<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>Boy, Guess What</b> is a Black queer podcast centered on mental health, relationships, culture, and authentic conversation. Hosted by Bronson, Marcus, and Davon, the show creates space for honest dialogue about healing, intimacy, identity, accountability, and the experiences often overlooked in mainstream media.</p><p></p><p>Each episode blends humor, vulnerability, and real-life perspective as we unpack topics like therapy and prayer, cheating and forgiveness, intimacy within friend groups, mental health struggles, authenticity over clout, and choosing peace.</p><p></p><p>Boy Guess What is more than a podcast. It’s a community rooted in truth, emotional wellness, and cultural connection. New episodes drop weekly, with conversations that invite reflection, discussion, and growth.</p><p></p><p>Listen on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.youtube.com/@boyguesswhat</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 28 May 2026 11:57:27 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/roNkKhfY.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></author><pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2025 21:32:11 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2025 Boy, Guess What]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category><category><![CDATA[Sexuality]]></category><itunes:author>Boy, Guess What</itunes:author><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Boy, Guess What&lt;/b&gt; is a Black queer podcast centered on mental health, relationships, culture, and authentic conversation. Hosted by Bronson, Marcus, and Davon, the show creates space for honest dialogue about healing, intimacy, identity, accountability, and the experiences often overlooked in mainstream media.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Each episode blends humor, vulnerability, and real-life perspective as we unpack topics like therapy and prayer, cheating and forgiveness, intimacy within friend groups, mental health struggles, authenticity over clout, and choosing peace.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Boy Guess What is more than a podcast. It’s a community rooted in truth, emotional wellness, and cultural connection. New episodes drop weekly, with conversations that invite reflection, discussion, and growth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Listen on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:type>serial</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Boy, Guess What</itunes:name><itunes:email>bronson.johnson@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Health &amp; Fitness"><itunes:category text="Mental Health"/><itunes:category text="Sexuality"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><item><title><![CDATA[What Are You Holding Onto? | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 5)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <i>Boy Guess What</i>, we’re having an honest conversation about the emotional weight so many of us carry and the ways it can quietly shape our lives, relationships, and self-worth.</p><p>From limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome to anger, healing, and even the healthcare challenges people face in America, we unpack the mental and emotional barriers that can keep us stuck.</p><p>Through personal stories and real conversation, we talk about what it means to finally let go, grow, and choose yourself in the process.</p><p>This episode is vulnerable, reflective, and one a lot of people may need right now.</p><p>Tap in.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">00dc9d82-dfec-4b34-bc60-ff33e90a8651</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2026 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/a7b7c700c6c80b28bc04582f69a2b6702093e948c0ba804b52b55a79bd8d9fc1/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwMGRjOWQ4Mi1kZmVjLTRiMzQtYmM2MC1mZjMzZTkwYTg2NTEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlmZjUyYzI3YjQ2NDUxNTEzYjAzMTRjL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNS05X18xNy0yOS02Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="23156628" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/episodes/00dc9d82-dfec-4b34-bc60-ff33e90a8651/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;i&gt;Boy Guess What&lt;/i&gt;, we’re having an honest conversation about the emotional weight so many of us carry and the ways it can quietly shape our lives, relationships, and self-worth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome to anger, healing, and even the healthcare challenges people face in America, we unpack the mental and emotional barriers that can keep us stuck.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Through personal stories and real conversation, we talk about what it means to finally let go, grow, and choose yourself in the process.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is vulnerable, reflective, and one a lot of people may need right now.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tap in.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:48:15</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>5</itunes:episode><itunes:title>What Are You Holding Onto? | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 5)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[What is Frolic Weekend Really Like? | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 4)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week we sit down with Lamb, CEO of Frolic Weekend, and get into what the experience is really about.</p><p>We talk about the intention behind Frolic, what it means to create space for Black gay and queer people, and why representation and experience matter.</p><p>From the vibe of the weekend to what first-timers can expect, this conversation goes beyond the surface and gets into the why behind it all.</p><p>Tap in.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">05573531-8d5b-4765-8bcd-c00d936610e2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2026 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/162dbc34ff4d22fe23a0f045bcc8caa290a30a02c179054268e33ebb7f6bf4dd/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwNTU3MzUzMS04ZDViLTQ3NjUtOGJjZC1jMDBkOTM2NjEwZTIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlmODAyYTdjYThmNmJhOTgyNmYxMmMxL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNS00X180LTIxLTI3Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="25621960" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/episodes/05573531-8d5b-4765-8bcd-c00d936610e2/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This week we sit down with Lamb, CEO of Frolic Weekend, and get into what the experience is really about.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We talk about the intention behind Frolic, what it means to create space for Black gay and queer people, and why representation and experience matter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From the vibe of the weekend to what first-timers can expect, this conversation goes beyond the surface and gets into the why behind it all.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tap in.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:53:23</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>What is Frolic Weekend Really Like? | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 4)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Pop The Balloon & Media Representation | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 3 Part 2)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re back with Part 2—because the conversation didn’t end there.</p><p>In this episode of <i>Boy Guess What</i>, we continue unpacking safe spaces for gay men of color and take it deeper into representation—what it really means to feel seen, understood, and accepted in the spaces we move through.</p><p>From code switching to identity, we’re getting honest about the experiences that don’t always get said out loud.</p><p>Some conversations need more than one episode… this is one of them.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">3b54fc72-98dd-4d69-954c-6e4a2712842c</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4625f3a1f97927c108e9bd2e3d7f523d8329488c00797833ba87d9326bce6fc4/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIzYjU0ZmM3Mi05OGRkLTRkNjktOTU0Yy02ZTRhMjcxMjg0MmMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjllZWQxOTZkODg2NjVjNTE3NjdkYTc2L2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNC0yN19fNS0xLTQyLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="23132178" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/episodes/3b54fc72-98dd-4d69-954c-6e4a2712842c/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;We’re back with Part 2—because the conversation didn’t end there.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;i&gt;Boy Guess What&lt;/i&gt;, we continue unpacking safe spaces for gay men of color and take it deeper into representation—what it really means to feel seen, understood, and accepted in the spaces we move through.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From code switching to identity, we’re getting honest about the experiences that don’t always get said out loud.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some conversations need more than one episode… this is one of them.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:48:11</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Pop The Balloon &amp; Media Representation | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 3 Part 2)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is “Pop The Balloon” a Social Experiment? | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 3, Part 1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week on <b>Boy Guess What</b>, we’re asking a question that might hit a little too close to home…</p><p>From the viral “Pop The Balloon” dating show to the bigger picture of modern dating, we’re unpacking whether reality TV is just entertainment… or a full-blown social experiment. 🎈</p><p>Are shows like this shaping how we judge people?<br />Are we becoming more comfortable with instant rejection, unrealistic standards, and performative dating?<br />Or is this just a reflection of what’s already happening in real life?</p><p>Bronson, Marcus, and Davon get into the influence of reality TV, dating culture, and how media may be quietly shifting our expectations of love, connection, and relationships—especially within the Black and queer community.</p><p>This is <b>Part 1</b> of the conversation.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">6bc74983-3d5e-4e1a-b39c-fdb22938424d</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/6f1d11d96cae48a43da55cb6655ca0556f4e477a5cc700dfde30065514cec934/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI2YmM3NDk4My0zZDVlLTRlMWEtYjM5Yy1mZGIyMjkzODQyNGQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjllNjNlNjNmYTE4YzY3NGU0ZTRkMzdkL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNC0yMF9fMTYtNTUtMzEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="24225977" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/episodes/6bc74983-3d5e-4e1a-b39c-fdb22938424d/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This week on &lt;b&gt;Boy Guess What&lt;/b&gt;, we’re asking a question that might hit a little too close to home…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From the viral “Pop The Balloon” dating show to the bigger picture of modern dating, we’re unpacking whether reality TV is just entertainment… or a full-blown social experiment. 🎈&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are shows like this shaping how we judge people?&lt;br /&gt;Are we becoming more comfortable with instant rejection, unrealistic standards, and performative dating?&lt;br /&gt;Or is this just a reflection of what’s already happening in real life?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bronson, Marcus, and Davon get into the influence of reality TV, dating culture, and how media may be quietly shifting our expectations of love, connection, and relationships—especially within the Black and queer community.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is &lt;b&gt;Part 1&lt;/b&gt; of the conversation.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:50:28</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Is “Pop The Balloon” a Social Experiment? | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 3, Part 1)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Safe Spaces | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 2)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of <i>Boy Guess What</i>, we’re talking about safe spaces for gay men of color—and what happens when those spaces don’t always feel safe.</p><p>From the barbershop to everyday social settings, we explore code-switching, identity, and the quiet ways we adjust just to exist comfortably.</p><p>Because everyone deserves a space where they can show up fully as themselves—no filter, no pressure.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7031ebd6-552a-451b-a82a-4c4457cba0ee</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/f0bf409ffb2297e19ca078bccb030f80a641954e88e91722321e69abf76f13cd/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3MDMxZWJkNi01NTJhLTQ1MWItYTgyYS00YzQ0NTdjYmEwZWUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlkYzQ3ZDA4NzBkNzZiOWJiNzgyOTYwL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNC0xM19fMy0zMy00Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="27907779" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/episodes/7031ebd6-552a-451b-a82a-4c4457cba0ee/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;In this episode of &lt;i&gt;Boy Guess What&lt;/i&gt;, we’re talking about safe spaces for gay men of color—and what happens when those spaces don’t always feel safe.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;From the barbershop to everyday social settings, we explore code-switching, identity, and the quiet ways we adjust just to exist comfortably.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Because everyone deserves a space where they can show up fully as themselves—no filter, no pressure.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:58:08</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Safe Spaces | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 2)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Gay & Lonely | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Season 2 starts with a question we don’t talk about enough—<br />why are so many of us lonely?</p><p>We’re diving into the reality of connection, dating, and what it actually feels like to navigate the gay community today.</p><p>It’s real, it’s honest… and it might hit a little close to home.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">d14e4fba-ee0e-4c7a-9097-95f7b5ebfea1</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 16:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/1decf3ccc87be50cf32b93b054afc5cadf3c0c98df015c2ea41b9bb825daa657/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkMTRlNGZiYS1lZTBlLTRjN2EtOTA5Ny05NWY3YjVlYmZlYTEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjlkM2I2MzM4ZjI3N2FkOTY3NzE4NDc3L2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjYtNC02X18xNS0zMy0zOS5tcDMifQ==.mp3" length="32203564" type="audio/mpeg"/><podcast:transcript url="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/episodes/d14e4fba-ee0e-4c7a-9097-95f7b5ebfea1/transcripts.txt" type="text/plain"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Season 2 starts with a question we don’t talk about enough—&lt;br /&gt;why are so many of us lonely?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We’re diving into the reality of connection, dating, and what it actually feels like to navigate the gay community today.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It’s real, it’s honest… and it might hit a little close to home.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>01:07:05</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>2</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Gay &amp; Lonely | Boy Guess What (Season 2 - Episode 1)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Cheating, Trust & Would You Take Them Back? | Boy Guess What (Episode 7)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week, we’re debating whether you should take a partner back after cheating — and what that choice says about love, boundaries, trust, and self-respect. Should you fight to rebuild… or walk away to protect your peace?</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">df986cdf-9c9f-4d1a-9ae3-f10f888df108</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 16:48:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/19c84840885d6a83bddb0570e5051762a402cef80067c21ceea3f6c48fe3baeb/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJkZjk4NmNkZi05YzlmLTRkMWEtOWFlMy1mMTBmODg4ZGYxMDgiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk1NTU0Yjk3ZTA4NjYyMDgzMTYyZWQ3L2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjUtMTItMzFfXzE3LTUyLTkubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="26473552" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This week, we’re debating whether you should take a partner back after cheating — and what that choice says about love, boundaries, trust, and self-respect. Should you fight to rebuild… or walk away to protect your peace?&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:55:09</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>7</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Cheating, Trust &amp; Would You Take Them Back? | Boy Guess What (Episode 7)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Are Gay Men So Mean? Community, Trauma & Accountability | Boy Guess What (Episode 1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>From nightlife hierarchy to “you can’t sit with us” friend groups, the boys give their take as Black gay voices navigating identity, self-esteem, and connection in a vibrant (and sometimes vicious) community.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">4e383ebe-311a-4718-95ba-98071a2b98a9</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 16:46:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/f333d14fa78304dbfba22b17ed3ea6fa3c4e0fb0e8b58a8790e74520a403ba06/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI0ZTM4M2ViZS0zMTFhLTQ3MTgtOTViYS05ODA3MWEyYjk4YTkiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk1NTUzY2MwYjYxMmI2MDRmNDhjOTRkL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjUtMTItMzFfXzE3LTQ4LTEyLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="18668791" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;From nightlife hierarchy to “you can’t sit with us” friend groups, the boys give their take as Black gay voices navigating identity, self-esteem, and connection in a vibrant (and sometimes vicious) community.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:38:54</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Why Are Gay Men So Mean? Community, Trauma &amp; Accountability | Boy Guess What (Episode 1)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Grieving Friendships in the Gay Community | Boy Guess What (Episode 2)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>We unpack real experiences, queer community pressures, abandonment trauma, chosen family, and how to heal without closing your heart off to new connections.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">a2a3b094-ecd3-4c20-bfa6-6b045e9f2c04</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 16:44:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/b8114c6a9800ce65ca0dc242a12b4c90a5f33ce30ff37fe741f4494cdfed5c30/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJhMmEzYjA5NC1lY2QzLTRjMjAtYmZhNi02YjA0NWU5ZjJjMDQiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk1NTUzMjVkZGYzMzRkYjhlMzI2ODk4L2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjUtMTItMzFfXzE3LTQ1LTI1Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="11845190" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;We unpack real experiences, queer community pressures, abandonment trauma, chosen family, and how to heal without closing your heart off to new connections.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:24:41</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Grieving Friendships in the Gay Community | Boy Guess What (Episode 2)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Black Enough or Queer Enough? Identity & Belonging | Boy Guess What (Episode 3)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>We’re unpacking identity pressure, stereotypes, performance of self, respectability politics, internalized racism, internalized homophobia, community gatekeeping, and the exhaustion of trying to be “enough” for everyone but yourself.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">21e01cc6-16d5-4d62-b182-ce8a6f7ad20f</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 16:39:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/ae948c8c3f97784548ac271e37d713fbceb571018d066fe9170959002470fbd5/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIyMWUwMWNjNi0xNmQ1LTRkNjItYjE4Mi1jZThhNmY3YWQyMGYiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk1NTUyMmIxYTIzYzQ5YjNkNDhmMzMwL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjUtMTItMzFfXzE3LTQxLTE1Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="18180615" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;We’re unpacking identity pressure, stereotypes, performance of self, respectability politics, internalized racism, internalized homophobia, community gatekeeping, and the exhaustion of trying to be “enough” for everyone but yourself.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:37:52</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Black Enough or Queer Enough? 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We explore communication, boundaries, mismatched desire, relationship pressure, and what it takes to keep connection alive in queer relationships today.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">59e61aaa-3fef-450b-927c-a678b9132351</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 16:37:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/0668a958e43df8772dd603e473c0a63aef4abeb1963078749d0bad7c638d73b5/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI1OWU2MWFhYS0zZmVmLTQ1MGItOTI3Yy1hNjc4YjkxMzIzNTEiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk1NTUxNGU2ODkzMDBjYThiYjliMmMwL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjUtMTItMzFfXzE3LTM3LTM0Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="18717275" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;On Episode 4 of Boy Guess What, Bronson, Marcus, and Davon dive into the real talk behind open relationships, dead bedrooms, and how queer couples actually navigate intimacy when the spark flickers or routines take over. We explore communication, boundaries, mismatched desire, relationship pressure, and what it takes to keep connection alive in queer relationships today.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:39:00</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/b4882bca-100e-48a3-9496-ec757a7cb946/logos/d863d66a-cd4b-479c-a76a-bad651e3a9b8.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>4</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Open Relationships, Dead Bedrooms &amp; Modern Intimacy | Boy Guess What (Episode 4)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is R&B Dead? Music, Culture & Evolution | Boy Guess What (Episode 5)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Are we witnessing the death of true R&amp;B… or just the evolution of it? In this episode, we dive into the state of R&amp;B music today — from oversexualization and shallow lyrics to the loss of raw emotion and storytelling that defined the genre in the 90s and early 2000s.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">0bc1dc06-55ab-454c-9d1b-28a2b97f9913</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 16:35:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/047355fddd2a16769e2495033649fb56289ee5d8e7fbe1a8ad4752d2a0972df8/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiIwYmMxZGMwNi01NWFiLTQ1NGMtOWQxYi0yOGEyYjk3Zjk5MTMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk1NTUxYTU2OGU5ZGU0OGZmNDFhZmYwL2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjUtMTItMzFfXzE3LTM5LTEubXAzIn0=.mp3" length="24275296" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Are we witnessing the death of true R&amp;amp;B… or just the evolution of it? 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This episode is about honesty, self-awareness, and learning how to show up for yourself and others in healthier ways. We talk about the pressure to “be okay,” the danger of ignoring your inner world, and why healing requires more than silence or performance.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">9ad1c3eb-e709-4c71-9a8f-7e1ef13e33c2</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Boy, Guess What]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Dec 2025 16:29:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/4314e1d4deefcbe6155f482e7c7dda204214dc49d0a6a288c36899c9195f5842/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI5YWQxYzNlYi1lNzA5LTRjNzEtOWE4Zi03ZTFlZjEzZTMzYzIiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiJiNDg4MmJjYS0xMDBlLTQ4YTMtOTQ5Ni1lYzc1N2E3Y2I5NDYiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2OGRjNWQ0MzUxOTIyOGUyOWYyYzE2ODYiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk1NTUwMzI2ODkzMDBjYThiYjk5ZjI4L2Jyb25zb24tanMtc3R1ZGlvLWNvbXBvc2VyLTIwMjUtMTItMzFfXzE3LTMyLTUwLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="27083564" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;For our Season Finale, we’re slowing things down and getting real about mental health — the kind of conversations that don’t always happen out loud, but affect all of us every day. 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