<![CDATA[Finding Our Way- Conversations on Life After Work]]>We are three sisters (two recent retirees and one pre-retiree) who will discuss issues associated with the non-financial side of retirement. We will share some retirement challenges and potential solutions we've found through our research. Some challenges include letting go of our previous careers, connecting to who we are now, the importance of find meaning and purpose, and figuring out what to do with all the free time we have on our hands. Our conversation will include information we've gather from various resources, our personal take on each topic, and any exercises or tools we have found helpful . Through this show we hope you will take away information that will help you make the most of this time of life.

]]>https://riverside.comRiverside.fm (https://riverside.com)Thu, 28 May 2026 11:30:55 GMTMon, 02 Feb 2026 23:46:00 GMT60Stephanie<p>We are three sisters (two recent retirees and one pre-retiree) who will discuss issues associated with the non-financial side of retirement. We will share some retirement challenges and potential solutions we've found through our research. Some challenges include letting go of our previous careers, connecting to who we are now, the importance of find meaning and purpose, and figuring out what to do with all the free time we have on our hands. Our conversation will include information we've gather from various resources, our personal take on each topic, and any exercises or tools we have found helpful . Through this show we hope you will take away information that will help you make the most of this time of life.</p>episodicStephanieystefsachs@gmail.comno<![CDATA[Episode 10-The 5 Steps to Rediscover Your Purpose After 50 ]]>Retirement isn't just about leaving a career; it's about discovering and reconnecting with your authentic self. This episode explores how to embrace your current passions, core values, and evolving identity post-retirement.


Main Topics Covered:

  • The importance of redefining your identity after retirement
  • Exercises to reconnect with your current self, passions, and strengths
  • Reflection tools like creating a personal memoir and personality assessments
  • How to identify what truly makes you happy, motivated, and engaged
  • Practical tips for embracing change and finding purpose

In this episode:

  • Discusses Marianne's three-step process to focus on what you do well, your purpose, and opportunities to implement your skills
  • Explores five key areas: personality, interests, strengths, skills, and motivators
  • Shares personal experiences from journaling, creating memoirs, and visualizing life as a journey with exits
  • Emphasizes the significance of understanding your strengths, such as listening, loyalty, and organizational skills
  • Offers exercises like personality trait selection and interest reflection to identify what brings joy and fulfillment
  • Highlights the importance of self-compassion and honest reflection during this transformative phase


Note: The journey of self-discovery can be emotional and deep. Take your time, be kind to yourself, and remember that every step you take is progress toward a fulfilling retirement life.


Connect with the Hosts:

findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com

]]>10e8d2df-ecab-40cb-8546-71c5f3d43b7bMon, 25 May 2026 23:54:25 GMT<p>Retirement isn't just about leaving a career; it's about discovering and reconnecting with your authentic self. This episode explores how to embrace your current passions, core values, and evolving identity post-retirement.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Main Topics Covered:</b></p><ul><li>The importance of redefining your identity after retirement</li><li>Exercises to reconnect with your current self, passions, and strengths</li><li>Reflection tools like creating a personal memoir and personality assessments</li><li>How to identify what truly makes you happy, motivated, and engaged</li><li>Practical tips for embracing change and finding purpose</li></ul><p><b>In this episode:</b></p><ul><li>Discusses Marianne's three-step process to focus on what you do well, your purpose, and opportunities to implement your skills</li><li>Explores five key areas: personality, interests, strengths, skills, and motivators</li><li>Shares personal experiences from journaling, creating memoirs, and visualizing life as a journey with exits</li><li>Emphasizes the significance of understanding your strengths, such as listening, loyalty, and organizational skills</li><li>Offers exercises like personality trait selection and interest reflection to identify what brings joy and fulfillment</li><li>Highlights the importance of self-compassion and honest reflection during this transformative phase</li></ul><ul><li> <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement-Marianne-Osher/dp/0983403937" target="_blank">The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marianne Osher</a></li><li></li></ul><p><br /></p><p><b>Note:</b> The journey of self-discovery can be emotional and deep. Take your time, be kind to yourself, and remember that every step you take is progress toward a fulfilling retirement life.</p><p><br /></p><p><b>Connect with the Hosts:</b></p><p><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com" target="_blank"><b>findingourwaypodcast1@gmail.com</b></a></p>no00:31:32110Episode 10-The 5 Steps to Rediscover Your Purpose After 50 full<![CDATA[Episode 9- Finding New Beginnings in Retirement]]>Retirement is a time of profound change and endless possibilities. In this episode, three sisters share insights from expert Marianne Osher’s 'The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement,' discussing how retirees can approach this chapter of life with intentionality, flexibility, and creativity to find purpose and fulfillment.The concept of endless possibilities in retirement and how to navigate feeling overwhelmed versus liberated. This episode encourages retirees and pre-retirees to reflect on their life’s baggage, explore various paths, and craft a compelling vision for their future. Whether you prefer a structured plan or spontaneous adventures, embracing experimentation and visualization can lead to a more joyful, authentic retirement.


  • Exploring six different retirement paths: continuers, easy gliders, adventurers, searchers, involved spectators, and retreaters.
  • The importance of self-awareness in choosing paths, experimenting, and integrating different approaches.
  • Repacking your mental and emotional baggage—reevaluating beliefs, habits, and relationships that no longer serve you.
  • Developing a vision board to clarify your future goals, activate your subconscious, and stay motivated.
  • How to balance structure and spontaneity in retirement for a fulfilling lifestyle.
  • The significance of community involvement, travel, hobbies, and personal growth as part of your retirement vision.
  • Reimagining your identity—shifting from a career-focused mindset to one rooted in joy, purpose, and self-care.
  • The role of mindfulness, living intentionally, and celebrating small wins during this transition.
  • Practical exercises including visualizing your ideal future and reassessing your baggage The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marianne Osher


]]>50829292-35d9-4053-81a3-93b927726a55Wed, 13 May 2026 00:56:02 GMT<p>Retirement is a time of profound change and endless possibilities. In this episode, three sisters share insights from expert Marianne Osher’s 'The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement,' discussing how retirees can approach this chapter of life with intentionality, flexibility, and creativity to find purpose and fulfillment.The concept of endless possibilities in retirement and how to navigate feeling overwhelmed versus liberated. This episode encourages retirees and pre-retirees to reflect on their life’s baggage, explore various paths, and craft a compelling vision for their future. Whether you prefer a structured plan or spontaneous adventures, embracing experimentation and visualization can lead to a more joyful, authentic retirement.</p><p><br /></p><ul><li>Exploring six different retirement paths: continuers, easy gliders, adventurers, searchers, involved spectators, and retreaters.</li><li>The importance of self-awareness in choosing paths, experimenting, and integrating different approaches.</li><li>Repacking your mental and emotional baggage—reevaluating beliefs, habits, and relationships that no longer serve you.</li><li>Developing a vision board to clarify your future goals, activate your subconscious, and stay motivated.</li><li>How to balance structure and spontaneity in retirement for a fulfilling lifestyle.</li><li>The significance of community involvement, travel, hobbies, and personal growth as part of your retirement vision.</li><li>Reimagining your identity—shifting from a career-focused mindset to one rooted in joy, purpose, and self-care.</li><li>The role of mindfulness, living intentionally, and celebrating small wins during this transition.</li><li>Practical exercises including visualizing your ideal future and reassessing your baggage <a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement-Marianne-Osher/dp/0983403937" target="_blank">The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marianne Osher</a></li></ul><ul><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Art-Possibility-Transforming-Professional-Personal/dp/0875960595" target="_blank">The Art of Possibility by Rosam Stone Zander &amp; Benjamin Zander</a></li><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://juliacameronlive.com/" target="_blank">The Artist's Way series by Julia Cameron</a></li></ul><p><br /></p>no00:26:1519Episode 9- Finding New Beginnings in Retirementfull<![CDATA[Episode 8- It's Time for Discovery]]>The podcast episode discusses the challenges and transitions associated with retirement, including identity, purpose, and mental health. It also explores strategies for finding fulfillment and joy in retirement, as well as the importance of self-discovery and reflection. The conversation revolves around the theme of self-discovery and personal growth during a time of transition. It explores mindset, support, and the pursuit of new interests and skills. The speakers share their experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and learning.

Takeaways

  • Retirement presents challenges related to identity, purpose, and mental health.
  • Self-discovery and reflection are essential for finding fulfillment and joy in retirement. Growth Mindset
  • Self-Compassion

 References:

1.        Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” 2019.

2. Schlossberg, Nancy EdD, “Overwhelmed. Coping with Life’s Ups and Downs.”

 Links:

“Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/

]]>40b22a70-9c32-42f4-bf1b-f71754d9c7f0Mon, 27 Apr 2026 16:14:14 GMT<p>The podcast episode discusses the challenges and transitions associated with retirement, including identity, purpose, and mental health. It also explores strategies for finding fulfillment and joy in retirement, as well as the importance of self-discovery and reflection. The conversation revolves around the theme of self-discovery and personal growth during a time of transition. It explores mindset, support, and the pursuit of new interests and skills. The speakers share their experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and learning.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Retirement presents challenges related to identity, purpose, and mental health.</li><li>Self-discovery and reflection are essential for finding fulfillment and joy in retirement. Growth Mindset</li><li>Self-Compassion</li></ul><ul><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://riverside.com/editor/bc3a6c3a-9ad3-4708-8bd6-d63f8420dbfb/amazon.com" target="_blank">The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Mary Ann Osher</a></li><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://riverside.com/editor/bc3a6c3a-9ad3-4708-8bd6-d63f8420dbfb/amazon.com" target="_blank">Nancy Schalashberg’s book, Overwhelmed, Coping with Life’s Ups and Downs</a></li></ul><p><i> </i><b><i>References:</i></b></p><p><i>1.</i>        <i>Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” 2019.</i></p><p><i>2. Schlossberg, Nancy EdD, “Overwhelmed. Coping with Life’s Ups and Downs.”</i></p><p><i> </i><b><i>Links:</i></b></p><p><i>“Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to </i><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/" target="_blank"><b><i>RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/</i></b></a></p>no00:27:5018Episode 8- It's Time for Discoveryfull<![CDATA[Episode 7- Letting Go of the Past for a Fulfilling Retirement Journey]]>Letting Go of the Past for a Fulfilling Retirement Journey

In this episode, we explore the emotional and practical aspects of letting go of your previous career identity to embrace a new chapter in life. Join us as we discuss how to navigate change, shed emotional baggage, and find purpose after retirement.

Key Topics

  • The importance of releasing your former professional identity
  • How to accept the loss of organizational power and perks
  • Overcoming fears and emotional attachment to the past
  • Practical exercises to let go, including symbolic fire rituals
  • The role of memories and creating new opportunities
  • Recognizing job-related stressors that make letting go challenging
  • Personal stories of growth and adjustment in retirement

Timestamps

00:00 - Introduction to the importance of letting go for a successful retirement
00:24 - Overview of challenges faced when retiring and transitioning to a new life phase
01:17 - The significance of releasing old identities and roles
02:26 - Letting go of who you used to be—career identity and recognition
03:14 - Impact of community environment on perceptions of your former career
04:45 - The loss of authority, power, and perks after retirement
07:21 - Guilt associated with no longer earning a paycheck
08:36 - Maintaining personal traits and professional qualities post-retirement
10:56 - Why holding on to the past can hinder emotional and physical health
12:20 - Using memories to stay connected and transition into the unknown
13:16 - The necessity of emotional growth through letting go
15:18 - Strategies to trust in the process and release fear
17:47 - Exercises for letting go: listing what to release and symbolic burning
25:50 - Creative ways to say goodbye to the past, including talk, crumble, or burn lists
26:39 - Humor and support, including "fireball" rituals and sharing with others
27:05 - Encouragement to reflect and embrace the next chapter with joy

Resources & Links

“Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to

RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/

]]>243a1fc6-617e-4fca-8072-6941a497e0ffTue, 14 Apr 2026 00:14:58 GMT<h3><b>Letting Go of the Past for a Fulfilling Retirement Journey</b></h3><p>In this episode, we explore the emotional and practical aspects of letting go of your previous career identity to embrace a new chapter in life. Join us as we discuss how to navigate change, shed emotional baggage, and find purpose after retirement.</p><h4><b>Key Topics</b></h4><ul><li>The importance of releasing your former professional identity</li><li>How to accept the loss of organizational power and perks</li><li>Overcoming fears and emotional attachment to the past</li><li>Practical exercises to let go, including symbolic fire rituals</li><li>The role of memories and creating new opportunities</li><li>Recognizing job-related stressors that make letting go challenging</li><li>Personal stories of growth and adjustment in retirement</li></ul><h4><b>Timestamps</b></h4><p>00:00 - Introduction to the importance of letting go for a successful retirement<br />00:24 - Overview of challenges faced when retiring and transitioning to a new life phase<br />01:17 - The significance of releasing old identities and roles<br />02:26 - Letting go of who you used to be—career identity and recognition<br />03:14 - Impact of community environment on perceptions of your former career<br />04:45 - The loss of authority, power, and perks after retirement<br />07:21 - Guilt associated with no longer earning a paycheck<br />08:36 - Maintaining personal traits and professional qualities post-retirement<br />10:56 - Why holding on to the past can hinder emotional and physical health<br />12:20 - Using memories to stay connected and transition into the unknown<br />13:16 - The necessity of emotional growth through letting go<br />15:18 - Strategies to trust in the process and release fear<br />17:47 - Exercises for letting go: listing what to release and symbolic burning<br />25:50 - Creative ways to say goodbye to the past, including talk, crumble, or burn lists<br />26:39 - Humor and support, including "fireball" rituals and sharing with others<br />27:05 - Encouragement to reflect and embrace the next chapter with joy</p><h4><b>Resources &amp; Links</b></h4><ul><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/Your-Happiness-Portfolio-Retirement-Usher/dp/xxxxxx" target="_blank">Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Mary Ann Usher</a></li></ul><ul><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://riverside.com/amazon.com/dp/B0XXXXXX" target="_blank"><b>The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement: It’s Not About the Money</b></a><b> by Mary-Ann T. Oshoor</b></li></ul><p>“Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to</p><p><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/" target="_blank">RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/</a></p>no00:27:5917Episode 7- Letting Go of the Past for a Fulfilling Retirement Journeyfull<![CDATA[Episode 6- Retirement Changes Everything]]>This episode explores the emotional and psychological transitions into retirement, emphasizing the importance of understanding change, embracing discovery, and developing adaptability for a fulfilling retirement journey.

key topics

  • Emotional and psychological changes in retirement
  • The phases of letting go, in-between, and new beginning
  • The importance of adaptability and acceptance of change
  • Strategies for finding purpose and fulfillment after retirement
  • The role of social connections and self-awareness in retirement

takeaways

  • Understanding that transitions take time and self-compassion is essential
  • Viewing retirement as a journey of discovery and growth
  • The significance of letting go of the past to embrace the future
  • Developing adaptability helps manage change more effectively
  • The importance of balancing positive and negative aspects of change

action items

  • Reflect on your own transitions and what you've learned from them
  • Practice self-compassion during periods of change
  • Develop a personal plan for discovering new purpose in retirement
  • Balance positive and negative aspects of change in your mindset

Chapters

00:00

Navigating Retirement Transitions

04:21

Understanding Emotional Changes in Retirement

06:55

Phases of Letting Go and Embracing Change

13:17

The Importance of Adaptability

20:51

Reflections on Personal Growth and Future Challenges

34:15

Introduction to Retirement Planning

34:42

Exploring Trends: What the Numbers Reveal

Resources
]]>1689218e-52ab-4da0-bf59-a5f96a824fd0Mon, 30 Mar 2026 16:00:00 GMT<p>This episode explores the emotional and psychological transitions into retirement, emphasizing the importance of understanding change, embracing discovery, and developing adaptability for a fulfilling retirement journey.</p><p></p><p><b>key topics</b></p><ul><li>Emotional and psychological changes in retirement</li><li>The phases of letting go, in-between, and new beginning</li><li>The importance of adaptability and acceptance of change</li><li>Strategies for finding purpose and fulfillment after retirement</li><li>The role of social connections and self-awareness in retirement</li></ul><p><b>takeaways</b></p><ul><li>Understanding that transitions take time and self-compassion is essential</li><li>Viewing retirement as a journey of discovery and growth</li><li>The significance of letting go of the past to embrace the future</li><li>Developing adaptability helps manage change more effectively</li><li>The importance of balancing positive and negative aspects of change</li></ul><p><b>action items</b></p><ul><li>Reflect on your own transitions and what you've learned from them</li><li>Practice self-compassion during periods of change</li><li>Develop a personal plan for discovering new purpose in retirement</li><li>Balance positive and negative aspects of change in your mindset</li></ul><p><b>Chapters</b></p><p>00:00</p><p>Navigating Retirement Transitions</p><p>04:21</p><p>Understanding Emotional Changes in Retirement</p><p>06:55</p><p>Phases of Letting Go and Embracing Change</p><p>13:17</p><p>The Importance of Adaptability</p><p>20:51</p><p>Reflections on Personal Growth and Future Challenges</p><p>34:15</p><p>Introduction to Retirement Planning</p><p>34:42</p><p>Exploring Trends: What the Numbers Reveal</p><h5><b>Resources</b></h5><ul><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0XXXXXX" target="_blank">Your Happiness Portfolio for Retirement by Marion Osher</a></li></ul><ul><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://stephanieexample.com/" target="_blank">Website</a></li></ul>no00:34:5816Episode 6- Retirement Changes Everythingfull<![CDATA[Episode 5-Navigating Retirement Challenges and Fears ]]>SummaryThis episode explores the emotional, social, and practical challenges faced during retirement, including identity loss, health concerns, downsizing, and coping strategies. Experts share insights and personal stories to help listeners navigate this significant life transition.

Chapters

00:00

Facing Retirement Challenges

03:33

Navigating Identity and Relevance

06:10

The Importance of Structure in Retirement

08:30

Social Connections and Loneliness

10:58

Understanding Gray Divorce and Relationships

13:41

Mental Health Risks in Retirement

16:26

Addressing Baggage and Old Issues

18:46

Finding Value Beyond Work

21:12

Concluding Thoughts on Retirement

41:04

Introduction to Retirement Planning

41:31

Key Resources for Retirement

41:37

Personalizing Your Retirement Journey

Resources & Links:


]]>f8eb0009-8c80-4b6f-9b73-9f478651187fMon, 16 Mar 2026 16:00:00 GMT<p><b>Summary</b>This episode explores the emotional, social, and practical challenges faced during retirement, including identity loss, health concerns, downsizing, and coping strategies. Experts share insights and personal stories to help listeners navigate this significant life transition.</p><p><b>Chapters</b></p><p>00:00</p><p>Facing Retirement Challenges</p><p>03:33</p><p>Navigating Identity and Relevance</p><p>06:10</p><p>The Importance of Structure in Retirement</p><p>08:30</p><p>Social Connections and Loneliness</p><p>10:58</p><p>Understanding Gray Divorce and Relationships</p><p>13:41</p><p>Mental Health Risks in Retirement</p><p>16:26</p><p>Addressing Baggage and Old Issues</p><p>18:46</p><p>Finding Value Beyond Work</p><p>21:12</p><p>Concluding Thoughts on Retirement</p><p>41:04</p><p>Introduction to Retirement Planning</p><p>41:31</p><p>Key Resources for Retirement</p><p>41:37</p><p>Personalizing Your Retirement Journey</p><h6><b>Resources &amp; Links:</b></h6><ul><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://amazon.com/yourbooklink" target="_blank">Finding Our Way Book and Workbook</a></li><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://www.brainandlife.org/" target="_blank">Marianne's strategies for retirement - Brain and Life</a></li><li><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="https://aarp.org/" target="_blank">Caring for aging loved ones - AARP Resources</a></li></ul><p><br /></p>no00:41:3815Episode 5-Navigating Retirement Challenges and Fears full<![CDATA[Episode 1- Welcome- Introductions of Three Sisters]]>

In this episode of Finding Our Way, the three sisters discuss the non-financial aspects of retirement, sharing their personal experiences and challenges. They explore the transition from work to retirement, the quest for purpose, the importance of socialization, and the pressure to define one's purpose in this new phase of life. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal growth, exploration, and the value of giving back to the community as they navigate their journeys in retirement.

Takeaways

Retirement brings challenges beyond financial considerations.

Finding purpose in retirement can be daunting.

Socialization decreases significantly after leaving the workforce.

Many retirees struggle with the question, 'What will I do now?'.

The pressure to define one's purpose can be overwhelming.

Exploring new interests and hobbies is essential in retirement.

Maintaining a growth mindset is crucial for personal development.

Family and community involvement can provide fulfillment.

Retirement can be a time for self-discovery and exploration.

It's important to redefine what success and purpose mean in retirement.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Life After Work

01:01 Personal Experiences with Retirement

05:21 Navigating the Transition

09:41 The Importance of Purpose

12:54 Finding Joy in Retirement

16:27 Redefining Purpose

20:33 Closing Thoughts and Future Topics

Your comments and questions are encouraged.  Please send them to findingyourwaypodcast1@gmail.com

]]>e8470059-48f9-4fa4-9dfa-71e5c9984a24Fri, 27 Feb 2026 22:09:23 GMT<p></p><p><b>In this episode of Finding Our Way, the three sisters discuss the non-financial aspects of retirement, sharing their personal experiences and challenges. They explore the transition from work to retirement, the quest for purpose, the importance of socialization, and the pressure to define one's purpose in this new phase of life. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal growth, exploration, and the value of giving back to the community as they navigate their journeys in retirement.</b></p><p><b>Takeaways</b></p><p><b>Retirement brings challenges beyond financial considerations.</b></p><p><b>Finding purpose in retirement can be daunting.</b></p><p><b>Socialization decreases significantly after leaving the workforce.</b></p><p><b>Many retirees struggle with the question, 'What will I do now?'.</b></p><p><b>The pressure to define one's purpose can be overwhelming.</b></p><p><b>Exploring new interests and hobbies is essential in retirement.</b></p><p><b>Maintaining a growth mindset is crucial for personal development.</b></p><p><b>Family and community involvement can provide fulfillment.</b></p><p><b>Retirement can be a time for self-discovery and exploration.</b></p><p><b>It's important to redefine what success and purpose mean in retirement.</b></p><p><b>Chapters</b></p><p><b>00:00 Introduction to Life After Work</b></p><p><b>01:01 Personal Experiences with Retirement</b></p><p><b>05:21 Navigating the Transition</b></p><p><b>09:41 The Importance of Purpose</b></p><p><b>12:54 Finding Joy in Retirement</b></p><p><b>16:27 Redefining Purpose</b></p><p><b>20:33 Closing Thoughts and Future Topics</b></p><p><b>Your comments and questions are encouraged.  Please send them to </b><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="mailto:findingyourwaypodcast1@gmail.com" target="_blank"><b>findingyourwaypodcast1@gmail.com</b></a></p><p></p><p></p>no00:22:1411Episode 1- Welcome- Introductions of Three Sistersfull<![CDATA[Episode 4- Mindset Matters: Shaping Your Retirement Experience]]>In this conversation, the hosts explore the importance of mindset in retirement, discussing the differences between fixed and growth mindsets. They emphasize the impact of mindset on retirement experiences and introduce self-reflection exercises to help listeners assess their own mindsets. The discussion also addresses common fears related to retirement and introduces the concept of the four L's of retirement: longevity, lifestyle, legacy, and liquidity. Through engaging dialogue, the hosts encourage listeners to reflect on their own retirement journeys and the mindsets that shape them.

Takeaways


Your mindset significantly influences your retirement experience.

A fixed mindset can limit opportunities and growth.

Growth mindset encourages exploration and positivity.

Self-reflection exercises can reveal your current mindset.

Awareness of fears can help in planning for retirement.

The euphoric mindset can lead to unrealistic expectations.

The gloom and doom mindset can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.

It's important to assess your feelings about retirement regularly.

The four L's of retirement include longevity, lifestyle, legacy, and liquidity.

Engaging in discussions about retirement can foster growth and understanding.

Chapters


00:00 Understanding Mindset in Retirement

07:06 Exploring Fixed and Growth Mindsets

12:59 Exercises for Mindset Awareness

17:08 Feelings About Retirement

19:54 Exploring Emotions Around Retirement

20:39 Financial Preparedness and Its Impact

21:11 Navigating Indecision and Transition

23:58 Addressing Fears of Retirement

27:53 Defining Personal Goals for Retirement

31:24 Reflecting on Growth and Future Aspirations

35:15 Listener Engagement and Broader Themes


]]>efdf535c-c4f2-497c-b758-1a5f32fdf471Mon, 02 Mar 2026 17:00:00 GMT<p>In this conversation, the hosts explore the importance of mindset in retirement, discussing the differences between fixed and growth mindsets. They emphasize the impact of mindset on retirement experiences and introduce self-reflection exercises to help listeners assess their own mindsets. The discussion also addresses common fears related to retirement and introduces the concept of the four L's of retirement: longevity, lifestyle, legacy, and liquidity. Through engaging dialogue, the hosts encourage listeners to reflect on their own retirement journeys and the mindsets that shape them.</p><p>Takeaways</p><p><br /></p><p>Your mindset significantly influences your retirement experience.</p><p>A fixed mindset can limit opportunities and growth.</p><p>Growth mindset encourages exploration and positivity.</p><p>Self-reflection exercises can reveal your current mindset.</p><p>Awareness of fears can help in planning for retirement.</p><p>The euphoric mindset can lead to unrealistic expectations.</p><p>The gloom and doom mindset can create a self-fulfilling prophecy.</p><p>It's important to assess your feelings about retirement regularly.</p><p>The four L's of retirement include longevity, lifestyle, legacy, and liquidity.</p><p>Engaging in discussions about retirement can foster growth and understanding.</p><p>Chapters</p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Understanding Mindset in Retirement</p><p>07:06 Exploring Fixed and Growth Mindsets</p><p>12:59 Exercises for Mindset Awareness</p><p>17:08 Feelings About Retirement</p><p>19:54 Exploring Emotions Around Retirement</p><p>20:39 Financial Preparedness and Its Impact</p><p>21:11 Navigating Indecision and Transition</p><p>23:58 Addressing Fears of Retirement</p><p>27:53 Defining Personal Goals for Retirement</p><p>31:24 Reflecting on Growth and Future Aspirations</p><p>35:15 Listener Engagement and Broader Themes</p><p><br /></p>no00:38:1814Episode 4- Mindset Matters: Shaping Your Retirement Experiencefull<![CDATA[Episode 3-The Journey Through Retirement: Stages and Paths]]>Retirement is a transformative phase in life, filled with opportunities and challenges. In this episode of Finding Our Way, we explore the four stages of retirement as outlined in Marianne T.  Osher’s book, helping you understand how to navigate this new chapter with purpose and joy.

Key topics - 5-10 bullets:

  • The three acts of life: childhood, adulting, and retirement, with a focus on the long "third act"
  • The four stages of retirement: honeymoon, re-engagement, downshifting, and old age
  • The honeymoon phase: embracing freedom, enjoying leisure, and avoiding disenchantment
  • The gloom and doom path: risks of regret, isolation, and depression without proper planning
  • Re-engagement: living your best life, rediscovering passions, and balancing activity levels
  • The importance of pacing oneself to prevent burnout during active retirement
  • The shift to slower, more mindful living in the downshifting stage
  • Preparing for advanced age: lifestyle choices that enhance quality of life and longevity
  • The power of mindset and social connections in aging gracefully
  • Practical strategies: small lifestyle changes, managing social calendars, and embracing learning at any age
  • 1.      Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” 2019. 
  • 2.  Landry, Roger, “The Official Summary of Live Long, Die Short: Roger Landry,” Audiobook 2019.
  •  Links:
  • “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/
]]>b081e560-b43f-46f1-8aee-37d50a7f8741Mon, 16 Feb 2026 17:00:00 GMT<p>Retirement is a transformative phase in life, filled with opportunities and challenges. In this episode of <i>Finding Our Way</i>, we explore the four stages of retirement as outlined in Marianne T.  Osher’s book, helping you understand how to navigate this new chapter with purpose and joy.</p><p><b>Key topics - 5-10 bullets:</b></p><ul><li>The three acts of life: childhood, adulting, and retirement, with a focus on the long "third act"</li><li>The four stages of retirement: honeymoon, re-engagement, downshifting, and old age</li><li>The honeymoon phase: embracing freedom, enjoying leisure, and avoiding disenchantment</li><li>The gloom and doom path: risks of regret, isolation, and depression without proper planning</li><li>Re-engagement: living your best life, rediscovering passions, and balancing activity levels</li><li>The importance of pacing oneself to prevent burnout during active retirement</li><li>The shift to slower, more mindful living in the downshifting stage</li><li>Preparing for advanced age: lifestyle choices that enhance quality of life and longevity</li><li>The power of mindset and social connections in aging gracefully</li><li>Practical strategies: small lifestyle changes, managing social calendars, and embracing learning at any age</li><li><i>1.      Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” 2019. </i></li><li><i>2.  Landry, Roger, “The Official Summary of Live Long, Die Short: Roger Landry,” Audiobook 2019.</i></li><li></li><li><i> </i><b><i>Links:</i></b></li><li><i>“Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Not About the Money!” workbook, go to </i><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/" target="_blank"><b><i>RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/</i></b></a></li></ul>no00:31:2713Episode 3-The Journey Through Retirement: Stages and Pathsfull<![CDATA[Episode 2- Retirement Today]]>etirement is no longer just a phase of life; it’s a dynamic journey filled with possibilities and challenges. In this blog post, we delve into the evolving concept of retirement, debunking common myths and exploring how modern retirees can craft fulfilling lives beyond their careers.


Understanding Retirement Today:  

The landscape of retirement has dramatically changed from what our grandparents experienced. In the podcast episode of "Finding Our Way, Conversations on Life After Work," Michelle, Annette, and Stephanie discuss how retirees today can expect to enjoy 20 to 30 years of life after work, thanks to advancements in healthcare and lifestyle choices. This shift means that retirement is no longer synonymous with idleness; instead, it’s an opportunity for personal growth and exploration.


Debunking Retirement Myths:  

One prevalent myth is that retirement is a time for rest and relaxation without any further engagement in life. Annette reflects on her grandparents’ retirement, highlighting how many retirees in the past simply stayed home and engaged in minimal activities. In contrast, today’s retirees are breaking stereotypes by staying active and engaged in various pursuits. 


Another myth is that retirement is only for the financially secure. The hosts emphasize that people over 50 account for half of consumer spending in the United States. This statistic underscores the importance of recognizing the economic impact of older adults and the need for businesses to cater to this demographic.


The Role of Personal Fulfillment:  

Michelle introduces the book "The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement" by Marianne T. Oehser which serves as a guide for retirees looking to design a fulfilling life. The book encourages readers to think beyond financial stability and to explore areas that contribute to their happiness. It includes exercises to help individuals develop their personal happiness portfolios, emphasizing that fulfillment can come from various sources, including hobbies, social interactions, and community involvement.


The Importance of Community:  

Community plays a significant role in the retirement experience. The hosts share anecdotes about their active older relatives and neighbors, noting how important social connections are for overall well-being. Engaging with a community not only combats loneliness but also provides opportunities for new friendships and shared interests.


Retirement is no longer a one-size-fits-all experience. It’s a time for exploration, growth, and community engagement. By debunking myths and embracing new possibilities, retirees can create fulfilling lives that reflect their passions and interests. As we move forward, it’s essential to rethink what retirement means and how we can support one another in this journey.

1.      Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Note About the Money!” 2019.

 Links:

“Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Note About the Money!” workbook, go to RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/

 

]]>381f45f8-b5b9-4ba4-a9d2-8e651b068b9fMon, 02 Feb 2026 23:52:03 GMT<p>etirement is no longer just a phase of life; it’s a dynamic journey filled with possibilities and challenges. In this blog post, we delve into the evolving concept of retirement, debunking common myths and exploring how modern retirees can craft fulfilling lives beyond their careers.</p><p><br /></p><p>Understanding Retirement Today:  </p><p>The landscape of retirement has dramatically changed from what our grandparents experienced. In the podcast episode of "Finding Our Way, Conversations on Life After Work," Michelle, Annette, and Stephanie discuss how retirees today can expect to enjoy 20 to 30 years of life after work, thanks to advancements in healthcare and lifestyle choices. This shift means that retirement is no longer synonymous with idleness; instead, it’s an opportunity for personal growth and exploration.</p><p><br /></p><p>Debunking Retirement Myths:  </p><p>One prevalent myth is that retirement is a time for rest and relaxation without any further engagement in life. Annette reflects on her grandparents’ retirement, highlighting how many retirees in the past simply stayed home and engaged in minimal activities. In contrast, today’s retirees are breaking stereotypes by staying active and engaged in various pursuits. </p><p><br /></p><p>Another myth is that retirement is only for the financially secure. The hosts emphasize that people over 50 account for half of consumer spending in the United States. This statistic underscores the importance of recognizing the economic impact of older adults and the need for businesses to cater to this demographic.</p><p><br /></p><p>The Role of Personal Fulfillment:  </p><p>Michelle introduces the book "The Happiness Portfolio for Retirement" by Marianne T. Oehser which serves as a guide for retirees looking to design a fulfilling life. The book encourages readers to think beyond financial stability and to explore areas that contribute to their happiness. It includes exercises to help individuals develop their personal happiness portfolios, emphasizing that fulfillment can come from various sources, including hobbies, social interactions, and community involvement.</p><p><br /></p><p>The Importance of Community:  </p><p>Community plays a significant role in the retirement experience. The hosts share anecdotes about their active older relatives and neighbors, noting how important social connections are for overall well-being. Engaging with a community not only combats loneliness but also provides opportunities for new friendships and shared interests.</p><p><br /></p><p>Retirement is no longer a one-size-fits-all experience. It’s a time for exploration, growth, and community engagement. By debunking myths and embracing new possibilities, retirees can create fulfilling lives that reflect their passions and interests. As we move forward, it’s essential to rethink what retirement means and how we can support one another in this journey.</p><p><i>1.</i>      <i>Oesher, Marianne T., “Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Note About the Money!” 2019.</i></p><p><i> </i><b><i>Links:</i></b></p><p><i>“Your Happiness Portfolio® For Retirement, It’s Note About the Money!” workbook, go to </i><a rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" href="http://RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/" target="_blank"><b><i>RetireandBeHappy.com/workbook/</i></b></a></p><p><i> </i></p>no00:37:1612Episode 2- Retirement Todayfull