<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:psc="http://podlove.org/simple-chapters" xmlns:podcast="https://podcastindex.org/namespace/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[The Art of Networking in The Wedding Industry]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p><b>The Long Game: Mastering Networking for Wedding Professionals</b></p><p></p><p>Most wedding professionals go to events expecting work, referrals, or connections - and leave frustrated when nothing happens.</p><p></p><p>This limited podcast series is about why that mindset fails.</p><p>Hosted by Julian Ribinik, a wedding and event photographer photographer with nearly two decades in the industry, long-time speaker, and coach, this series breaks down how networking actually works in the wedding world - quietly, slowly, and through real human relationships.</p><p></p><p>This is not a podcast about working the room, pitching yourself, or chasing planners. It’s about understanding people, building trust, and playing a longer game in an industry built on referrals and reputation.</p><p></p><p>Each episode tackles the uncomfortable truths most people avoid:</p><ul><li>Why events rarely lead to direct work</li><li>Why planners don’t want to talk shop</li><li>Why referrals are risky and rare</li><li>Why follow-up matters more than the event itself</li><li>And why friendships matter more than talent</li><li></li></ul><p>No hacks.<br />No scripts.<br />No shortcuts.</p><p></p><p>Just a grounded look at networking through the lens of mindset, trust, and long-term relationships - for wedding and event professionals who want to do this right, without forcing it.</p>]]></description><link>https://www.julianribinik.com</link><generator>Riverside.fm (https://riverside.com)</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 29 May 2026 18:56:10 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://api.riverside.com/hosting/yRxeusCe.rss" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><author><![CDATA[Julian Ribinik]]></author><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 01:55:21 GMT</pubDate><copyright><![CDATA[2026 Julian Ribinik]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><ttl>60</ttl><category><![CDATA[Business]]></category><category><![CDATA[Marketing]]></category><itunes:author>Julian Ribinik</itunes:author><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Long Game: Mastering Networking for Wedding Professionals&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most wedding professionals go to events expecting work, referrals, or connections - and leave frustrated when nothing happens.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This limited podcast series is about why that mindset fails.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hosted by Julian Ribinik, a wedding and event photographer photographer with nearly two decades in the industry, long-time speaker, and coach, this series breaks down how networking actually works in the wedding world - quietly, slowly, and through real human relationships.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is not a podcast about working the room, pitching yourself, or chasing planners. It’s about understanding people, building trust, and playing a longer game in an industry built on referrals and reputation.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Each episode tackles the uncomfortable truths most people avoid:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why events rarely lead to direct work&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why planners don’t want to talk shop&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why referrals are risky and rare&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why follow-up matters more than the event itself&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;And why friendships matter more than talent&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;No hacks.&lt;br /&gt;No scripts.&lt;br /&gt;No shortcuts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Just a grounded look at networking through the lens of mindset, trust, and long-term relationships - for wedding and event professionals who want to do this right, without forcing it.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:type>serial</itunes:type><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Julian Ribinik</itunes:name><itunes:email>julian@ketofitnesscoaching.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Business"><itunes:category text="Marketing"/></itunes:category><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/8cd0839b-15d0-4a36-863d-afc044afdcd3/logos/6194452a-83cb-4d8e-a007-20e77bac434e.png"/><item><title><![CDATA[The Best Question to Ruin Your Networking]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This episode on networking in the wedding industry explores the impact of the sorting mechanism, the importance of removing urgency and evaluation, and the significance of asking the polite question. It delves into the psychology of networking and the need to connect with people as individuals rather than categories.</p><p></p><p>Takeaways</p><ul><li>Sorting tool</li><li>Removing urgency and evaluation</li></ul><p></p><p>Chapters</p><ul><li>00:00 The Sorting Mechanism</li><li>06:13 Removing the Sorting Mechanism</li></ul>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">f09fade6-d1a3-4c6d-bebb-00d90da00923</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julian Ribinik]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 16:19:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/900445e59cdf9db3cbdb68555dfa6349725faf41bb5629486e27837b4c3dfcf2/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiJmMDlmYWRlNi1kMWEzLTRjNmQtYmViYi0wMGQ5MGRhMDA5MjMiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI4Y2QwODM5Yi0xNWQwLTRhMzYtODYzZC1hZmMwNDRhZmRjZDMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2M2FlM2Q4NzEyYzBlOTlmYTk5Y2Y5MTIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk5NDg1ZjdjNDM1ODAwYjc4OThkZmZiL2p1bGlhbi1yaWJpbmlrcy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0yLTE3X18xNi0xNS0zLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="11425480" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This episode on networking in the wedding industry explores the impact of the sorting mechanism, the importance of removing urgency and evaluation, and the significance of asking the polite question. It delves into the psychology of networking and the need to connect with people as individuals rather than categories.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Takeaways&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Sorting tool&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Removing urgency and evaluation&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Chapters&lt;/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;00:00 The Sorting Mechanism&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;06:13 Removing the Sorting Mechanism&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:07:56</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/8cd0839b-15d0-4a36-863d-afc044afdcd3/logos/6194452a-83cb-4d8e-a007-20e77bac434e.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>3</itunes:episode><itunes:title>The Best Question to Ruin Your Networking</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Everyone Is a Person, Not a Role]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>At industry events, it’s easy to start sorting people the moment a conversation begins - planner or not, useful or not, worth your time or not.</p><p>That habit quietly ruins more connections than most people realize.</p><p>In this episode, we break down why treating people as roles instead of humans creates pressure, kills trust, and leads to frustration after events. We explain why planners don’t want to talk shop, why everyone already has a referral network, and why filtering conversations by usefulness backfires.</p><p>This episode is about dropping entitlement, letting go of expectations, and understanding that real relationships in the wedding industry are built on comfort, patience, and genuine interest - not strategy.</p><p>If networking in the wedding industry has ever felt awkward, forced, or disappointing, this episode will help explain why.</p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7edf7255-b572-4d3f-9a2a-f31fc78bfee0</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julian Ribinik]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2026 19:37:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/6fcd57b7ac0c4ec571294306b4c2e589531b9b44aa23c8b09010dfb61dc343bd/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3ZWRmNzI1NS1iNTcyLTRkM2YtOWEyYS1mMzFmYzc4YmZlZTAiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI4Y2QwODM5Yi0xNWQwLTRhMzYtODYzZC1hZmMwNDRhZmRjZDMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2M2FlM2Q4NzEyYzBlOTlmYTk5Y2Y5MTIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk4OGU0OWExNDNlZTE4M2RkNWUxMjUwL2p1bGlhbi1yaWJpbmlrcy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0yLThfXzIwLTMxLTM4Lm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="4048579" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;At industry events, it’s easy to start sorting people the moment a conversation begins - planner or not, useful or not, worth your time or not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That habit quietly ruins more connections than most people realize.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this episode, we break down why treating people as roles instead of humans creates pressure, kills trust, and leads to frustration after events. We explain why planners don’t want to talk shop, why everyone already has a referral network, and why filtering conversations by usefulness backfires.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This episode is about dropping entitlement, letting go of expectations, and understanding that real relationships in the wedding industry are built on comfort, patience, and genuine interest - not strategy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If networking in the wedding industry has ever felt awkward, forced, or disappointing, this episode will help explain why.&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:08:26</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/8cd0839b-15d0-4a36-863d-afc044afdcd3/logos/6194452a-83cb-4d8e-a007-20e77bac434e.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>2</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Everyone Is a Person, Not a Role</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Events Don’t “Work” (And Why That’s Normal)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This episode is focusing on the importance of trust and patience in building relationships. It emphasizes that events are not designed for immediate work outcomes, and success in networking requires a shift in mindset and approach.</p><p></p>]]></description><guid isPermaLink="false">7675d913-3960-4b49-934b-7b5214c9ab0e</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julian Ribinik]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2026 01:58:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.riverside.com/hosting-analytics/media/e49f00382c710101a4c88c8518b55c8cb8a64554acd236bb56441af32b002449/eyJlcGlzb2RlSWQiOiI3Njc1ZDkxMy0zOTYwLTRiNDktOTM0Yi03YjUyMTRjOWFiMGUiLCJwb2RjYXN0SWQiOiI4Y2QwODM5Yi0xNWQwLTRhMzYtODYzZC1hZmMwNDRhZmRjZDMiLCJhY2NvdW50SWQiOiI2M2FlM2Q4NzEyYzBlOTlmYTk5Y2Y5MTIiLCJwYXRoIjoibWVkaWEvY2xpcHMvNjk3ODFhNjlkYWUzZmNjZTM0ZTI2ZjM3L2p1bGlhbi1yaWJpbmlrcy1zdHVkaW8tY29tcG9zZXItMjAyNi0xLTI3X18yLTUyLTQxLm1wMyJ9.mp3" length="7639668" type="audio/mpeg"/><itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;This episode is focusing on the importance of trust and patience in building relationships. It emphasizes that events are not designed for immediate work outcomes, and success in networking requires a shift in mindset and approach.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:duration>00:09:58</itunes:duration><itunes:image href="https://hosting-media.riverside.com/media/podcasts/8cd0839b-15d0-4a36-863d-afc044afdcd3/logos/6194452a-83cb-4d8e-a007-20e77bac434e.png"/><itunes:season>1</itunes:season><itunes:episode>1</itunes:episode><itunes:title>Why Events Don’t “Work” (And Why That’s Normal)</itunes:title><itunes:episodeType>full</itunes:episodeType></item></channel></rss>