trust in Modern Dating
01:25:55 The Challenge of Finding Genuine Connections
01:31:48 Expectations and Realities in Relationships
01:39:16 The Impact of Past Relationships on New Ones

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Episode #32
Do you like free game? Well in this episode Kevin shares his process on how he got consistent  visitation without a lawyer and also if you are having a problem with getting your coparent partner to align with whats already been agreed upon then check this episode.

• Court order 
• Currency exchange 
• Agreements and parenting plan

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Episode #27
 If you are a new father or you're new to coparenting it's easy for most fathers to model what they've seen before them. And thats exactly what Kevin did when he started his journey as a coparent. Kevin shares how he started and how he felt powerless as a father until he got the right information to change the Dynamic of his fatherhood.

• feeling insignificant
• getting information 
• getting empowered

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If you’re looking for a gentle, reassuring approach to family communication, this episode offers a heartfelt exploration of how empathy and small acts of kindness can nurture lasting bonds. Instead of focusing on difficult conversations, host Kevin S Meeks highlights the power of vulnerability and the quiet support that comes from being truly present for those we love. Through personal anecdotes and practical tips, you’ll learn how consistent encouragement, shared responsibility, and understanding can bring families closer—no drama required. Tune in to discover how a little patience and compassion can spark meaningful change and keep relationships thriving.

• Time management is crucial for personal growth.
• Creating family bonds is essential for future generations.
• Redefining family can lead to healthier relationships.
• Understanding trauma responses can aid in healing.
• Grace and understanding are key in resolving conflicts.
  
  
  

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Episode #29
There's a looming debate on social media and in many social circle that
 ''MEN SHOULD PAY ALL THE BILLS '' and  truly the base of this debate is based on an old tradition. Kevin gives his views and opinion on this topic .

• Men's money 
• The forever man 
• what does women give in return

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• Episode #25

Kevin is very transparent about is health struggles in 2021. Alicia talks about how she was able knock out most of all her goals this year especially writing two books. Also Kevin & Alicia shares how they have to let go as it relates to their adult children and let them live their own life now and how it can be hard it can be.

• letting go
• setting goals 
• coparents holding on to the past 

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